He is 28 and it came out a surprise when he tried touching my breast and kissing me when i visited my uncle once.Im so much haunted by these thoughts that i want to tell my parents and his about it.I still dont know why but i dont like the look in his eye when we meet.This is really getting into something else and im scared he will try to rape me.Help me !!!
2006-12-04 09:05:01 · 21 answers · asked by BeautyBreak H 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just don't visit him. This way you will be free!
2006-12-04 09:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Gibbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty,
I don't know how old you are, but no matter what your age, unwanted sexual advances and touching are abusive. Please tell someone you trust NOW!! Tell your parents, if they don't believe you, tell your uncle. If he does not believe you, tell a pastor or a teacher. Keep telling until you get a trusted, safe listener who believes you and offers help. If the cousin tries doing this again, say loud enough for everyone to hear, " You have not right to touch my breast. Get off me!!" NEVER be in a room alone with him. Please tell your parents and stay away from this cousin. He is not interested in you, he is interested in abusing you. DO NOT keep this a secret.
2006-12-04 17:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by A mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a family member about this- it's obviously freaking you out. The sooner someone knows the better- if it causes a family rift that is not your fault. A relationship between cousins is legal in England (although not always comfortable from a family perspective) but this sounds more sinister. Make sure you are not left alone with this man.
2006-12-04 17:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marrying cousins is actually legal so treat the situation as you would if a workmate tried to touch your breast and kiss you. You'd probably tell your boss wouldnt you. So tell teh head of teh family, like a grandad or something. Grandparents traditionally love all their grandparents so they you are both equal in their eyes. I odn't think hes gonna try to rape you, it may just be a look of unrequited passion
2006-12-05 17:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by devil_pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart you sound like a wonderful person and it is not your fault you have a purvert for a cousin but listin to me tell your parents right away and don't be scared because this is no laughing matter I know you might feel embaressed or scared but if your parents can't help you who will and if he has a sister make sure you tell her!!!! Make sure you tell your mom and one more thing THIS IS NOT A SECRET EVERYONE SHOULD HEAR ABOUT THIS TELL YOUR PARENTS THE NEXT TIME IT HAPPENS REMEMBER GIRL POWER!!!!So please use my advice and tell your parents and remember all of us on Yahoo Answers are praying for you!
2006-12-04 18:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Alice C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think everyone is interested in you. Get over yourself.
I can't answer you seriously cos i don't think you're being serious with your questions!
If this is just bull then please think of the people who might actually be going through this kind of thing that your using for attention, as i suspect, and have some damn respect.
If it's not bull well just think before you post ridiculous Q like "how do i get ugly cos everyone fancies me and i have to beat them off with a stick?" because no one believed the boy who cried wolf.
(and if you think I'm being harsh read her other questions.)
2006-12-04 17:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay well let me start by saying two words. restraining order. lol. talk to him. but like in a distant way. call him and ask him why is he doing all that stuff to you. my little cousin calls me baby and pretends that me and him are gonna get married one day. but then again he is only six so he might be going through a phase. but if it gets to the point where you arent comfortable around your cousin tell him to stop. if he doesnt stop tell your parents and tell his. then maybe he will stop under the authority of his parents and yours.
2006-12-04 17:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by shanice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur parents the wosre thing is to not tell them or let them "accidentally" see anote u have written or an eamil u have written explaining whats going on then u havent really told them. It works trust me. and if u still need help email me or im me I'm always here for anyone I love helping ppls!
loving Jon M.,
~Amanda A.K.A. Ginger~
2006-12-04 17:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by hot-rocker chick-punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl,i'm sorry to hear that this happen to you and u have a pervert for a cousin.You should avoid him always.You need to tell your parents about it and let them handle it.I'm sure they will take care of this problem.This is not something you should handle alone.Please follow my advice and tell them.Good luck!
2006-12-04 17:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by cancel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say on a previous Q that you are 22. Are you not old enough to have given this guy a good smack in the mouth........or did this happen when you wer younger..............you don't say??????
If this did happen when you were younger you need to tell someone hun, imagine this happening to one of your younger relatives again....or confront him yourself now that you are a woman and tell him you remember what he did and tell him he either owns up or you will tell someone on him!!!
dirty bastard!
2006-12-05 09:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by EMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should tell someone. Your folks, the aurthorities, anyone who is willing to listen and take you seriously. This something you DO NOT want to keep to yourself. Good Luck.
2006-12-04 17:53:19 · answer #11 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋