ideal about this.my husband fulfills my needs in everyway i love him to death but i also want to have an experiance with another female before i let my husband know
2006-06-30 03:52:48 · 15 answers · asked by ROSIE B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let him watch and call it even.
2006-06-30 03:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by bay area curious george 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh are you asking for trouble. Honestly this is something you seriously need to discuss with your husband, do not go out and have a tryst with a female and then tell your husband, that's cheating you know? And your husband may just see it blatently as cheating and the consequences may not be something you would want to deal with. Talk to him, let him know your desires and see what he thinks, if he's put off by the whole idea then you have your answer, and if you then go out and have an experience with a woman anyway......that's cheating. If you love your husband, honor your vows, and as you say he fullfills your needs, then don't do it if he's against it. And under no certain terms do it without him knowing.
2006-06-30 03:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow419 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. If that's something you both want, and are comfortable with the situation. BUT think it over don't dive into it and then have regrets. It's totally both your decision, every relationship is different and the two of you know what your comfort levels are.
This could totally be a AWESOME experience for you & your man.Experimenting is the glue that holds a couple together. Like I said though talk it over & be sure this is what you both want.
Good Luck!
2006-06-30 04:15:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lee Ann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....the way you are trying to go about it is cheating. You should be able to talk to your hubby about this. I am in the Lifestyle and love every minute of it. If you talk to him and get his permission, I am sure that you would have a blast. If you go behind his back and get caught, you might risk your marriage. I am going to post a couple of websites here for you to check out on this kind of thing.
Good luck! Women are wonderful and I hope that you get what you want!
2006-06-30 03:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can result either in disastor or completely exciting and fun for all concerned. It all depends on how you are going to present it to him and how he reacts. If he is up for the game go for it. If he disapproves or looks concerned drop the idea for the time being. Give him some time to ponder about it.
2006-06-30 04:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by exoticncurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl your crazy to invite another women to your room that calls for disaster in your home and with your husband what happens if he likes it and continues to carry out a relationship with this other women behind your back. Then you can blame yourself for letting it happen
2006-06-30 03:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by barbie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stupid. Also a lesbian if you want that. But, if you do it then your husband will be hooking up with your friend for the rest of your marriage.
2006-06-30 03:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by swaman33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find out what your husbands feelings is about that.Once you get caught,you could be history.
2006-06-30 04:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by william5109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Present it to him properly and I'm sure he'll be excited about helping you fulfill your fantasies.
2006-06-30 03:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and make him feel secure to your reasons why you want to do this so there are no secrets. I bet he will love the idea.
2006-06-30 03:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea to do that. It is a form of cheating and he may see it that way.
2006-06-30 03:55:21 · answer #11 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋