Family - February 2007

my boyfriend got mad cause I take my brother to work everyday, he is18 and this is his first job, my bf thinks he should ride the city bus, I don't think theres nothing wrong with him riding the bus, But im at home why cant I take him if I want too, I love my brother and its only two of us. How can I tell him he's wrong withoutstarting an arguement?

2007-02-23 18:01:58 · 13 answers · asked by jatir 1

This is about my wifes first child,, she gets $9.13 per month ,, by court,, I can not understand this! What judge would think that would even feed the kid two days? I know he works under the table jobs to avoid child support,, ! Why don't they get after these dads ? ,, Is child a. worth $9.13 and child b. worth $400 per month,? I know I will get answers saying it's based on the fathers wages,, but should it be ? Is the question?

2007-02-23 17:52:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my little sister age 10 was home alone with me, and she starts to bug me, and i yell at her so she calles my mom, mom is pissed, sister thinks it is cute to get me in trouble so she runs outside away, she is not alould to leave when im home alone, im not dressed and my mom is yelling at me on the phone, when my sister gets home she bullshits my mom and i cant see my friend i have not seen in 3 years, my sister is in no trouble, what is a sneaky thing i can do to get revenge, nothing with pain or lasting damage, how i show her who is boss, she is freeking 10 not 2 so dont say tell her it is rude, i wanna make her sad, upset her i may never see my friend again. im thinking about acidently stepping on her ipod. i need ideas dont call me mean, you dont live with her

2007-02-23 17:39:39 · 8 answers · asked by alex m 2

I feel bad for my sister who going through a tough time now.

2007-02-23 17:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by skalkosa 3

They told me if I watched too much television I would get square eyes. I've been watching for years, up close and everything and it hasn't happened. Also the wind changed and my face didn't stay like that!

2007-02-23 17:28:59 · 29 answers · asked by altered ego 3

My younger brother(13) is always jerking off ...i have walked in on him about three times now,once in the bathroom and twice in the living room when he thought no one was home...are there any other sisters who have been through this?how did you handle it?

2007-02-23 17:17:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-23 17:10:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She lives in my mans house.She walked in on my man and I having sex a couple of times.She doesnt knock she just walks up to our door and talks.She doesnt stop nagging and complaining.She treat my man as if he is still a little boy which make me loose respect for him because he gives into her.Shes like a phuckin parrot. And sometimes she peaks thru our glass door

2007-02-23 16:58:52 · 13 answers · asked by eurasia 1

He has been in there for over a year. We don't know if he will ever come out. She goes to visit him every Saturday..they talk behind glass for thirty minutes. I am wondering if she needs counseling to cope with the fact that she may never see her daddy again. She has been fine but she broke down on her birthday two weeks ago and started crying. Saying, "It's my secret, I don't want anybody but me to know my daddy is in jail." She then snapped at her cousin and told her, "it's none of your business." I am wondering if there is any place that will help her to cope. Even though we had broken up two years before he went in. My daughter and her father had a very good relationship. She acts liek she doesn't miss him..but I know she has too. Any advice?

2007-02-23 16:58:11 · 14 answers · asked by Bigmomma 3

Does she not respect me as her Father? I don't know why she would shame our family in this way. I sent her to the best schools and introduced her to prominent friends of mine and now this is what I get ? I plan to disown her publicly so to distance our family from her irrational decision she has made to be with this dark man.

2007-02-23 16:47:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

As I said before everyday is a huge conflict unless he is able to lecture and preach/teach or work out issues or what ever else you want to call it. And when I don't want to just sit and liston to him talk all day long about how terrible the world is etc. he gets angry and attacks verbaly and tells me I need to talk about it. I need to liston. Yada yada yada. I say I don't care. I am happy. leave me alone. he says I have issues that need adressing. I say ,who says? he says him. I say thats your opinion. he says it's a fact On and On He gives me no peace untill it gets ugly. than that doesn't end. it's a visious circle.He follows me around the house talking or making comments. My heart aches for him but I want my life back. I lived with his dad 10 years1970-1980. All years same thing except there was physical abuse too. His Dad would give me no peace. Like my son he too wanted all my attention good or bad all the time.Should I seek counseling? I feel so lost!

2007-02-23 16:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-23 16:43:00 · 4 answers · asked by Naim I 1

Okay question num. 1


What would u do if.....

1. Your Son / daughter pushed you down?
A. Ground him/her
B. wait till dad gets home
C. other ( if so explain)

2. Your husband cheated on you?
A. kill him and his new lover
B. get a divorce
C. other


What kind of marrige do u have?
A. KINKY
B. STRANGE
C.other


Who is the main person of the house?
A. husband/ boyfriend
B. son or daughter
C. YOU


A close friend anounced she was on drugs
A. congradulate her
B. help her recover
C. other


if you heard your son or daughter beat someone up badly?
A. ground them
B. yell at them
C. other

2007-02-23 16:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

mii family has just renovated our house and now we are becoming bankrupt. all of our money went into the new house, and we still have more things to buy. i want to help by earining money but im too young. does 13 correspond as good enough for getting like a kidddy kind of job. if so, what kind jobs can i take part in? i really need your help, and soo do my parents and my whole family? PLEAZ HEALP ME!!!

2007-02-23 16:36:05 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

my mom keeps getting drunk like tonite she and her bf were out in the front yard for 3 hrs drinking. last time she did that wit a previous bf he tried to kill her. im like scared now cause wat if this bf tries to do the same when they are drunk. how can i get my mom to stop getting drunk i dont want to be scared anymore.

2007-02-23 16:24:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate my mother. But I love her too.

My mother screams at me that I am never nice to her and why couldn't I have been as good as my older sister. I help her work at her resturant ( I am underage and not paid) and listen to what she says. She yells I'm a brat and I treat her so badly when she has given me everything. But she hasn't given me everything. I go home to a lonely apartment everyday after school because my parents are too busy working at the resturant. I go to the resturant every weekend to help and I don't get to go over to friends' houses because of that. I've never taken lessons like piano or dancing out of school because they are too expensive even though they just bought a new car. I feel like I never measure up to my big sister because everytime she comes home to visit I am forgoten. I hate my mother for leaving me alone and have freedom. But most of all when I was little she would lay on top of me and start biting me, kissing me, slap my butt. Am I wrong to hate her

2007-02-23 16:22:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just found out i have a 7 year old daughter. we broke up she moved to california and one day i recieved a child support bill for 32,000$ not long ago she found me on myspace. ahe just got married and i dont want to mess things up by confusing the situation. we are on good terms but she suggested signing away my rights to terminate the child support. but from what i understand my rights are visitation ect.. NOT shild support. i dont know how the laws vary from state to state. she lives in oregon i live in arizona and the child support is billed from california. anyone have any sugestions??

2007-02-23 16:14:38 · 14 answers · asked by troy r 1

2007-02-23 16:10:58 · 13 answers · asked by VVVVVVVVVVV 1

Everywhere I go I am always noticing resemblances such as mothers and daughters or grandmothers, daughters, grandaughters, or fathers and sons or daughters. I see a family together and I look for like features, body builds, expressions.
does anybody think this kind of thing is interesting? I just find it amazing.

2007-02-23 15:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't want to be with him because i dont

2007-02-23 15:34:13 · 9 answers · asked by piearah 1

Lately, I've really become aware of my mom getting older. She's starting to have problems with her hearing, and her memory is not quite as sharp as it used to be. I'm only 23, and I don't like thinking about my mom getting older because it means I have to think about her dying. I realize that these are the kinds of fears little kids have; but now that I really see the signs that her age is catching up with her, it brings them all back.

Can anyone who's watched his or her parents age give me advice about how to cope with it, and maybe gain a little bit of peace about it?

2007-02-23 15:32:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in 19.Till this day I'm still will taking the shower with my mom sometimes.We both in naked while shower.For me,I'm really didn't feel embarrassing while I'm in bath with my mom.I'm feel great and that is the moment we both can talk to each other.Feel close with mom in that way.Just want to know anyones out there do the same with me?

2007-02-23 15:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by hAPPY 4

My daughter is due within the next month. Her father and I were engaged but not married at conception. We were ok, but after he abandoned me at 5 months, he left me homeless, and jobless among other things. I don't hold it against him its not his job to support me but i would think he would want to protect his unborn child. So after a good 4 months of being elsewhere, he comes back into the picture wanting to bea good father. Ok but i didn't buy that as his sole motive. Turns out he only came back bcus his mother wants him to play nice to me, get dirt, and then use it against me in a custody battle ( i found this out through his father). My question is I don't intend to keep him out of his child's life but i also don't want him or his mother to be able to take my baby from me or runaway. I don't want to drag her through the court system either. I don't know how to avoid this, i am not unfit but i am poor and have a mood disorder. My health is well managed and i have supplemental incom

2007-02-23 15:21:10 · 11 answers · asked by Aundry 1

Okay I have been with this man off and on for alot of years about 10. We are not married and really don't have any plans to marry any time soon. However we do have 3 kids togethor and we are togethor. We don't see anyone else. We don't live togethor. Okay my question is this we are going to california for the whole city pass thing very expensive trip. Should I pay his way since he is not working? At first I was all for it but now Im starting to hesitate we are leaving in 5 days. I think of my kids though getting to spend thier first real vacation with mom and dad. Then I think im a fool. And ya I really don't want to go with out him. What do I do? I can't think of anyone else I rather go with besides him and my children. Thanks in advance ..sherry

2007-02-23 15:16:28 · 9 answers · asked by borednomaha 1

I am the youngest in my family. My brother and sister always seem to be "right" in my parents' eyes. One little mistake will change everything good I've done for the rest of the week. I don't seem to get credit for hardly anything, and I'm very mad. I am on shaky grounds with my family. I can't be too upfront or I will just be labled as whining. What do you think?

2007-02-23 15:15:32 · 5 answers · asked by Rose♫ 3

My 16 year old daughter is out in this monster blizzard right now, riding home from an out of town school event with friends. I'm trying not to worry. Help!!

2007-02-23 14:57:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we get along fine but i see the way she treats her dad (my step dad) and it really bothers me. she is like 16 and she is a total ***** to him. she walks all over him. i know she is going through a lot but thats no excuse for her to treat him like that. i don't know what to do. i just want us all to get along. what should i do? should i talk to her and say what? or should i not even get involved?

2007-02-23 14:48:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-23 14:47:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

As long as everything is normal when they are older...is there any harm in that?

2007-02-23 14:27:37 · 15 answers · asked by beerengine3 1

my parents totally hate gay people but im gay... but the hell do i do! im so frustarted! need serious help

2007-02-23 14:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by Nathan B 1