Marriage & Divorce - 30 June 2006

2006-06-30 15:42:39 · 31 answers · asked by ? 6

On reflection,would you rather have a dog/cat than a husband/wife?

2006-06-30 15:40:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

You and your husband is separated and we are trying to make it work. He is however different in educational level and interest to you. He is sometimeish. So most times you are alone. Most of your friends are looking for a date, so you can't hang out with them. Basically you are alone.

2006-06-30 15:38:12 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny 2

2006-06-30 15:33:49 · 6 answers · asked by cptcanuck2 4

My x was very controling and kept me under his thumb. I didn't have any friends. He works for a barge company and is gone 28 days at a time. When he was in for 28 days everything would be fine but when he left he would take our children/three year old twins and separate them between his mother and his sister only because he tricked me into giving him custody after going thrugh post-partom depression when they were born. I was left alone with my 1 year old daughter for 28 days and was not alowed to see my twins because of his mother and sister. I have left him and have my baby with me. He is interfering with my mail, has cut off my cell phone, and is trying to say that the property we own is all his. He is also trying to sue me for custody of my youngest daughter. What should I do he has left me basicaly homeless and without an income with a year old child?????

2006-06-30 15:23:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he suspects either i m on phone or i sit in front of computer even i m mother of 2 kids .i have pleasant nature so i make friends very fast .to have friends is sin, what? he is less qualified and he feels all the time insecure.how can i win his faith some time i fed up

2006-06-30 15:21:44 · 7 answers · asked by shruti 1

2006-06-30 15:08:59 · 40 answers · asked by tony moura 2

I married 2 1/2 months ago and i wasn't able to trust him much because i heard him on the phone with another girl and i don't know if it's normal to feel like I made a mistake?

2006-06-30 15:05:34 · 21 answers · asked by Veronica M 2

husbands hanging out with friends...going to bars, and how late should they stay out?

2006-06-30 15:01:15 · 31 answers · asked by thaithaismom 2

does it have to be that way?

2006-06-30 15:01:11 · 9 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6

I have a friend that is in the process of a divorce she lives in arkansas but her soon to be ex lives in texas (dallas County) Right now he has there son with him and they were suppose to have went to court on it this week but he changed lawyers at the last minute so he could get a continuance. In the new papers she got today in the mail it said that there has been no guardinanship ordered for this child. But in her old papers from the other attorney it said that the father had temporary custody.. She is suppose to go and get her son tomorrow but in the old papers it said that she could not bring him to her residence and leave texas with him. My question is Since the new papers have been issued would the old ones become void? And second since it says in the new papers that guardianship has not been issued then doesnt that mean that either one of the could have him? And my last question is shouldnt she be able to take him to her house for visitation? Serious responses only

2006-06-30 15:00:42 · 13 answers · asked by Angel H 2

2006-06-30 14:58:53 · 23 answers · asked by bunky 2

I ask my wife to do simple things for me that would mean the world to me but she never does them. Excuse after excuse. I tell her I really feel unloved because everything that I want and need in our relationship means nothing to her. Even small simple things. she wont take an interest in our sex life or my life in general. I beg her to initiate communication between us so out marriage can grow instead of falling apart but she WILL not be bothered. Will not even talk to me, the basic most ingredient needed for a marriage. This has been going on the last couple of years, she knows it is tearing me up but she seemingly does not care. I'm at the point of calling it quits, any advice?

2006-06-30 14:47:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-30 14:43:47 · 19 answers · asked by Andy S 3

When it's good (90% of time) it blows me away. Beyond dreams. Beautiful spiritual connection. He's got big baggage that he's actively pulling out to deal with. He's determined to heal and inspiring in his approach. Last year he had the worst depressive, then worst manic episode of his life. Came through to a strong, healthy place. But it scared the crap out of him. Me too. Him - medication, therapists, good friends, big choices, self care. Me - feel isolated, scared and maybe stupid. 15 yrs ago I chose an abusive man. Lots of solid growth since then. Learned to love myself. Love this man. Love who he is. Love who I am with him. But his bipolar possibilities TERRIFY me. No physical fear, just confusion, loneliness, isolation, frustration, lack of dependability. No children or big $$ involved. Just hearts.

Can there be hope?

2006-06-30 14:33:50 · 6 answers · asked by kittensaver 1

recently I've found several things that don't make sense to me and when I asked her about them . If she doesn't get mad , or change the subject , or just refuses to answer , or turns it around and makes it as I'm the bad guy by telling me I had no right to look there . Or you're just blowing things out of proportion there's nothing to worry about . This is all OK except the questions I ask never get answered and has a love her very much and have always trusted her . All these things are adding up and causing my suspicions and even jealousy to become a problem for me to control myself so far I've been able to control these feelings but now she tells me she must work late on paperwork which isn't out of the ordinary but this is a very special weekend and work cannot always be this important besides she works tomorrow . Is it wrong for me or even dangerous to my relationship for me to check up on her I guess you would call it spying if she caught me the damage would be I don't trust

2006-06-30 14:33:28 · 7 answers · asked by unsure 1

The sex is really good, but there just doesn't seem to be much romance, which is something I need desperately!!!! Please help me.

2006-06-30 14:27:24 · 12 answers · asked by wendi g 1

I have been dating a guy for 2 1/2 years and things are great but he says he never wants to get married? What gives? How can I get him to change his mind?

2006-06-30 14:24:31 · 11 answers · asked by Laurie 1

We have been together for 5 years and he is a divorced man with two kids(10and 13). He has been divorced for 8 years now. I want to be married and have my own kids but I worry because if I wait to late he'll be close to 50 and having a new set of kids.

2006-06-30 14:24:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband walked out on me one month ago yesterday (we don't have any children). I have a job now, but it's a family business, so basically I'm working for my parents. Since he's been gone I have been SO INCREDIABLY lonely! I live in a really small town (less than 2000 people). I don't know any single people my age (37). Where do I go to meet people? And before you say a club, the closest one is about 2 hours away. How do I keep from being SO lonely? It's like, I come home from work, walk in the house and go...ok....what now? Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-06-30 14:24:16 · 11 answers · asked by carolscreation 4

2006-06-30 14:21:20 · 6 answers · asked by speechlessneanderthal 2

2006-06-30 14:17:46 · 7 answers · asked by Andy S 3

2006-06-30 14:08:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are both very heavy and we can't have sex. His weewee is too small. We have tried numerous positions and nothing works. We have been married for three years and it sucks to not have sex. I know that losing weight would be the best and we will have to work on it, but it's very fusterating! Also, how do you get a guy to like kissing? He does not care to kiss that much. I am kiss starved! Any help would be welcome!

2006-06-30 14:04:50 · 22 answers · asked by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4

I've been with my Fiance' for 3 years. I love her, she loves me. Our first year of being together I was in Film School so it was a long distance relationship. The first month after I left, she slept with two guys. She finaly, with tears in her eyes, told me yesterday. The guys she had sex with were kind of my friends every since I got back from school. I keep seeing my girl with them in my head and it's killing me. I was stupid enough to ask how it happened and now the images are even more vivid and stomache turning. Just the thought of those bastards holding my woman and making her feel the things that only I'm supposed to screws with my thoughts almost constantly. Does anyone know any books, couselor technigues, or anything that can help me get over this. I am not going to end this relationship because we've been together to long and it is to strong. I just need someone to give me some mind and imagination control. Any advice will be helpfull. Thank you America

2006-06-30 14:03:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-30 13:54:42 · 4 answers · asked by Kat 2

2006-06-30 13:40:19 · 17 answers · asked by Cliff C 1

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2006-06-30 13:39:20 · 16 answers · asked by Handsup 3

Here we go again. Today I asked my husband to let me call his ex wife in CT to see if she would be willing to drop her name off of the joint account that they both share since my husband wants to keep it because his car insurance comes out of it. My husband flips, basically says heck no, and then hangs the phone up in my face. I call him back, and ask him what is the deal and he replies, "this whole thing is nonsence, she is not going to talk to you, what do you have to say to her anyway, I'm the one who is going to have to pay the price for this"???? What? By now I'm confused so he continues with, "you are pregant with twins no less, and therefore your hormones will make you unreasonable". By now, I am thoroughly disgusted. What do you think is really going on?

2006-06-30 13:34:50 · 32 answers · asked by candy0813 3

2006-06-30 13:32:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous