My mother in law is a nosy pain in the @$$! anyone have this problem?

Question

She lives in my mans house.She walked in on my man and I having sex a couple of times.She doesnt knock she just walks up to our door and talks.She doesnt stop nagging and complaining.She treat my man as if he is still a little boy which make me loose respect for him because he gives into her.Shes like a phuckin parrot. And sometimes she peaks thru our glass door

Answer 1

Your mother-in-law probably is unhappy with her life and her son is all she has. She is both worried about losing her son, which is all she has, and probably just reflecting on to him and you all the frustrations from her own miserable life. Pity her, ignore her, give her something to do and remember to keep your door locked and your blinds down when you want privacy. Turn up the radio to block out sounds and even let her walk in on you and your husband having sex. She's an adult! Why should you have to stop because she is bored? You are giving her power by letting her get under your skin and affecting your life. Since she is powerless to fix her life then maybe being able to mess up yours gives her a sense of accompishment/empowerment she is missing from her life. She needs a life. unfortunately, regardless of all this, when is a parent ever going to be satisfied with the people who eventually take their children from them to have fmailies of their own. when you have children I am sure that simply because you love and miss your child you will also be very critical about who your children date. We want the best for our children and we want our children to remain children under our control. It is hard to give that control up.

Answer 2

Don't lose respect for him he's just being a son and loves his mum, perhaps you should think about having sex somewhere else, there are a lot of other places, is this place rented or owned by your man? if so warn your boyfrind if something is not done i'm going to have to move on or out , you'll just have to stick it out to him because you can't handle this, if she's renting or owns it its up to you to move out and use the same words. I'm also not sure of your age- so if you are young its what mums do you'll have to be more secretive about things.

Answer 3

Shes like a phuckin parrot
LOL!!
haha
k sorry
my mom faces this problem. But not as bad. Her inlaws are more just snotty. Like they ask her ooh have you gained weight??

Your situations sounds gross. First of all, lock the door when you do that stuff....
And move away if you can

Answer 4

i've had one for the last 37 years. she doesn't acknowledge me or our kids. wnen they were younger and she saw us in a store she would go down another isle! if she drove past us on the road she looked the other way.she made my life miserable until the kids were old enough to tell their dad what she was like. she lives right beside us now,and it doesn't hurt my feelings in anyway when i ignore her. my kids are college educated have good jobs and nice families of their own.sorry old lady,that you never got to know us. my husband still does everything he can for her,we knew we were second in his life.he never got to know his kids either,because mom came first.

Answer 5

Yeah I'd move out if you have the resources...you shouldn't be together if he's still living with his mom, unless you both are under 18

Answer 6

Give Polly a cracker, put her to bed and install a lock on your door.

Answer 7

Tell your man to take care of it and set her straight or you're outta there. But only tell him that if you are willing to walk.

Answer 8

Uh, if he is a man, why is he still living at home with mommy?

Answer 9

you need to get that woman out of your house, if that is not possible then your husband needs to talk to her infront of you and tell her that she is going beyound decent bounds and it needs to quit. if he doesn't stand up to her, it will just get worse.

Answer 10

your man? i doubt you both are above age 13 so don't act like an adult. you'll be treated like one when you can be responsible and take care of yourself.