We are both very heavy and we can't have sex. His weewee is too small. We have tried numerous positions and nothing works. We have been married for three years and it sucks to not have sex. I know that losing weight would be the best and we will have to work on it, but it's very fusterating! Also, how do you get a guy to like kissing? He does not care to kiss that much. I am kiss starved! Any help would be welcome!
2006-06-30 14:04:50 · 22 answers · asked by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just wanted to add, yes, we married each other because we love each other. I just thought maybe someone would have some ideas. And yes, I know some people would not want kiss me, but it's their loss! LOL! :P
2006-06-30 18:09:21 · update #1
First of all, you cannot make him do something that he doesn't want to do.Also,you married him that way and you must have known how he was before you married him.Okay, if you can't have sex because he isn't big and the weight gets in the way, then yes, it's time to go on a diet TOGETHER!!If it's really affecting your sex life, and you want it back, then...get it back.Start walking together, watch what you eat, and be each others support.In the meantime, there are always things that you can do sexually, without having sex.Oral is always fun and this you can do.This will have to keep the intamicy alive until you are able to have intercourse again.Good luck.
2006-06-30 14:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your right, weight lose is the best way for it. Iam a heavy woman, but what helps is that my hubby not that big. Nor is he that skinny either. I feel bad for ya. Have ya'll try all the positions you can think of ? What about getting a sex book ?
As far as kissing. I don't know, hard to help when I get kiss. Ummm....what about giving him pecks on the cheek ? Then move down to the lips ? Start kissing him all over, show him how good it feels.
Really thats all I can think of. I hope later on, you will finaly get a bunch of kisses from him. Good Luck !!
2006-06-30 21:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must have been a reason why the 2 of you got married. I hope it was for love, and not for convenience of the fact that you are both large. It does'nt really matter what the problem is. If the 2 of you are going to be happily married, you have to be a team; and that means a dual responsibilty to make the marriage work.
2006-06-30 21:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by runner45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course losing weight is the healthiest answer but it's not that easy to do and takes a while to accomplish, talk to him about your feelings and your needs, toys are a good option for the sex but express your need for kissing, he could kiss you while pleasing you with the toys, he may even get excited doing this
2006-06-30 21:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by judy j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u are a beautiful lady and i don't think u should be asking people on here a personal question like that and to make it a fun thing with your husband yawl might can walk together or join a club with him like YMCA or curves you would have fun with your husband and you would have lost the wait in no Time and these people on here are immature so don't listen to what they got to say and good luck
2006-06-30 22:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a hard one. I dont think weight should be a problem. there are lots of over weight people having sex and they do fine. I think you need to find help from a docotor.
2006-06-30 21:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by allie laught alot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose some fuc*ing weight, that should solve everything, see you had the answer all along, but you can't get the 10 points.
2006-06-30 21:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're such a fat pig, that you're lucky anyone will walk within ten feet of you.
Fatsos like you and mr. piggy there obviously have oral fixations, so he can move your bellies aside to eat some fatty snatch and you can slurp some loser pee pee.
I wouldn't kiss you either. I'd be afraid you'd try to eat my tongue.
Nuff said.
2006-06-30 22:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by donaldfrickingduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some websites that give some solutions to this problem. It's not uncommon, apparently. Please don't be offended that some of the sites use words like "fat" or "obese," just look for the info you can use.
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/69_love_tip.html
http://www.vitalinfocenter.com/articles/overweight_sex.html
http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/dimtext/positions/fat_sex.html
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/fatsex.html
http://www.more2hug.com/articles/sex.html
2006-06-30 21:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he would do alot better if he wasnt so withdrawn and hating himself get some tharapy or go to overeaters anonomous it will really help if you could get him to feel more confident in who he is get a toy and show him how to use it on you
2006-06-30 21:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by EZE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋