my husband says sometimes wen we have sex i get too wet and he cant feel anything. ive always been blessed w/multiple orgasms but he never said this b4. i thought wet was a good thing. wen this happens i usually finish him w/a hand job. if thats wat he wants all he has to do is ask. weve been married 20 years and r certainly comfortable asking 4 wat we want. does this ever happen to u?
2006-06-30 07:17:57 · 13 answers · asked by scooter trash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know sometimes my wife can get really wet and it lessens the sensations for me. I take it as I am doing a good job for her and usually can still finish, though sometimes it takes a little longer. Wet, in my opinion, is a really good thing, and the wetter she gets, the more I feel that I am giving her the same pelasure she is giving me.
2006-06-30 07:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Raistliin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It ain't the wet, it is the loose...no big deal, it is called nature. He is less 'feeling' today than 20 years ago. You are all on the right track...so what if you finish with a Hand Job..better than not finishing..make it part of the game. And it happens to everyone one day or 'tuther.' Make no changes, for what you are doing works. Count your blessings...you are having sex. Would that all the problems I see here be so small. Good luck.
2006-06-30 14:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's taken you 20 years to figure this out? Lubrication varies in thickness and amount due to your monthly cycle. For sure, lubrication that is too thin or too wet makes sex not very stimulating. Keep a hand towel handy to wipe off the excess and enjoy. Oh and you are right, you are blessed.
2006-06-30 14:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Kegel exersices. It tighten up your muscles up there and men love the feeling.
Also, when on missionary, try crossing your legs like and X and put your legs on his shoulders. It willl tighten you up and it will provide extra stimulation.
If you are willing to try "anything" and since you've been married for 20 years, I will still suggest that maybe you should give the other orface a chance, if you know what I mean. I'm not trying to be rude, but thought it might be something worth trying.
Good luck.
2006-06-30 14:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find when this happens with my partners I just speed up to give me more sensation. The speed is usually not a problem for the woman because she is so wet. Makes for a great climax.
2006-06-30 14:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by slim146000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They make a cream at sex stores that will draw the vagina up in size. Wet is good keep that just try the cream the two should make a perfect combo.
2006-06-30 14:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Best answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im not sure if you get too wet or not...then again how would i know lol. but there are some creams that you can put on to help that. I dont have problems bc im not married..lol but yea try a cream
2006-06-30 14:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by jo-jo 2468 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but that maybe b/c i'm pregnant but it happened b4 i actually got pregnant too. It's strange to me that all of a sudden after 4 years of marriage that something would happen like this, but if you want to get technical it's basically b/c your hormones are on overload.
2006-06-30 14:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also get really wet. i had a baby a year ago and still alittle looser. so what i do when i get too wet and loose, i turn over on my stomach and when he enters, i clinch my thigh and butt muscles. that makes it tighter and rubbs against him.
2006-06-30 14:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by _123456_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a good woman, maybe he's just at the age when his unit isn't working the way it used too, maybe his control over his feeling is failing him? has he been checked by a doctor?
2006-06-30 14:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋