Friends - July 2007

How can i overcome this social anxiety i get and stop worrying what others think and start being my natural funny self, the hidden self that others dont see, i have loads of good qualities that people might actually like but i fear rejection and i cant come out of my shell i think ppl judge me and think i am boring but they dont know the real me, even the me my friends see isnt the real me i hide who i am, what can i do?

2007-07-07 20:32:44 · 4 answers · asked by robertapdixon 1

2007-07-07 19:19:33 · 11 answers · asked by phalgun 1

For a while now I've had feelings for a girl who has pretty much been my best friend since high school. We met the first week of our Freshman year in high school and now go to the same college.

I've asked what to do about it on here but I got responses that don't work for me: tell her how I feel or find a different girl.

I know it COULD be for the best, but the chance of messing up the friendship makes "could" just not be worth it to me (also, I in no way fit the pfrofile of the guys she dates). I also don't feel that the feelings are reciprocated because she is almost always in a relationship with another guy. I, on the other hand, am all but unable to talk to other girls because I can't get past this friend of mine.

ASIDE FROM TELLING HER HOW I FEEL, what can I do to try to move on and find someone else?

2007-07-07 19:11:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out that my friend cheated on her BF, who I'm also somewhat friends with, with one of HIS friends. This is after a whole evening of flirting with another guy to the point he asked me to save him several times, and he had to leave to bar so fast to get away from her, he left his debit card behind. She's also well known at work as a big flirt, and lies that she's got something going on with every guy there. She doesn't care how it affects the other person. She even told people that one guy attacked her in her car, when all he did was call her bluff after she spent the whole evening hinting around that she would show him her breasts. She pulled her shirt up before he even finished the sentence.

2007-07-07 18:34:14 · 9 answers · asked by summerlandcollies 2

2007-07-07 17:01:38 · 21 answers · asked by mike 1

can you give me your advice in letter form if you have this situation:


what are you going to say to your friend has get addicted into drugs?

just getting opinions from people out there...

and if someone gave me a very considering answer, best answer for you, pal!!!

: )

2007-07-07 16:11:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my 30's and have a best friend the same age for a few years. Now the problem is she keeps wanting me to sleep over her place. I've done it 3 times. It's not something I enjoy doing. I prefer to sleep in my bed. Anyway, when I do I sleep on the couch, I have a bads night sleep and I feel my day is wasted. Oh and she also want's me to sleep in the same bed with her. That I won't do. She won't take no for an answer. She begs and she just doesn't see my view. If she keeps this up she'll drive me away. Also, she thinks I'm embarassed of her as I haven't introduced her to my mum. What's up with that? She has met some of my friends. What do you think of this? I feel like she's wanting control over me as she has been in a couple of abusive relationaship. Thankyou

2007-07-07 15:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is just being such a ***** to me. It's almost like she enjoys hurting me. The thing is, she was exactly the same as 2 1/2 years ago. We were at "war". and now it's like we are again....i don't know what to do. but she treats all of my other friends good. so i have no one to talk to who will understand what i mean. i just don't know how to deal......

2007-07-07 15:34:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got hit with some crazy *** news. I have my best friend that I've known and played sports with for about six years now. We've been through a lot and helped each other out a lot through these past few years. And on the other side of the story I have my younger cousin who is pretty much like a sister to me. They just called me on a three-way to inform me that they're going out. I acted like I wasn't mad, even when they asked me if I was. I can't let this happen. My cousin wouldn't have even known my friend if it wasn't for me. But the crazy part is, it's kind of like a cycle, because I kinda like my friend's sister who's about the same age as my cousin, but my friend is way over-protective of his sister. I'm stuck in a deep rut, please help.

2007-07-07 14:17:31 · 7 answers · asked by Trent N 2

My case manager doesn't want me with any friends, & the only good friend I had left, my case manager said if she caught my best friend at my house, she'd get my friend put in jail & get me put in a group home, just because my friend's boyfriend insulted me in my own house. But my friend dumped the guy just to stay my friend, & my case manager is still saying my friend is no good. I feel very down in the dumps. My friend is a very good friend, & she never did me wrong.

2007-07-07 13:47:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never had until recently. I just sat at school and am friends with these two kids. Both of them are pretty well off. The girls family has 8 cars and she has all designers clothes and what not and the boy has a 800,000 dollar trust fund. I have less than a thoasand dollars in my bank account and I've had it since Iwas 11. My parents can only afford to put a hundred dollars in every few months.

I know what you're all going to say. " get a good job and get your money up and you can have anything you want'' but I want it now. I wish everything was handed down to me like those kids. I never felt like this until I mety that girl. It didn't help she kind of teased me about not having any money, wether she meant it in a mean way or not.

Have you ever felt like this before?

2007-07-07 13:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by nilleh 3

but i don't have the money. should i still go even though i can't afford his request. plus, his roomate has owed me money for quite some time now

2007-07-07 13:31:31 · 15 answers · asked by brandon 5

i have the looks and the hipes(@$$) but no more belly. i feel so good im geting a lot of attinention too. but from everyone my family (sis) is hateing at me. is this right, what should i do?

2007-07-07 13:05:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This geeky weird girl from my old school is coming to my new middle school this coming school year. I bet that she will be hanging around me constantly. I don't want her to because she's beyond creepy and thinks that she is a horse. How do I let her know that I don't want to be her friend? I'm pretty sure that she won't make anyother friends but I may be wrong. Nobody liked her at my old school. I know its mean but she's WEIRD!

2007-07-07 12:56:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

He copies EVERY thing ANYONE does. And It's real freaking annoying, what do I do.

2007-07-07 12:56:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok lets say my bestfriend is a total ***** like will kill somebody .. and then i have this other bestfriend who is the chillest person ever but i cant hang out with them because my ***** bestfriend hates her .. i wanna just leave my ***** bestfriend because shes always yelling and fighting and i dont wanna deal with it but if i do leave her alll hell breaks out and i see her every where in school we even have the same homeroom together what do i do?

2007-07-07 12:15:56 · 19 answers · asked by sh3rry14 1

Okay. So my friend's father beats her and sexually melested her when she wuz 8, 9, 10, 11 and12. She's really depressed and is VVVVVEEEEEERRRRRYYYYY suicidal!!! I've talked to her a lot and she's really open. She knows i'll always be there for her, yet she's still suicidal!!! she's hates being the center of attention, so i kno she isn't doing it for that reason. but im very worried. Her parents already kno, she's in counciling and everything! how should i help her?!?!

2007-07-07 11:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you have any tips on making friends? I'm pretty shy and therefore lonely. I would like to talk to people but I'm to shy to start the conversation. What, if anything, can I do to bring people to me without making a fool of myself?

2007-07-07 10:55:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this is a big 1, i hav a best friend lets call her A see me and A always hav fun together, the problem she kinda dorky like she fars loudly out loud(gross) she wheres the same thing everyday and her hairs a mess ever since i started to hang out with people make fun of me and insult me this never happened b4 and did i mention she said i luv like a sister once but she said it randomly in class! people got the wrong idea, she asked if at orentation we will change our shedules to match this year i need to kno should i stick with her or find another friend?(she treats me like a best best friend like always picking me wen she can invite some1 even though she has other friends) plz help

2007-07-07 09:01:23 · 6 answers · asked by Mini 1

my best friends crush likes me, what do i do?

i dont really like him but he's ok.

2007-07-07 08:46:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help me... I'm from the Philippines, and I've got this really big problem that's tearing me apart. Wanna know why? Here goes. A friend of mine, who happens to be a girl, and also happens to be a friend of the girl of my dreams, is angry at me. Now, I know why she's angry at me. Why? Because I did something so bad. What did I do? I told the guy that she really likes that she likes him. Sounds simple? I'll trade places with anyone who says it's that simple. Now, she won't talk to me. I've tried in vain to apologize (thru y!m), but she doesn't want to listen. I even offered to do anything just for her to forgive me, and she said there was something I could do. What could I do? Just don't talk to her. Oooooooooooooh, man... Please, what should I do? It's really tearing me apart because I'm not the type of person who can live w/ someone being angry at me. Please help me. I really need serious answers. Thanks, and God Bless. :)

2007-07-07 07:30:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 13 years old and have a friends that is very hurtful and i dont want to be her friend any more... how is a good way of telling her that i dont want to be her friend any more???.....

2007-07-07 07:05:33 · 15 answers · asked by cappuccino latte 1

2007-07-07 06:55:33 · 7 answers · asked by waterchick 2

once she saw me and told all her friends and the bad thing is i sit next to her. how do i stop.

oh and i always have a thought to grab her and shagg her

2007-07-07 06:34:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes I feel my friend is trying to take my boyfriend away from me...

2007-07-07 04:18:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very busy with my job and I'm almost a
workaholic, nevertheless, I realized that people are missing in my
life.

2007-07-07 01:32:14 · 2 answers · asked by The Starr Company 1

2007-07-06 22:18:19 · 14 answers · asked by : 6

her parents disapprove of me because im black she loves me alot but I dont wanna **** up her life because of this if I stay she gets abused by her parent emotionally and physically but if I go I miss out on true love and she will have a better domestic life

2007-07-06 18:10:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

we talk about it all the time and i never know what to say i usually just listen but sometimes she will just stare into nothing and i dont know what to do
she has had a pretty good life and it seems that it is all crashing down on her.
her parents court date is coming up, her dad wont even take her and her siblings for 2 days, her mother has to get surgery because of something pre-cancerous just a whole lot of **** that she doesnt deserve
i am the only one of her friends that knows about all of this so she relies completely on me for support and stuff and i never know how to help her. . . we go and do stuff a lot so she can get away from it all and i talk to her but i dont know what else i can do i just want this to stop happening to her

2007-07-06 17:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by me 2

i m 19yrs from Delhi.My life al of a sudden changed when went 2 college.Kept self away from the ... activities prevailing in Hostel....
frankly speaking i m not very comfortable in talkin with boyz but easy with girls.All my frnds hv boyfrnd meee dont have.At school and now again at college i was asked 2 kiss guies both times refused, reffered as Lesbean.Frnds call me less!M I Really...

2007-07-06 16:44:39 · 30 answers · asked by riya 1