please, help me.....?

Question

Please help me... I'm from the Philippines, and I've got this really big problem that's tearing me apart. Wanna know why? Here goes. A friend of mine, who happens to be a girl, and also happens to be a friend of the girl of my dreams, is angry at me. Now, I know why she's angry at me. Why? Because I did something so bad. What did I do? I told the guy that she really likes that she likes him. Sounds simple? I'll trade places with anyone who says it's that simple. Now, she won't talk to me. I've tried in vain to apologize (thru y!m), but she doesn't want to listen. I even offered to do anything just for her to forgive me, and she said there was something I could do. What could I do? Just don't talk to her. Oooooooooooooh, man... Please, what should I do? It's really tearing me apart because I'm not the type of person who can live w/ someone being angry at me. Please help me. I really need serious answers. Thanks, and God Bless. :)

Answer 1

ive come to learn that friends sometimes are better friends if you just let them do things on their own time when it is right for them.also you are right it may sound like no big deal but to her it was.if she wont talk to you right now just let her be and blow off the steam and the next time she needs a shoulder to lean on always be there for her no matter what.

Answer 2

Your qu. to yourself should be "Why can't I live knowing that a person is angry at me?"

There will be lots of people in your 70 odd years of life who are angry at you for one reason or another. Some will be valid reasons.

Now, you have to change something - YOUR attitude to yourself.

IF ( and only if) you passed on the info about the girl "really liking" this other guy in good faith, and with pure clean motives, then you can continue unalarmed.

But I think you had ulterior motives when you told him. You maybe wanted him to ask her out (MYOB, buster), or you wanted her to thank you for giving him the information (Duh! She did not ASK you to tell him, so once again MYOB, Buster)

So you got wrong on all sides. Learn this lesson: STAY out of chicks' business. Keep your mouth SHUT.

*MYOB = Mind Your Own Business, if you did not know

Answer 3

The only thing I can think of is to apoligize in person. Sit down with her, explain yourself, tell her your really sorry, you understand you've made a mistake. Then give her time to forgive you. One of my friends has no problem forgiving people in person, but on the phone, online, text anything else, she'll say no! Try it, and remember to give her time. If she still has said nothing after a few weeks, write her a letter and put it through her door. Good Luck! x

Answer 4

Yes it is really difficult when someone you care about is angry at you. Everyone has a right to their emotions and right now hers is anger.

My advise to you, and I know this is difficult, is the give her time and leave her alone. Shes already told you that she doesn't want you to talk to her so you really need to respect that right now. Send her a handwritten card validating her feelings. Something like, "I understand why you can't talk to me right now, but I am sending you this note to let you know that when you are ready to talk I will still be here." Then leave it alone, let her come to you when she is ready. If you keep going on and on about it you will push her away more.

Good luck.