Crap Friend?

Question

i am 13 years old and have a friends that is very hurtful and i dont want to be her friend any more... how is a good way of telling her that i dont want to be her friend any more???.....

Answer 1

Tell her that you don't think she is really being a true friend. Give her examples and tell her that you think its best for the both of you to go your seperate ways. The worst thing you can do for yourself right now at such a young age is to hang around negative people. Stay cordial with the girl but find some positive people who will help you grow as a person not shrink you down in size

Answer 2

i know just how you feel. i'm 14 and i've had this happen so many times.
the first this is that you CAN NOT just stop talking.
i would just start hanging out with some different friends. i'm assuming that you have friends in another "group". like you, your crap friend, and some other people are one "group". some of your other friends are another group.
she may get mad [if yall were like really good friends] but if she does just tell her A. that you didn't like what she was doing to you or B. that they are your friends too and you want to hang out with them.
if she makes you choose it's a totaly easy way out. just choose them.
i really hope this helps you.
good luck! :]

Answer 3

My daughter is going through the same with two of her friends. She has tried to give them some advise, but they continue in a life that will bring them only problems. She's just opted to have no contact with them, because she argues can't continue babysitting for them.

I know is difficult, because you do not know how she's gonna take it. If she is becomes your enemy, or she is just not going to care and live on.

If you think her friendship is worth the explanation, then tell her and explain to her why. If instead is not worth it, then just fade away from her life...

I hope this helps

Answer 4

You really just need to be nice and say, "I'm sorry, but I really don't want to be your friend becasue you are very hurtful and mean to me. I want to have friends who are nice, and friends that I can have fun with and friends that I can love. Not friends who are mean and treat me badly. If you want to be nicer maybe you and I could still be friends, but If you aren't going to, then I'm sorry." To me, that would be a great way to either change your friendship into a better one, or a great way just to let her go. Good luck, and I am glad I could help! :)

Answer 5

Just like that.
The next time she calls & wants to do something, tell her "no, I don't think so." You could just continue to blow her off OR tell her..."No, thanks, I don't think so because I don't think we really get along very well". If she wants more info, then give her some examples. Tell her, "I didn' care for/like it when you did/said _________".

Be open & honest. If she cares, perhaps she'll try to do better. Or, she'll just react like a creep and you can feel better knowing that you handled the situation the best you could.

You can't change people, you can only change how YOU respond to them. Walk away if that's what's best for you.

Take care!

Answer 6

Hey, I had the same problem but I cut her off. This is what happened, I just started to ignore her, and if she asked me how I felt about something I just nodded. This went on for a few weeks, then suddenly she asked my other friends why I was ignoring her and my friends told her. She came up to me and tried to talk, and apologized but I still cut her off. (She said hurtful things, "calling my mum a bit*h. When she barely knew her.")
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1. Ignore her.
2. Tell your friends the reasons why you don't like her.
3. She'll ask your friends, your friends tell her.
4. She confronts you, you tell her you don't want to be friends anymore.
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If this plan backfires, I'm sorry but it worked for me.

Answer 7

The best thing is to tell her exactly how you feel when she hurts you. If you dont need her anymore you can say anything you want to.

Answer 8

I would put it exactly that way. Tell her she makes you feel bad about yourself and is not someone you want to spend time with anymore. You are choosing to be around more positive people and wish her luck. Then don't look back. You deserve to have friends who make you feel good about yourself, are supportive and have fun with.

Answer 9

call her up...

start off by saying "Dont speak, just listen"
secondly, explain how you feel about her and why you dont want to be her friend anymore. and then do not even wait for a respons. just hang up. If she calls back, you could either answer it to see what she has to say for herself. or if you feel she doesnt deserve a chance then just ignore it.

Answer 10

You should be honest and up front about it. Tell the person that you don`t want to be around them anymore and explain why. Maybe the person will change..