First he says he wants to see me with someone else in bed (male) then he says he wants another female is this just his way of saying he wants an affair
2006-06-30 03:11:27 · 15 answers · asked by tryme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is just what turns him on. He wants you to talk to him about this stuff to turn him on. Some guys just talk about fantasies, but they don't actually do them. If you too are married then you should consider that sacred and just fantasize.
2006-06-30 03:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not saying he wants to have an affair, but it does raise a few flags. Talk to him specifically about -why- he wants to do it.
Threesomes are very tough to negotiate emotionally - especially during the aftermath. Someone always tends to want more, and that leads to hurt feelings and a can of worms you really shouldn't open.
If -you- enjoy women and want to be with a woman, and he wants to watch, fine, but if this is all going to be about him, tread very VERY lightly.
2006-06-30 03:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just his way of showing he want to advance himself sexually with others and not just his spouse.
The fact that he wants to see another man have sex with his wife is not only repulsive but down right disrespectful.
If my husband or boyfriend would ever suggest such disrespect of my morals and character, I will be finish with such person because their behavior is a recipe for sexually transmitted diseases including deadly ones.
If he wants to sleep with others outside of his relationship or marriage, I suggest he become a bachelor again because marriage is suppose to be a form of sanctity and respect.
2006-06-30 03:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The turn on of having someone new involved is very strong, and I think if you opened your mind and not let the possessive thoughts invade the situation, it could be a very fulfilling experience for both of you.
2006-06-30 03:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has lost respect for you, and he can go to any limit to fufill his sexual desires, love him but don't spoil him, actually there are so many girls now a days who wants to open there legs for everybody, so that is not the fault of Ur hub.
2006-06-30 03:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by tariq o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO this is a way of daying he is a psycho if he married u he should want u and u only with him only and not anybody else
2006-06-30 04:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he isnt really happy with your love life now and just wants to spice it up. Personally i would never have a threesome because....ewwww.
2006-06-30 03:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's his way of saying that he isn't getting enough and he thought that introducing another person would help you open up those great looking legs.
2006-06-30 03:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all
3some are one of the most availabel ways to share love and dreams
2006-06-30 03:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I would never go for it, but if you're up for it it's OK. But never do anything like that just to please him, you could never take it back. I believe marriage is with one person only and is sacred.
2006-06-30 03:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by teamkimme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋