Why is it that women find men more appealing or attractive when they have a girlfriend or wife, than when you're alone and looking for someone? This happened to me, I find that more women want me now that I am taken. I get several offers a day to have a side relationship. Anyone else has had this problem?
2006-06-30 03:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by BigTyme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
single people who aren't getting laid come off as being a little bit more desperate sometimes. i've had this discussion with friends. generally if you have a girlfriend or wife, you are more natural and confident in yourself. you don't feel you have to impress anyone anymore. people (not just women) in general are attracted to the assertive and happy looking people. also, girlfriends make you look after your appearance a little more than you would have previously. (unfortunately : ) )
2006-06-30 03:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by the man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They figure that if you have a girlfriend then you must be doing something right. No girl wants the loner guy. They figure that if He's not with someone then He must not be worth having. You should get a good looking female friend to escort you to the bars and pay a bit of attention to you and then the women will come out of the woodwork.
2006-06-30 10:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by I'manalienfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must hang around really insecure women....
A woman finds a "taken" guy more attractive only when she is so insecure that she needs to feel superior to other women not just because a guy "picked her" but because "another woman's guy picked her"
These people like the rush that "they won" and they took something away, which must mean they are especially sexy / hot / desireable
But guess what, all they win is a loser guy who is unfaithful and not committed and they are still insecure and need to steal away yet another guy to feel better for that moment.... fun, huh?
2006-06-30 18:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Finnale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in many peoples nature to want what they can't have. Or to see if they cant get what they are not supposed to have. These women obviously don't have much self respect if they are willing to be the side chick. So i wouldn't even let these women temp me (if I were you) because most likely they have a whole bunch of side dudes. and You are just another pawn in the sick game of home wrecking!!!
2006-06-30 10:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Pisces Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a bit concieted arent you? I have no idea maybe women want to know what your like now that you have somebody, where before they were not interested in ya. Who knows,
2006-06-30 10:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Moose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you are taken, you are happy and you glow. Happiness and confidence is extremely attractive, whereas, when you are single and looking, you might look sad and desperate,
2006-06-30 10:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the neediness in the single guy. Neediness and insecurity are big turnoffs.
2006-06-30 10:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Deepthi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women/men always wnat something they know they can't have. also it's a safe net for that person to flirt with you to have attention when thye know your not available.
2006-06-30 10:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by clairhead222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always want what we can't have.
Don't know what you got until it's gone.
2006-06-30 10:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋