2006-12-04 09:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by Cyndi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I live in NJ & my mom lives in south Texas & i don't know very meny people here on this base
2006-12-04 09:28:04 · update #1
Hmm, that is kinda hard to say since I am not really in your position. Part of me says "no"; you are a grown woman, somewhat independent, it would just be reverting to move back in with your mother. Besides, you are married. That puts a lot of responsibility on you and really makes you kind of grow up. It's time to live your own life. Another part of me says "Yes"; Maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea. This part of me comes from my own personal perspective - my fiance is training to be a Ranger in the Army. Moving back in could be really good for you as far as the lonely factor goes. However, I don't think that moving in with your mom would exactly be the right answer. Maybe a roommate? Or you could even come see her often or have her come stay with you for a little while. Good luck though, and I will pray for you and your husband. I can only imagine... and fear... what that's like. God bless.
2006-12-04 09:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved back home when my ex-husband was deployed ... I didn't have family on post & I didn't have any friends of my own either ... hanging out with a bunch of Military wives just sounded boring to me ... I'm very independent but being alone on a military post with out a job or kids is just asking for depression ... even if you move back for a few months at least you'll have something to do ... I couldn't handle not being around my family ... good luck ... !
2006-12-04 09:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are lonely or having trouble making ends meet then by all means if she will have you GO! But please realize that as soon as hubby gets back he may not want to be living with your mommy. SO maybe keeping the homefires burning for him is a good idea. The important thing here is you are waiting for him when he returns.
2006-12-04 09:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-04 09:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should go out and have some fun. I wish you where living in Japan. So I could take you out while your husband is gone. Because I know your just a sexy party animal waiting to have some fun.
2006-12-04 09:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no u should not because ur a wife now a dn it's good to be going back and forth. the reacson u got married is to go through tick and thin (hey look i even know that and i am not married and i am not a christian i m a muslim and proud to be one.) and if u leave him u r breaking ur promis
2006-12-04 09:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to be alone during this time. Maybe stay a couple nights a week or have a friend stay with you.
2006-12-04 09:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by km 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,no need in being lonely,you might make bad decisions because of that!
2006-12-04 09:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE you cute you couldmove in with meeeee.
Just kidding get away from the base as far as you can get
2006-12-04 09:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Todd C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can you be independent enough to be on your own?
are you lonely?
do you want to give up your apartment?
can you support yourself?
you have to consider everything and weigh the factors.
2006-12-04 09:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋