Family - December 2006

2006-12-04 10:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by sweetie87871 1

She always treated my sisters better than me, even when they were doing drugs, running off with boyfriends and getting pregnant. In high school I was sick for 2 months and she was happy i wasnt in school and got pissed when I went back. When I decided to go to college all she did was discourage me. When I found I had high blood pressure I changed my diet and next day she went and got me soda and junk food.

For my birthday I got 35 dollars and my sisters got 100 dollars, vacations and gift cards. She constantly threatens to kick me out of the house and whenever I quit a job she bugs me everyday to go get another one.
Keep in mind I never did drugs or smoked or drank, I never got in trouble and always came home before 8pm. She occasionaly brings up how I burned the first floor of our house by accident when I was 5 when I was playing with matches and even called me an arsonist once. I am really starting to think she hates me

2006-12-04 10:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not attracted to anorexic or obese people, and since our marriage, 8 years, my wife has been gaining weight. she is not obese but she isn't normal or skinny. she is fat. how do I tell my wife to lose weight? I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I also don't enjoy sex with someone that huge.

2006-12-04 10:36:46 · 15 answers · asked by louieisthebestest 1

ok i live rent free with my extremly cathloic grandmother. i was raised chiristian but have switched and am now a Wiccan. how do i tell or better yet should i ? i fear seh'll kick me out and i have no where to go if she does. is it wrong of me to let her keep thinking i'm still christian ??

2006-12-04 10:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5

imagine they kick me out at 18, and i am suppose to go to college.how i am going to use their income to fill my financial aid.

2006-12-04 10:24:09 · 19 answers · asked by richard4dealer 1

she forces me to take weight loss pills and im starting to get underweight. she will literally stand in front of me and will scream at me to take them, if i don't she beats me. i think my mom wants me dead for life insurance. my dad is in Iraq.

2006-12-04 10:23:34 · 9 answers · asked by Sara S 1

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2006-12-04 10:21:54 · 15 answers · asked by meng 1

specific ways on how to be good father

2006-12-04 10:09:28 · 22 answers · asked by jpc 1

I'm a 37 year old bloke and my younger bro is 29, and I of course think the world of him. I'm always there when he needs me, and to be fair I'm sure he would be there if I had a serious problem. But I would like to do more together - nothing flash, just going out to the pub, have a good old chat about things, maybe the odd day out, stuff like that.

The problem is that he only seems to bother with me when he either has a problem, or he is at a loose end and none of his mates are free. Whenever I suggest anything, he's either not interested, or its "not convenient", and to be honest I'm getting fed up with it now.

I'm a great believer that any relationship, whether it's with friends, partners, work colleagues, or family, should be a two-way street. But I really feel like he just uses me, even if he doesn't mean to.

I do try to be fair and balanced, but do you think I'm being unreasonable here? I reckon this must be a common issue - any suggestions?

2006-12-04 10:06:47 · 23 answers · asked by Andy 2

My brother and I keep fighting with each other. With bad language or hitting each other.

2006-12-04 10:06:36 · 4 answers · asked by princess 2

i want to whether i have to leave the house, or i still have to stay for some time.

2006-12-04 10:04:16 · 17 answers · asked by richard4dealer 1

So I see these two girls at a party and to me they seem to look extremely alike, but I didn't want to ask if they were twins. So I ask one of them is that your sister? And she says no that's my twin... I looked at her like isn't it the same thing? Just wondering what everyone thinks.

2006-12-04 09:36:42 · 9 answers · asked by Broken hearted 3

I'm a white female, and my boyfriend is asian, his family are muslim, he isn't religious, and neither am i or my family.

Nobody will accept us as a couple and people hate us being together. They try to pull us apart.

How can i make them see, we love each other?

2006-12-04 09:25:15 · 14 answers · asked by Freedom 2

He is 28 and it came out a surprise when he tried touching my breast and kissing me when i visited my uncle once.Im so much haunted by these thoughts that i want to tell my parents and his about it.I still dont know why but i dont like the look in his eye when we meet.This is really getting into something else and im scared he will try to rape me.Help me !!!

2006-12-04 09:05:01 · 21 answers · asked by BeautyBreak H 4

2006-12-04 09:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by Cyndi 1

my best friend's dad is always beating him and calling him horrible things.and it got really bad and he kept telling me tht he was gonna kill himself so i was tlk to ur dad about it. he didnt want to but i made him tell his dad tht he was suicidial. and when he told his dad was like so what? u want me to buy u some tylenol?
why would anybody say tht to theyre own kid?

2006-12-04 09:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by Christine B 2

2006-12-04 08:44:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriends dad died, about 2 years ago in a terrible plane crash. He talks about him like he is still alive though (i.e. my dad is a doctor instead of my dad was a doctor). After the death, his life went down hill...he turned to drugs and isnt doing well in school etc. but he is currently in counseling and trying to basically get back to his normal life. I want to help him overcome the grief of losing his dad but i dont know how to bring up the subject without offending him or hurting him more..........

2006-12-04 08:43:38 · 7 answers · asked by XoXo 2

2006-12-04 08:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay ever since I got my period, my mom has treated me unfairly last year she caused me to go into depression because she hit me and verbally abuse me as well... she favors my brother over me by letting him do more then me and everything I WANT she will get for him, I could have won 10 000 dollars and got into the semi finals for a poetry contest, and she wouldnt take me, She lectures me to get a job, meanwhile she refuses to drive me and whenever I get an interview she wont take me, she will call me a selfish ******* lil ***** and tell me I am a mistake and tells me I wont succeed, she is a power freak she likes to be in control and stuff.. and shes very hipocritical. For example one time I stayed home from school sick and shes like ya well if ur not responsible to get up in the morning your not responsible enough to drive. well.. shes gotten up late.. because she didnt check her alarm. and blamed everyone else for her getting up late.

2006-12-04 08:36:53 · 6 answers · asked by beth 2

My mother in law is 81 and lives with us she is in good health but has taken to her bed I called out the doctor who confirmed there is nothing wrong with her it is just as if she has given up she no longer wants to eat and just has the occasional drink basically wants to be left alone she is the most content I have ever known her but I can not understand why she just wants to go I do every thing for her and feel cross that she is giving up when so many eldery people would love to be so well looked after.

2006-12-04 08:33:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Shes tall athletic happy happy blonde shops at hollister good grades

I'm tall thin not always happy red headed shop at hot topic and a C student

2006-12-04 08:30:56 · 15 answers · asked by xxapplejuice33xx 1

2006-12-04 08:29:01 · 13 answers · asked by Carealotbear71 2

I am freelance and have all my work up north in england. grown up here etc. I panicked though when I turned 31 and told my family I had to move down south as I was scared of getting talked into an arranged marriage. The people I freelance with really like me and I lilke the people I am with. For yrs I have been unhappy and I feel I don't want to move away as I don't think I will find the same sort of nice people again. My trouble is ...I live with my mum who has high expectations of me marrying a hindu boy of preferably a high caste and who is punjabi. I also live with my brother who gets to do anything he likes. I can not stand him as he gets treated very differently to me and he doesn't see it. I won't go on...but it is pretty major things like my mum not demanding money off him like she did with me and my mum stating that he will get all her homes when she dies.

My family will not understand me moving away just for the sake of it. If I say I have to move

2006-12-04 08:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by Blue_Bell 1

2006-12-04 08:01:40 · 12 answers · asked by mgilmore02 1

2006-12-04 07:54:19 · 44 answers · asked by Philippa 2

Is it incest to have sex with my grandfathers sister's grandaughter?

2006-12-04 07:52:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is 37 years old. She and my brother have only been married for a few days.

2006-12-04 07:49:13 · 7 answers · asked by brandy 2

For many reasons, I absolutely despise my fiance's parents and paternal grandparents. They have done so many things to hurt us and my side of the family that I feel they are no longer worth my time or effort. My fiance doesn't want anything to do with his grandparents, but he says he still feels a need to have a relationship with his mom and dad. Personally, I will never forgive any of them for the things they have done, but I don't know how to feel about my fiance speaking to them. Whenever he does this it feels like he's betraying me, but I keep in mind that they are his parents, and for some reason he wants to maintain a relationship with them despite their faults. I try to be understanding because he tries to get along with my parents, but it's like they're getting away with the things they have done to us. I don't know how I should act around them, or how I should deal with this anger toward them. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thank you in advance for your responses.

2006-12-04 07:47:52 · 7 answers · asked by Persephone 6

does anyone else have constant arguments with their family? i always want to say sorry but i find it so hard

2006-12-04 07:47:06 · 29 answers · asked by amelia-rose 2