How do you keep your husband form cheating? I've tryed the whole having sex everynight thing, not working!

Answer 1

is this an arrange marriage if so u should try to know if he loved someone else before marriage then if he does u should divorce him because he can never be yours then and if it is not the situation then also u should leave him because he is a cheat i know it is not easy to leave someone u love but if this is going to be the same whole life then y do u spoil your life after such man. anyways all the best for ur future.

Answer 2

You can't keep him from cheating by doing anything! He has to finally realize that what he is doing is wrong. He will not stop until he starts putting you first and it's possible that he will never stop. What I suggest is to start working on whatever may be lacking in yourself. We ALL have issues that need to be fixed. Take the focus off of him and put it on yourself. You will see improvements in not only you but also in your relationship. After you've done some work on you and you're feeling pretty good about yourself, if he is still acting out in this manner then it's time to take the steps to divorce him. Also, that may shake him up and make him realize what he is going to be missing out on and be the thing that he needs to change. However, never say you're going to do something if you don't have every intention of following through with it, because it will backfire on you and you will appear to have no willpower and you will also appear to be manipulating your husband.

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Answer 3

Now this question worries me. Is he cheating, has he cheated in the past, do you have children?? Or do you pleasure him everynight and notice hes still looking at other womyn?

Hmm, this is a dilemma. So heres a bit of advice, no matter wat your circumstance is your children would rather have no father than one that cheats on their mother. If you have no kids, and your husband is already pulling the cheating game its time to cut your losses and get out.

But if you have kids and he is cheating this is what you need to realize. No matter how old or young they are, they are going to find out eventually. Whether it's now or 20 years from now your children will know. If you as a mother know you husband has cheated, and do nothing about it other than pleasure him more your kids will see you as a failure. What is worst, having a respectable mother, or a flimsy one?

Most couples stay together, for the sake of their children. Did you ever think that when your kids hit teenage years, they might not respect what you say because it doesn't matter. Because if dad cheated on mom, what sounds like on more than one occasion, it doesn't matter what mom thinks or says.

Think about it. The second your hubbie cheats it's time to get out.

Answer 4

Unfortunately you can't keep someone from cheating. There are many reasons or excuses that men and women use to cheat. They either are no longer interested but don't know how to tell you - they can't see themselves with one person for the rest of their lives - they are bored - or my favorite is that they need to sow their oats. Cheating is a selfish act and the people who do cheat really can't be trusted. Also once a person cheats, they will always cheat. The best thing I can say, is that he doesn't deserve you if he's out trying to be with other people.

Answer 5

Honestly, I don't think you can. The problem is not you. It's him. If he is unhappy, he needs to be a grown up and tell you about it. If it is not something that can be fixed or that he wants to fix, then you will both have to be big enough to let it be over. It's hard, and it stinks, but that is really the only thing you can do. You need to get a straight answer out of him as to why this is happening. If you cannot or he will not give one, then he is not ready to deal with the problem (or simply does not want to), and you would be better off to get it overwith now instead of later. Having been through this twice, because I did not listen well to friends who tried to help, I now know that much. I hope it helps you.

Answer 6

The sex every night thing...not a good ideal take it from me...pussy gets old after a while the same thing all the time makes the man want to find out what else is out there. Try getting all made up and whatching a porno with him every once in a while I bet that will drive him wild .....tell him what u like about the guys...ask him what he likes about the girls...he'll think twice about cheating and want to see what turns u on. TRUST ME!!!!!!

Answer 7

Honey, I don't think any women can keep a man from cheating. He's either gonna be faith full to you or not. Just do the best you can as a wife. If he cheats on you, just know that it was not your fault. Vice verse! It has to be a conscious decision that only he can make.

Answer 8

The truth is you can't. If your husband does not love you enough to respect your marriage, then he is not worthy of you! I am married also, and I live with the realization that any day my husband could choose to cheat. Some things I have done to keep it spicy is to role play, and get him to communicate all of his needs both in and out of the bedroom. Hope this helps, your more than welcome to e-mail me if this help! Good Luck!!!

Answer 9

A person who is a habitual phialnderer enjoys sex with you as well as with other women. There is no way that you can change, him, but you can change your life by dumping him. I am sure you will find somebody whom you can trust, and not bribe him everynight by having sex with with him, so that he doesnot cheat on you. Dear you are cheating yourself

Answer 10

Castration