I have been married to my wonderful husband for a year, we have a new born baby boy and were very happy until his brother moved from LA to our small mountain town. Since his arrival he has informed me that I suck as a wife, and a mother. He told my six year old (from a previous Marriage) that mommys a *****. And has accused me of intenionally scheduling an interview outa town on a day that he wanted to do something with my husband on purpose. I confronted all these issues and now I'm physcotic. Then the man hacket my myspace account and my email account. He read all my personal email to long time friends and proceeded to call all of my husbands family to inform them of the dirt he found on me. The dirt consisted of me asking a long time girl friend for help and ideas on how to handle the situation. So here I am feeling alone in the world. My husband is pulled in two directions and is confused himself. So my question is does anyone have any ideas on how to handle this situation???
2006-12-19 18:29:56 · 8 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm guessing the bro-in-law wants you. Immature people will react like this when they love someone they can't have. Let your husband handle it. Your bro-in-law is disrespecting you and regardless of hubby not wanting to be in the middle you didn't do anything to deserve the treatment (right?) so it's not between you and him. That's what they all say when they don't want to get involved but it's not an excuse.
2006-12-19 19:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he live in your house? That would be the first problem. Ask your hubby to help you find him an apartment of his own so you two can get back to life as a new family. As a couple, give hima deadline to move out - Jan. 15th would give him PLENTY of time beyond the holidays to find a place.
Change all your computer passwords. Put an access code on the computer so he can't log into the computer at all.
What a creep.
2006-12-19 18:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by 101pupil 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes first of all, he is your husbands relative, it is better for your husband to handle him. Ask your husband to tell his brother politely that his input is not required in our marriage, tell him I dont mind him digging in myspace or emails because I dont have anything to hide, you know it all already, we have kids togather, tell your husband, this type of incursion is not friendly, it is devilish, devil goes in a place to uproot it, call your brother in law the devil and ask your husband to keep him away.
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2006-12-19 18:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Syed M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your husband to get the brother straightened out or you and the baby move out, and mean it.
2006-12-19 18:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your husband's alliance should be with you. Let your husband know that he has got to take your side and stand up for you.
2006-12-19 18:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is acting like a spineless jellyfish and it is time he stood up to his brother.
I would never allow my brother to be disrespectful to my wife.
2006-12-19 18:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anon Tom 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to tell is brother to leave...Or get rid of them both...Your husband is wrong not to be on your side...Bro needs to go....
2006-12-19 19:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move away. Why does he care so much about your life? He must not have one of his own>
2006-12-19 19:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by LSD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋