Marriage & Divorce - 30 June 2006

I am dating a guy who is legally separated from his wife. They separated like 5 month's before we started dating. They both cheated on each other in their marriage and when my boyfriend needed her the most, she wasn't there. I know that they have to communicate until the divorce is final, which is in October, but should I allow then to communicate after words. They have nothing binding them together, no kids or anything. He said that he will always be her friend. I am finding all of this hard to deal with, I am 26 and I have never been married. Also, it bothers him that she just bought a new place with her new boyfriend. I am confused, I don't know what to think, I don't think that I am strong enough to deal with this for the rest of my life. They just sold their house they were sharing, she was living there, him not. As me and him were packing things, he got very depressed. Can anyone help me here, I don't even know what I am trying to ask.

2006-06-30 08:35:28 · 23 answers · asked by sag79 1

For the last four months my husband and I been separated, living in different homes and such. We been going out places, such as dinner and the movies, road trips, and etc. We are now constantly talking on the phone, sending text messages, and emails. We are communicating more than ever (which was the root of our breakup). We are separated because we both cheated and we are trying to fix our marriage. Divorce is not an option right now because we still love each other and our family. But my question is should we try to date first to ease back into our relationship or stay separated. It can be heartbreaking because we are not whole right now.

2006-06-30 08:33:45 · 25 answers · asked by RONNIEKAT 2

I have to make a choice whether or not to stay with my husband. We have alot of problems and stuff but we are willing to work through it, and we love each other. Although, I'm only 17 years old and married. I'm staying with a friend right now and she is willing to put me back in school and give me a car and get my liscence and stuff for me. BUT her and her husband are also having some issues they are dealing with. I'm so confused and I need some good advice. A psychiatrist would be great. I dont have much time to decide on this decision. I have to make the decision tonight. Please someone help me. Thanks so much, Ashley

2006-06-30 08:18:16 · 32 answers · asked by sweetpeaches_6915 2

We have been married for 4 years now. And well I am sometimes surious to know what happend before I came along. Everytime I ask he gets mad and says I am not going to tell you anything, because you get mad easily.

2006-06-30 08:16:16 · 30 answers · asked by clnavarro82 2

I think me and my husband are heading toward divorce and I can't take this crap any more!! Things have been rocky and now he is just being downright mean and saying hateful things and getting mad about little bitty small things, this isn't the man I married 5 years ago?! When was your breaking point? And how did it go, let me know if I can e-mail you for more questions!!

2006-06-30 08:14:19 · 22 answers · asked by kgirlmamma 1

2006-06-30 08:13:09 · 16 answers · asked by Andi 1

what are the laws if my wife leaves my home with in 7 days of marraige and is not interested in comming back inspite of my repeated requests can i file for a divorce

2006-06-30 08:09:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes im ok with everything thats happening around me, but then i just cant seem to put it all behind, and i start thinking about all the things he did.

2006-06-30 08:02:51 · 28 answers · asked by mariposa 1

I mean really hot guys have women flirting with them all the time. Should you be extra cautious if your man's really good looking?

2006-06-30 07:58:22 · 21 answers · asked by Tara R 1

2006-06-30 07:57:18 · 11 answers · asked by John D 1

My boyfriend latley made a new addition to our relationship by getting a whining human lap dog named Pete.

And my wonderful boyfriend is greatly attached to this new addition to our happy family. But it's getting very aggrevating and I don't think I can put a smile on my face and look the other way for too much longer.

We don't have the money to go out and do these things.

What do you say? How do you get your boyfirend to TAME the leech thats SUCKING???

Theres something a couple needs, alone time. Im sick of coming home only to find I can walk around the house naked because of Peter. I can't watch a movie, argue with my boyfriend, or just take a night to relax. Im getting sick of it.

Now hes offering his boyfriend a job where he works... and drive him to and from there... and just christ ya know?

How do you get your bf to tame his lapdog, or realize the whole thing is freaking creepy. I mean leave for the wknd and have 4 messages from the boyfriend creepy.

2006-06-30 07:49:22 · 6 answers · asked by Poestalker 4

i want some answers from women over age 40 please. I met a 52 yr old woman and we started a lite and sex only thing. She was living with her sister at this time, and i am a truck driver. Things were great at first, we made love like teenagers and i rented a place for us and we move in together in feb, we met in jan. a week after we move into the house, her adult dau moved in. in apr she quit her job to start a home based business. now when i come home after being gone 3 weeks she most times does not want to have sex right away and then when we do all she wants is me to put it in and finish. b4 we were very intimate and lots of 4play i have tried to bring flowers and cards. I just think she is super sexy and very beautiful and just want the loving touch of sex and intimacy. i think she used her vagina to HOOK me and now im paying for falling in love

2006-06-30 07:46:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a great husband, we have a pretty open relationship, but I love him and his best friend. I actually moved my family 700 miles away to get away from his friend, cause he loves me too. My husband is aware of all this and is cool with it. I would never leave my husband, love him too much, but the move hasn't helped. The friend calls me every week and tells me how much he misses me and how he can't wait to see me cause we're going back there on a trip, what do I do? I can't not see him cause my husband wants to go hang out, and if I don't go and stay at the hotel then everyone is going to be mad. What should I do? I know everyone is gonna say don't go, but my husband will be pissed cause I'm being "unsociable" with his friends but the whole situation makes me uncomfortable as I'm trying to make a new life.

2006-06-30 07:43:48 · 31 answers · asked by banshee 4

2006-06-30 07:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by Cowgirl 1

I recently found out that my husband has been online on one of those match maker sites only this one is rate X and he has his profile on there looking to meet new women and have bodage parties and stuff, I have no way of knowing if he has already hooked up with any one or just looking to but eaither way I feel VERY betrayd!! I am thinking of packing his things and telling him to go find one of these women to be with, if you can help leave me your e-mail address so I can talk. Thank you

2006-06-30 07:39:52 · 16 answers · asked by kgirlmamma 1

We have already gotton papers drawn up, but he decided he didnt want to sign and so he joined the gaurd. He leaves for basic in August and says I cant serve him while he is in training. Is this true. I want a divorce and now it will take an extra 3 months if this is true. He said he is going to wait his 60 days and by then he'll be in basic, so then I have to wait longer

2006-06-30 07:36:22 · 9 answers · asked by Crystal M 1

My KAFOs go from my toes to my thighs, with hinges at the knee. Shoes have to be wide, fully enclosed sides, at least 1 strap/laces. I can't go barefoot. Boots are best as I usually use crutches but intend to walk down the aisle without (hanging on to my fatehr for dear life!). So far I have failed to find anything, apart from White DMs (would that work?) or plimsolls. I'd put pretty ribbon or something instead of laces. What do you think?

2006-06-30 07:28:56 · 36 answers · asked by big_fat_goth 4

My husband is like "Pigpen." He leaves a trail where ever he goes. His car looks like a garbage can. Any room he spends time is a procrastinators heaven. He has stuff everywhere, and does not pick it up no matter how mad I get, how many agreements we make, how much we discuss or argue about it. He has taken over my world and does not seem to care. Please help

2006-06-30 07:23:14 · 13 answers · asked by faith2u 2

my husband says sometimes wen we have sex i get too wet and he cant feel anything. ive always been blessed w/multiple orgasms but he never said this b4. i thought wet was a good thing. wen this happens i usually finish him w/a hand job. if thats wat he wants all he has to do is ask. weve been married 20 years and r certainly comfortable asking 4 wat we want. does this ever happen to u?

2006-06-30 07:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by scooter trash 2

my wife says she still "cares" about her ex, i dont realy know how she means it.. she says she cares about us in a diff way but still cares about him. i dont understand wemon , to me if you still care for them you still have feelings for them. she demands to stay in contact with im even though they dont have any kids or anything. i dont mind for them talking but i dont feel that his intentions are "innocent" . i guees my real question is for the ladies, what does she mean ???? and do i have anything to be concerned about?

2006-06-30 07:16:30 · 8 answers · asked by lost_n_texas44 1

Married men, would you take your wife with you to Los Vegas on your first time ever going, or would you go with the guys? Why or why not?

2006-06-30 07:12:57 · 13 answers · asked by BigTyme 2

2006-06-30 07:10:55 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been engaged for 3yrs and just found out that he has not gotten a divorce from his wife like he claimed he would. He is active in the army and we have been goin out on and off for goin on 10yrs. Between our break up he got married and I had a child. Should i give him the benfit of the doubt and trust that he will do as he has promise or move on?

2006-06-30 07:09:50 · 5 answers · asked by newyorkcutie08 1

it's not that i dont trust him 'cause i know he'll protect me & i've never felt so safe when he's around.it's just that he cant be around me 24-7 he works.what do i do?

2006-06-30 07:08:40 · 12 answers · asked by teddybear 1

I had a property settlement drawn up in my divorce that stated that I would not persue alimony in my divorce if my exhusband took full financial responsibility for a 2002 mitsubishi eclipse loan. Well after the divorce he had the car repossed because he didnt pay the loan and then filed bankruptcy. The loan company then came after me for the monies owed so I had to file bankruptcy. Anyway my question is, since he didnt take financial responsibility on the car like agreed in our property settlement, do I have any claim to file for alimony or damages?

2006-06-30 07:06:23 · 7 answers · asked by Shorty 2

My boyfriend jokes around a lot where I never know when to take him seriously. Over dinner last night, he mentioned that we should get house, get married and squeeze a couple of kids. Should I take that as a hint?

2006-06-30 07:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by Trixi Curious 3

2006-06-30 07:05:49 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to get married but our budget is limited
i want a traditional wedding and to still be classy but with less of the cost.
i've looked at tieing the knot abroad but there are people i would want there that could not afford to fly abroad.
Please help any ides please.

2006-06-30 07:02:18 · 15 answers · asked by gopotters06 1

2006-06-30 07:01:58 · 14 answers · asked by eggman124 1

2006-06-30 07:01:35 · 9 answers · asked by fakeid412 2