i am supposed to get married next summer, however i am having doubts. My guy is very jelious and constantly accuses me of cheating. when we go out he gets drunk and screams things at me ie whore. Unforunately all of our friends think that it is my fault and really dislike me now. I never cheated but he won't believe me. He even went as far as saying that the stains on my skirt was from another guy if you know what I mean. What should I do?
2006-07-02 10:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, you sound like your made for eachother.
You love him. He treats you like a dirtbag.
You let him do it.
so.? Happy Honeymoon.
2006-07-02 11:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its your fault for getting into the marriage with a guy you say is so horrible and treats you bad. If you call off the marriage the public will have an opinion on you and not many guys would want to have a serious relationship with you. So if you decide to call it off claim he was an excessive drinker, called you names, and made false accusations against you.
And there are always mariagge counselors. So, think if you really want to spend the rest of your life with an enraged husband.
2006-07-02 11:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by jet_tyrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump your enraged fiance before he becomes your enraged husband. Things will not get better but worse. Have some respect for yourself and think of any future children. Go to counselor or friends for support and dont put this off.
2006-07-02 10:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by cloud9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple but very hard:
Ask yourself if this is what you want for the next 50-60+ years.
Ask yourself if you want any future children subjected to this.
There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. It does happen and YOU can make it happen.
All the best...
2006-07-02 10:49:57 · answer #4 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being abusive and you deserve better.
kick his @$$ to the curb. that's what i would do, because life is WAY too short to waste it on losers like him.
If you don't want to do that, seek some counselling for you both before getting married.
Seriously -- don't marry this guy without some serious counselling.
2006-07-02 10:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by alter_tygo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is that abusive now it will only get worse after you are married. Get out while you can and don't worry about what other people think.
2006-07-02 16:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT GET MARRIED TO THIS GUY!!!!
if he doesn't trust you now, how can you have kids together, share finances, build a home? stop before its too late
2006-07-02 10:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy because...? Dump him now or divorce him later. My vote is to call it off now.
2006-07-02 10:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the ring back and find someone who actually loves you. With love comes trust and respect. He does not respect or trust you, therefore he cannot truly love you.
2006-07-02 10:47:05 · answer #9 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him i never meant to leave those stains and next time i will use a condom
2006-07-02 10:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋