every time i get to my house i get insulted of how stupid i am and i cant do nothing in life. i dont know why they tell me this, but to all my other brothers and sister they leave them alone. then, if one brother fights with me, all start to be against me, what should i do? should i speak up?
2006-12-19 17:05:59 · 11 answers · asked by gaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh yea, and i aint the oldest, my sis is, shes 19, im going to high school
2006-12-19 17:13:36 · update #1
There is no law that says you have to put up with this behaviour.
Walk out and don't go back.
2006-12-19 17:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your parents are the ones insulting you if this is the case then u need to speak up but remember that nobody taught your parents how to be parents. they are human which means they are not perfect and they will make mistakes just like the one they are making by calling u stupid. also just because they call u stupid and not your other brothers doesn't mean that they love u any less. if u were critically ill in the hospital I'm sure they would want to see u and hope that u got better. if u have an aunt or uncle that u get along with or can confide in let them know how your parents make u feel and maybe they can talk to your parents. I hope my advice helps oh one more thing try to read books that motivate u or that will help u understand your parents I think there's a book out there called toxic parents. good luck
2006-12-20 01:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by bettygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just your siblings doing this to you...I'm sorry but it's just the way it is. You just have to put up with that. If you just can't stand this, you can move out after you graduate your high school so you can find work more easily to support yourself. You will have lots of space between you and them, it might actually make the relationships better. Who knows!
If that's your parents doing this to you...they are obviously not the best parents. They might have been actually abusing you emotionally and if that's the case, they wouldn't notice or apologize to you. Again, the best thing to get out from this situation is to leave home. Show them that you can support yourself and you don't need them.
I hope things will get better for you. Take care of yourself and good luck!
2006-12-20 01:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are of legal age, you should get your own apartment or move away from them. Don't put your family in your business. If they insult you, try to not get upset and shrug it off. If you know they turn against you when you fight against one brother, Stop fighting. Try to keep to yourself. In fact find a part time job that takes up your time in the evenings. That way when you get home, you can go right to bed, without dealing with no one.
Good Luck.
2006-12-20 01:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by Vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A soft anwer turneth away rath....They are probably trying to get you to speak up. Just answer them softly, or maybe agree with themm (Hey sis, you need to learn to do your hair better, you look like bozo the clown ___Yeah, I know, I know) I'm not saying it works all the time, but I think if you tried it all the time it would probably help
2006-12-20 01:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by wyomingirlie16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the big sis/bro gets yelled at or blamed. Just ignore them...turn up your music, if they bang on your door, dont answer just let them yell. Evetually they'll stop.
2006-12-20 01:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea just put up with them. We all make fun of my little brother for being such a failure, but we all secretly love him.
2006-12-20 01:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by peon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could be trying to teach you someyhing like:stand up for your self or something else;but if im wrong you could sue them if they treat you bad enough. =)
2006-12-20 01:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by khwanlee92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you can move out dont let them talk to you like this you dont deserve this
2006-12-20 01:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes, speak up!
2006-12-20 01:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋