2006-06-30 03:36:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have to ask, you're not in love.
2006-06-30 03:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by antistaticuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-07-01 02:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love with someone is getting excited to see them, still get butterflies when your about to make love, be able to laugh with each other over anything, and feel like the luckiest person alive for being with them. Love is caring for someone and knowing it would be okay from a dstance or being without them for a week or more.
2006-06-30 12:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by christinandjed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like what you have for your family. Being in love is totally different. It's what your heart feels for someone else.
2006-06-30 10:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by tdogg465 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can "love" anyone, but you can only be "in-love" with one! Ask yourself; can I really live without____, can I and do I want to live the rest of my life with____. Try to imagine life without____, then you will know the difference!
2006-06-30 10:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Princesses Pound Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋