he suspects either i m on phone or i sit in front of computer even i m mother of 2 kids .i have pleasant nature so i make friends very fast .to have friends is sin, what? he is less qualified and he feels all the time insecure.how can i win his faith some time i fed up
2006-06-30 15:21:44 · 7 answers · asked by shruti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like he is too possesive. Try to get him in for counseling. If he won't go, leave him.
2006-06-30 15:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you. It would be worse if it were the other way around, wouldn't it? Looks to me like he's afraid of the relationship falling apart. You need to help him trust you. When in public or around other men- pay more attention to him then to them. The extra affection/respect and attention will do the trick and you will find your husband full of confidence and definitely a better husband for it. Also, he might be interpreting your extrovert attitude for flirtatiousness, so again try to give him the reassurance he is looking for. Wishing you the best in your marriage!!
2006-06-30 22:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jennica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he envies your ability to make friends with ease. Both of you should sit down and discuss issues that are bothering you both. Try intoducing some of your friends to your husband. This way, he might get less suspicious. You can also try being extra sweet to him just to calm him down. Hope that works for you. Good luck.
2006-07-06 15:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by no_jabberwocky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is good to make friends, but bad to do it in a way that hurts your marriage. If your kids are young, you might try joining a playgroup to meet other moms. If he is suspicious, invite him along and let him see what you do. Invite your friends over, let him meet them. He should trust you and should let you talk to people, but it's pretty common for husbands and wives to be suspicious of "Internet friendships".
2006-06-30 22:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gf is also very possessive around me, i like it though i think its cute, shes always asking me where i am who im with what im doing when will i be home, she doesnt like my friends but its okay i hate her friends too haha, well a couple are okay... but you do learn to live with it and she does trust me, its other people she doesnt trust... your husband needs to learn to trust you.
2006-06-30 22:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your body languages have negatively impressed him to do so! Keep on loving him affectionately!
2006-06-30 22:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dogman 61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling might help, or if u just talk to him. u need to let him kno that he can trust you
2006-06-30 22:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by somepaliguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋