my parents totally hate gay people but im gay... but the hell do i do! im so frustarted! need serious help
2007-02-23 14:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by Nathan B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to sit down and have a quiet serious talk with them. You have to be honest about who you are...but, if you are under age (a minor) then you should wait until you have a job and can support yourself on your own...just in case they don't accept what you are telling them and order you out of the house. Self-preservation should come first if you are under 18. I know that is no real help, but you didn't give alot of information. Good luck
2007-02-23 14:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i am not gay and im in 7th grade so i dont think i can be alot of help but just try to wait to tell them after u have moved out and got a place of ur own i have a few friends that r gay and me 17 almost 18 year old sister is gay but im not sure my mom nows my sis is and sjes not mad but surpised shes been about 1 to 2 years i have to go
2007-02-23 14:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by ponyboy230 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them there is nothing wrong with being gay or honest. If my kid was gay I would want him or her to tell me. I have a couple of gay friends and Im straight it dont really make a difference.
2007-02-23 15:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by Evie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything until you move out of their house and are completely independent financially. After that just say, "Mom, Dad, I'm gay." Then let them come to terms with it. And they will, after much emotional breakdown...but they will.
2007-02-23 15:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well first u just need to set them down and tell them before they find out themselves. thats the last thing u would want to happen because if they did then they would think u r keeping it from them and that would piss them off more. so u need to tell them and remind them that u are their child and they have to love you and you are not doing this to hurt them your doing it because it feels normal to you and thats pretty much it.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-24 03:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by babyphattie09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be who you are.....it is gonna be alot of obstacles in your life that you will endure it only makes you stronger ....keep your head up and let them know who you are...it will make it more comfortable for you in the end... they will come around in time ....live your life it is yours remember
2007-02-23 15:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cross the bride until you come to it !
No need to tell them until you are asked about it.
2007-02-23 14:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by kenneth h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the closet door.
2007-02-23 14:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no easy way. Just being honest if you can't hold it back for their sake.
2007-02-23 14:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋