Family - December 2006

My sister and her husband recently got married (last march), due to immigration problems here in Canada (but of course they love eachother). Shortly after their wedding my sister became pregnant with Gabriel, my nephew.
Since her husband cannot legally work here, they're all packing up and moving to the states. They've said that they would like to move back in a year to a year and a half, but now they don't really know when or if they actually will. This has been completely devastating to me and my family. My sister and I are best friends, and I don't know how I'm supposed to cope with losing her. I've always pictured us raising our children together and us being apart of eachothers life for the rest of our lives, but since her marriage and her their baby... all of this is slipping away from me. I just can't picture my life without having her physically present. How do people deal with this? What can I do to make this easier to cope with?

2006-12-19 18:30:51 · 6 answers · asked by munwing1983 2

My sister and her husband recently got married (last march), due to immigration problems here in Canada (but of course they love eachother). Shortly after their wedding my sister became pregnant with Gabriel, my nephew.
Since her husband cannot legally work here, they're all packing up and moving to the states. They've said that they would like to move back in a year to a year and a half, but now they don't really know when or if they actually will. This has been completely devastating to me and my family. My sister and I are best friends, and I don't know how I'm supposed to cope with losing her. I've always pictured us raising our children together and us being apart of eachothers life for the rest of our lives, but since her marriage and her their baby... all of this is slipping away from me. I just can't picture my life without having her physically present. How do people deal with this? What can I do to make this easier to cope with?

2006-12-19 18:30:12 · 2 answers · asked by munwing1983 2

I have been married to my wonderful husband for a year, we have a new born baby boy and were very happy until his brother moved from LA to our small mountain town. Since his arrival he has informed me that I suck as a wife, and a mother. He told my six year old (from a previous Marriage) that mommys a *****. And has accused me of intenionally scheduling an interview outa town on a day that he wanted to do something with my husband on purpose. I confronted all these issues and now I'm physcotic. Then the man hacket my myspace account and my email account. He read all my personal email to long time friends and proceeded to call all of my husbands family to inform them of the dirt he found on me. The dirt consisted of me asking a long time girl friend for help and ideas on how to handle the situation. So here I am feeling alone in the world. My husband is pulled in two directions and is confused himself. So my question is does anyone have any ideas on how to handle this situation???

2006-12-19 18:29:56 · 8 answers · asked by Just Me 2

2006-12-19 18:08:58 · 14 answers · asked by afrprince77 2

My brother is coming over to my apartment this Thursday, and bringing his new wife with him, who is Japanese (he's a Marine stationed in Okinawa). I'm very excited to meet her, and I want her to feel welcome in my home. Does anyone know of any extra special things I can do to help her feel welcome, or maybe some Japanese cultural thing I can do?

2006-12-19 17:55:33 · 4 answers · asked by T.M.Y. 4

My Sister Amanda is trying to ruin my Christmas and is doing a good job of it and she is telling mah mom every little tiney thing that i do and she wants me to lose my x-mas!!

What do i do!? please help in desperate need of revenge plans

2006-12-19 17:55:16 · 3 answers · asked by Emily 3

every time i get to my house i get insulted of how stupid i am and i cant do nothing in life. i dont know why they tell me this, but to all my other brothers and sister they leave them alone. then, if one brother fights with me, all start to be against me, what should i do? should i speak up?

2006-12-19 17:05:59 · 11 answers · asked by gaby 2

um some free searchs plz im 16 and im trying to find out whre my mom brother and sister are living :(

2006-12-19 17:03:39 · 2 answers · asked by yvetters 2

she has about 4-6 months left to live, and i'm sure she doesnt want to be reminded anymore about having cancer, but i want it to be inspirational and special... i am at a loss of what to get...

2006-12-19 16:43:58 · 6 answers · asked by crazymoonz5 2

I have a problem...I just had a baby girl about a month ago, and my family is really attached to her. But my fiance wasn't there for her birth, and he is missing out on her growing up every day. Now here is the problem, He doesn't want to move back to where I'm living now because he doesn't want to be near my family 'cause of past issues..And I want to move back in with him but I don't want to take my daughter away from my family because I know that it'll hurt them (especially my mother). But Iove my fiance dearly, and I haven't seen him in 4 1/2 months and I want to be with him! I'm so confused right now..If you have any suggestions please help.

2006-12-19 16:36:29 · 15 answers · asked by Winni 1

2006-12-19 16:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by gigglymom 1

ok i was adopted at the age 13 so i had a chance to know my real mom but when i was 7 she put my 2 sisters and i through state costody. 11 years later my sisters are living and are adopted by my grand mother and me 18 was adopted by another family at 13 still keep contact with my grandma and sisters and when i turned 18 my grandmother gave the latest info she knew of my mothers where abouts. and along with that she gave me her ss# madien name and a posible marrage name and the last state known to be living in. now all i need to know is where i can use her ss# to find out where she is and a phone number. iv looked onlne but i come to sites that want you to pay. but i dont want to i just want a phone number so where can i look on line and off

2006-12-19 16:25:38 · 5 answers · asked by Zane M 1

My parents (Mom & Stepdad) are fighting right now and im scared because whenever my stepdad gets drunk (which he is now) he always try to beat me up and he is a pretty big guy. Im really scared this time because if he hits my mom she will be seriously hurt because she just had back surgery. WIth me im kind of a wuss and im scared to stand up to him because I dont wanna get beat up. Im tired of him hurting us but if we dont live with him we dont have a place to go. What should I do to make us all get along?

2006-12-19 16:23:40 · 12 answers · asked by dynasty_v2 1

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2006-12-19 16:11:38 · 8 answers · asked by Cheney=Worst Person Alive 1

I'm scared, what do i do?
i was going over 2 my house from my grandparents house,2 get something,when this white car just the size of a chrysler drives by me,w/ 2 men inside,as i'm about to step off the sidewalk & on to the street.i'm thinking,& u have to drive by right then?.i knew immediately what was happening.i'd seen the car down at the end of the street just waiting,w/ its headlights on.i hurried across the street,& once there went over 2 my 60-lb half pit bull male pup (who has a really sweet temperment,half bird dog),& unchained him.by this time the car had turned the corner,gone half way down 2 the fork in the street,& had turned around just as i was turning 2 go in2 my house w/ my dog,Bruce.i went in,w/ Bruce,got whatever it was i wanted,& left.i chained my dog back up,& then went back 2 my grandparents house.the car was back down @ the house where it had started.my parents r going out of the country on a trip for 11 days,& i dont know what 2 do.i've told them what happened.

2006-12-19 16:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by K.D. 3

Missing person, I have name, But not fining this person I have a socail any advice or sites .....?

2006-12-19 16:03:07 · 2 answers · asked by discjockeymodel 2

He loves my daughter as if she was his, and does all that he is capable of, but they see the worst!

2006-12-19 15:51:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum needs me to draft her a card for her gym trainer. Could you give me some ideas on what to write something along the lines of "thankyou for inspiring me to achive my goals" anythign else i can add to?

2006-12-19 15:44:58 · 8 answers · asked by jo4idol 2

I did half.

2006-12-19 15:44:14 · 9 answers · asked by Brina 4

2006-12-19 15:43:36 · 10 answers · asked by nana3 1

If I don't answer their questions, they get very hurt and start manipulating me and putting guilt trips on me. If the think I am lying to get out of answering, they just think I am so hurtful and disrespectful... So how do YOU handle nosy people...?

2006-12-19 15:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom wants me to do an after-school activity, but I really don't want to do one. Does anyone have any ideas for interesting and exciting after-school activities that don't take up much time (and maybe can be taught in a lesson format?) I'm really into fashion and writing. At school, I excel in Humanities and Math. Errmmmm . . . I'm 14 years old. I can't really think of any other info . . . any suggestions?

2006-12-19 15:24:54 · 11 answers · asked by Girl With Kaleidescope Eyes 4

Like what are words to write down on a peice of paper to describe someones family. Just words not phrases.

2006-12-19 15:04:54 · 11 answers · asked by karen s 1

2006-12-19 15:02:37 · 5 answers · asked by angie angelbody 2

home and her sister lives on the other side. her dad was there yesterday to visit her sister (his other daughter) and her family and didn't visit my friend (he hasn't visited her since march and visits the other daughter frequently, usually a few times a month). but my friend doesn't visit him, either. they live about a 5 minutes drive away. when my friend came home from work, there was a present in her living room for her 4 yr old son for christmas and a card for her with "i'll think of you, love dad" written in it and 8 pennies taped inside. what could those pennies mean? (my friend knows he was there to visit because she saw his car there when she was leaving for work.) could it be something sarcastic since he waited until she left to take it to her house so he didn't have to see her?

2006-12-19 14:56:02 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-12-19 14:53:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-19 14:47:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband wants to die to give our family life insurance. how can I convince him not to?

2006-12-19 14:44:24 · 20 answers · asked by Destiny H 1

When my mom died I was devastated. I turned to my wife for support after two weeks of severe depression. She told me that in her culture, they take 3 days to grieve and then suck it up and move on.
No one was left for me to turn too and I had to drop out of school because I could not get adequate care for my son. Slowly, my self-esteem and my world view began to hit rock bottom.
In August of last year my mother-in-law was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer. Ever since she started chemo my life has been uprooted every 2 months or so. Her symptoms worsen and my wife spends most of her time there while my son and I do not see her and I am expected to miss work to make it easier for her to go see her mother and not have to worry about careing for our son.
Now her mom is close to dieing and my wife is devastated. But I feel that she has had almost a year to accept that her mom was dieing. She gave me three days. Should I tell her it is time to accept her mom's passing?

2006-12-19 14:41:39 · 17 answers · asked by Thirst For Knowledge 1

My mother in law has moved in for about a week now. I have asked her to not smoke in the house because my son has asthma and i also have lung problems. My husband refuses to make her smoke outside he told her it was alright to smoke with the door closed the window open a towel to block the smoke from comming out in the hall(you can still smell it though) which she only does this when we are home and smokes where ever when we are not but she watches our kids while we are at work and she smokes in front of my son who has asthma. Plus she smokes weed in our house..
So am i being unreasonable? Or is she just being rude and unreasonsable? Please help any advice this is ruining my relationship. not to mention my childs health.

2006-12-19 14:29:33 · 18 answers · asked by mystic_rage879 2