it's not that i dont trust him 'cause i know he'll protect me & i've never felt so safe when he's around.it's just that he cant be around me 24-7 he works.what do i do?
2006-06-30 07:08:40 · 12 answers · asked by teddybear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a restraining order now!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-30 07:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in fact he is dangerous, file a restraining order, get a gun permit, make sure you check your surrounding when out alone and give your boyfriend the run down of everything he's ever done to you, that will let him know exactly why your so afraid. tell him that you don't want to get hurt but you don't want him to get hurt either. let your family members know what's going on as well. if need be you might have to tell your boss, so that he can't pop up at your job. you have to cover all your bases when messing with a stalker, and keep a diary, write down everytime you've seen him or everytime he has followed you.
2006-06-30 07:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move that is the best thing to do. Really some people may say get restraining order but that will not stop all those a holes that have hurt there ex's just move.
2006-06-30 07:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File stalking charges. It's free and BETTER than just a restraining order. Because you ahve to PAY for a restraining order and if ex breaks the restraining order, you have to pay to get a new one! Stupid I know. If he goes against stalking charges, he'll get into ALOT of trouble.
PLEASE don;t be one of those stories where "jealous ex killed ex-wife and boyfriend" or something like that. GO TO THE POLICE NOW.
2006-06-30 07:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by pro_vegas_voice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file a complaint if not that change all your information up where he is unable to get in contact with you cut off all; communication. apparently hes still in love with you and doent want to let you go so what ever you do dont say anything to piss him off because he may come after you to hurt yoou be careful you got a jeolous ex-lover on your case.
2006-06-30 07:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by deebabyzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a RO against him plus your b/f sounds like the type that he doesn't use idle words and if your ex tried something, your b/f will deal with him. Don't be afraid, don't let this fear get to you. That's what your ex wants and don't let him have that control over you.
2006-06-30 07:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about your fears and get a restraining order on your ex.
2006-06-30 07:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Catlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraining order and move if you have to don't matter if your boyfriend is there or not if your hubby gets a gun.
You can call a womans shelter they will tell you what to do.
2006-06-30 07:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restaining order, carry mace or stun gun, take karate classes. Protect yourself.
2006-06-30 07:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 01:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would take a self-defense class. i took a self-defense class and it was really good and you feel safe all the time.
2006-06-30 07:17:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋