Marriage & Divorce - 30 June 2006

2006-06-30 04:34:08 · 3 answers · asked by teresabonitaus 1

2006-06-30 04:29:49 · 18 answers · asked by Erica 3

My fiance watches internet porn when i'm not around. We've had many talks about how much it hurts me & makes me upset for days, but he still does it sometimes anyway. He says that it's not that often, and that he usually only does it if he can't concentrate to study, or if he can't sleep, but the other day he just did it becuase he felt like it. he said,"if he wants to do it sometimes, damnit, he's going to". He seems bothered that I bring it up when it happens, and he seems bothered that it bothers me so much.
We've tried to come to compromise that he'd cut down on how often, but i'm still not feeling better. I'm sad for days after. I don't know how to talk to him about it anymore, because I get the feeling that it just makes us both upset and nothing changes anyway.
Not getting married isn't an option, I love him more than anything, and this is our only big issue, but i'm very hurt. any ideas on what I should do next?

2006-06-30 04:27:42 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 10 years of marriage, my husband told me that he had to tell me about a secret he has been keeping for 14 years. He was questioned in a child sexual abuse case. (The case was dropped due to lack of evidence.) The victim was a four-year-old boy. My husband worked in a daycare center part-time and a boy in his class named him as the person who performed oral on him and said he performed oral on my husband. All this happened three years before I met him. I'm so furious!!! We have three children together. The trouble is that since our marriage has gotten so bad, and he lies to me so often, I can't believe anything he says anymore. What do I do? If I had known this, I NEVER would have married him. HELP!

2006-06-30 04:27:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you believe they are still your soulmate

2006-06-30 04:19:14 · 12 answers · asked by san_ann68 6

when I was in my country I like a girl very much and it seem she like me too but we haven't been a boyfriend/girlfriend yet but now I go to abroad maybe two month so I miss her very very much but I don't know what she thinking.Can you tell me?

2006-06-30 04:16:27 · 8 answers · asked by Jing 2

I was told I would get half of the value of my husbands pension and I could get half of his social security. How does this work and when do you collect this?? Thanks

2006-06-30 04:15:03 · 1 answers · asked by I love winter 7

I ended my marriage last year but he only moved out five months ago (we have two children)...i've started seein someone else which my ex isn't happy about it but because he saw my new guy drop me off at home he came in and took the microwave telly and kettle can he do this or am i just bein a push over...again...

2006-06-30 04:13:32 · 22 answers · asked by sexylady804614 3

women are drawn to my husband and they talk to him about their problems with their relationships. he says there is nothing for me to worry about but i feel that there is more to the situations. some of these women say things like i love you and call his cell phone or sends text mgs. i'm i reading too much into this

2006-06-30 04:10:41 · 10 answers · asked by chris b 1

2006-06-30 04:07:47 · 73 answers · asked by T-Dizzle 2

Whatever my husband savings ,they always took from him by telling their fake needs,although my sisters in law are married and well established ,but they keep on telling lies and do a lot interference in my personal life,please advice me some solution to how to deal this situation and make them good with me??

2006-06-30 04:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

she loves to cuddle and touch and be close to me which is great, but I like wild sex and sometimes a little freaky, (w/out going into details) how do I get her a little motivated, knowledgeable, any advise, only women please. I know what guys would say have her watch porn!! thats not what I'm looking for?

2006-06-30 04:03:16 · 13 answers · asked by Mr. Advise = ) 2

ideal about this.my husband fulfills my needs in everyway i love him to death but i also want to have an experiance with another female before i let my husband know

2006-06-30 03:52:48 · 15 answers · asked by ROSIE B 1

I have married a wonderful man, but he has a bad habbit of not doing things he says he will do :making appointments, promises, etc....and not keeping them, not doing them like he said he would. Several people (including me) have been hurt by this behavior and thus people do not want to count on him for anything - not even for small things because we all just end up picking up his slack or else we pay the price for it not being done. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets VERY ANGRY and does not accept it. (I've tried direct, indirect, bribes, sweet and soft, firm and demanding, ect)

I have my share of flaws, but I am tired of making excuses and picking up the pieces for a grown man. I just end up doing everything for him on top of doing everything by myself. HELP! How can I help him be a "man of his word"? 'Am I expecting too much of my man?

2006-06-30 03:50:54 · 27 answers · asked by butterflyfan23 1

2006-06-30 03:47:25 · 12 answers · asked by slingshot 3

i met and fell in love with a 75 yrold man but i am worried he is too old i am 44 and we are good together he is very active do u think we can get married without objective

2006-06-30 03:43:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

How will I know if the love is worth staying or is the love just blinding me from the truth

2006-06-30 03:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-30 03:36:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

but we love each other and we keep saying that we want to continue living with each other. But we hate how we feel like the other person doesn't understand....help

2006-06-30 03:34:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-30 03:33:26 · 18 answers · asked by jonps 1

I have been divorced for almost a year from my husband. He was physically abusive, he was sleeping around on me, and was constantly drunk. My pastor agreed that these were grounds for a divorce and that I was not sinning. He also discussed remarriage. I am only 25 and have two little kids.

Recently I began dating. I have met a WONDERFUL man and he is meshing well with my family. He is also divorced, he wife was sleeping around on him. He is 35.

We have talked about marriage, but we are working together to make sure that this is the best for both of us. We are very passionate towards each other, we love each other very much. Is it a sin to have sex out of marriage if you are getting RE-married? I was a virgin with my husband, but I am not sure what the rules are once your divorced. Any wisdom? Thank you so much. God Bless you all!

2006-06-30 03:30:44 · 23 answers · asked by davidswiphey 1

Inbetween relationships, even if it was boring, I still masturbate frequently. Does the wife or husband get more tired of it?

2006-06-30 03:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by Ben Jammin 2

First he says he wants to see me with someone else in bed (male) then he says he wants another female is this just his way of saying he wants an affair

2006-06-30 03:11:27 · 15 answers · asked by tryme 1

My husband is only home on wkends. He thinks I should have sex with him all wkend long. I miss him when he's gone.. but if I'm not in the mood he gets mad. Am I suppose to give it up even if I'm not in the mood?

2006-06-30 03:09:39 · 17 answers · asked by West Virginia Gal 2

Just curious. please give me an honest answer.

2006-06-30 03:06:46 · 2 answers · asked by chamomile 1

Why is it that women find men more appealing or attractive when they have a girlfriend or wife, than when you're alone and looking for someone? This happened to me, I find that more women want me now that I am taken. I get several offers a day to have a side relationship. Anyone else has had this problem?

2006-06-30 03:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by BigTyme 2

What are your reasons for being single?

Mine:

I'm not weak, clingy, needy or need the security blanket of a lifetime companon.
I can get sex without having to BRIBE a woman for sex with dinner, flowers, cards, jewelry, etc etc.
I am in control of all my money
Don't have to deal with constant whining, nagging, complaining about stupid stuff.
Can do anything I want, whenever I want, with whoever I want.
The world is your sexual buffet instead of sleeping with the same person for the rest of your life.
You don't have to constant ly wonder if your partner/spouse is cheating on you.
With the ridiculously high 60% divorce rate I don't have to worry about financial ruin that comes from divorce.

These are just a few of mine, I could write a novel on this.

2006-06-30 03:00:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend Christina got engaged about one year ago. her fiance live in Germany, and was over here for just one year. She dated him anyways and fell in love with him. he asked her to marry him a couple of weeks before he left. she said yes. everything was alright with them until the calls started getting infrequent. he stopped returning her emails. now he is coming back and she does not know what to do. she still loves him more than life and wants to go see him. and he still loves her. but the distance is making it hard. he wants her to come to the airport to see her but she does not know what to do. she really wants to see him. She asked me what to do and i told her that i really didn't know. what do you guys think that she should do. i am lost here.

2006-06-30 02:59:53 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel S 2

2006-06-30 02:52:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is the Situation: A old man has an two story house, he lives upstairs his son and common law wife live down stairs with their children. the son dies. The Son Wife always treat his father bad, she don't do any thing for him, He's an Very old man but he does not want to live in the home for the age.
The rest of his children live a plane ride aways. And he has one Daughter that look after him regulary, she has a family to take care off, when she goes to see him the SonW & Children Treat Her bad as well She HAs Title To The House and Land. The Son Who Die wife Spend all there money in clubs, party you name it she done it. Her 5 childern are 20 & up they work but don't pay a bill or clean the place. All The Son W and Children do work home sleep party.They all Stole Document that the Grand F had.
How can The daughter get it back?
They don't take care of there Grand Father or help the situation.
Should the Grand Father/ daugther put them Out?
What Should they Do?

2006-06-30 02:50:26 · 4 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4