Family - December 2006

It was amazing, even though I was sick yesterday...I got such a warm feeling of who I am and where I am right now in my life...how about you?

If you want to read then read on:
It was cold as heck outside..crisp air..lightly sprinkled clouds..and a deep full moon that lit the sky and ground with cold shadows..I went to get some fire wood and my breath was seen in the moonlight..I started the first fire this year in a fireplace decorated ready for Santa's visit..I turned on Kenny G's Christmas (yes I am not a fan of his, but the Christmas album is soothing)..I sat on the carpet and held my little 3 month old daughter..she stared into the fireplace as did I..sipping on some Château St. Michelle Riesling (shouldn't drink while sick but oh well)..my 3 month old just talked and looked up and just stared into my eyes..my wife sitting on the couch rubing my shoulders and head that ached..I got a burst of energy got up and danced with my 3 month old around the room to the Christmas music.

2006-12-05 02:27:55 · 16 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

I have a friend whom I have known for about 10 years now, problem is that she is driving me crazy. It seems like everytime I tell her about something she has to add in her two cents about how I am wrong in someway. Be it something like adding water to my car (which she tells me common sense things like not to add cold water to a hot car) or how to raise my child (apparently my choice not to spank my 5 year old is wrong because he will never behave, even though he behaves very well most of the time). It is always something when she is around, she just really must think she knows everything and the rest of the world is ignorant. I am just at my wits end here lately and would really like to point out to her that I am not an idiot and I don't lack common sense. She seems to think that I haven't lived as much life as she has or something, but the truth is that I am an educated adult. Should I just ask her if she really thinks I am that stupid or what?

2006-12-05 02:19:36 · 13 answers · asked by averyanne77 4

My Question might be in the wrong order please read them then reply.Thanks

2006-12-05 02:00:08 · 3 answers · asked by Bad Dog 1

Wife says she fantisizes about having another women in bed when we are having sex should I find one.

2006-12-05 01:55:14 · 14 answers · asked by Bad Dog 1

I am not getting the logic behind their responses. Yes, I know there are two sides to every story and we are getting only one, but some of the female and a few male responses justify that it is okay for a man to not play a strong father figure and blame it on the woman. I just read a response that defended the absent father, the responder justified it by saying, maybe the ex makes it difficult when he tries to contact the child. So what!!! Who cares if the ex is difficult to deal with, it is about the child. No matter what the circumstances their is a child's life at stake and nobody has an excuse for not being a participating parent. Could somebody please tell me what they are thinking when they make excuses for dead-beat parents.

2006-12-05 01:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by stacey h 3

yep, i am sitting at home, does anyone know any good tips to do on a snowday

2006-12-05 01:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by dalter 1

my grandpa, beeing at my house for a visit, my parents not beeing home at the moment, had the right to disciplining me for something i did and he found out (phone call) with a belt spanking ?

2006-12-05 01:41:07 · 19 answers · asked by L R 1

I'm 21 and have been having problems with people saying that I'm not an adult or that I dont act like one!!! I have a full time job and pay my own bills and basically take care of myself. I thought thats what was considered an adult but I guess I was wrong!!! Can anyone explain to me how you act like an adult and what is it that I'm doing wrong?????

2006-12-05 01:39:57 · 31 answers · asked by unique_pr_cutie 1

If you can help me about my friend. She is married have two kids and a great husband. But at the moment she lives in another city cuz she have a decent job. Her husband with the kids live in another city. They are not divorced...but just they are working in different places. They love each other and have a great kids.They are having succsess.they are students.
She told me that know the company offered her a bigger position with a bigger salary. And just in the moment when she wanted to move back with her husband...a splendid job opportunity came along. She wants to stay at least 6 months, just to prove the others in company that she is capable...but in the other hand she miss her family ....

any advice, have you been in similar situation...please just give us your opinion about it ,
thanks .

2006-12-05 01:39:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Very upset ......................

2006-12-05 01:35:40 · 11 answers · asked by NELSON W 1

2006-12-05 01:33:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anya M 1

I saw this kid where I thought he was part Puerto Rican or part black. I knew he was Hispanic. It turns out his father is Jewish and his mom is Mexican. They named him Darius.
I hear people sometimes say that Mexicans have denied some of their black bloodlines. I also hear this about some Jewish people denying black bloodlines.
Please no comments about being racist or he is of the human race. I get that. I am curious about his background and this is a question/answer board.
And no, I cannot ask him myself. Sometimes I get that comment.

2006-12-05 01:23:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is what I told them this time after I asked if they had an emergency which they did not:

"Please do not call early in the morning when I am gettng ready for work. I have asked this several times and you keep doing it. I am rushing around trying to get ready and I almost always and up forgetting something I need for work.Is there anything I can do to help you not do this? I really do not want to leave the phone off the hook in the morning. Please PROMISE me you will not do this again. It REALLY screws me up in the morning but I really do not want to leave the phone off the hook." At first they said, So dont answer the phone" I answered, " I have to make sure there is, God forbid, no emergency"

Then they were very apologetic,and promised not to do it again. My BF is very upset, they often wake him up with their early AM calls, he works different shifts at his job. They are interfering with my eating and sleeping also.

2006-12-05 01:02:01 · 21 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3

I drug tested my 16 year old last night. He tested positive for THC. I know the boy he was with and I am friends with the mother. The kids have been best friends for 5 years. I've known her for years and she is very involved in her son's life. Basically, she's a very good mother. I am 100% certain that her son would test positive as well. Do I tell her to test her son? Do I not say anything? Help!

2006-12-05 00:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by tellme.lies 3

i feel odd ok esp for this kind of movie that has intimate scenes and all the other ppl in the theatre are boys/girls...what to do? how do i tell him...how can i get around this...

2006-12-05 00:39:35 · 9 answers · asked by drno 2

my daughter is four. the"sperm doaner father" is not around. he has not seen her three years. he knows were she is and how to contact us,but chooses dope before anyone or anything.

2006-12-05 00:23:26 · 16 answers · asked by aimee r 1

I have a lot so I was wondering how many you people have? I am the oldest in my family and I have 13 other siblings 12 are brothers and one is a sister (Out of all of them there are two sets of tripplets and me and my sister are twins)

2006-12-05 00:18:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 21 and my sister is 17 years old
last night when i was asleep in my bed, she came and sleep near me in my bed without any action
this happen 1 or 2 time per month
what does her mean??

2006-12-04 23:50:34 · 7 answers · asked by saman 2

My GF is mad at my mom for deleting the pics of her

2006-12-04 23:47:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

you made a lot of assumptions there, I think you just couldn't be satisfied with the fact that we are all happy and getting along with our lives, I am married and pregnant so I think it's safe to say I love my husband and he loves me but that was personal information that I chose not to disclose but now you have forced me to, my husband and son get along just fine they love each other to pieces the fact I chose not to speak about in my question was deliberate and personal because I was trying to highlight the fact that my son is secure despite the break up of his father and I because we have agreed to be grown ups and put him first, but you assume I am shutting out my beautiful husband and still in love with my ex, well kimmy please go on to think bad of me I am so happy I no longer care. SORRY Yahooers please report me if you wish I realise I am in violation here.

2006-12-04 23:27:17 · 24 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6

My mum and dad have gone to what feels like the other side of the world for a month, That mean that this will be my first Christmas with out my mum and dad, This also includes new year, I have a older sister too, but she will be going away soon to, I will be left in my town with no family and friends and really no-one i love, to spend Christmas with, I have cried every night since they have gone and dont know how i am going to cope, Can some one please help???

2006-12-04 23:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by trixiepinx89 1

My mum abandoned/ran away from my family 6years ago and is now trying to get in contact with me. She says she knows we all despise her but there is no way to erase the fact that she is our mother and we should forgive her.
Should I let go of the past and forgive and forget the heartache she has caused?

2006-12-04 23:14:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-04 23:07:07 · 8 answers · asked by segun j 1

at least 10 large (and I don't mean 7x11inch) framed portrait photographs placed around her living room, all of her. this doesn't include the five or so (smaller)pictures she has of her with somebody else. Other family pictures do feature but we are mostly consigned to the dining room and corridor and they are from the era when afros were in vogue. I often spend my time when i visit her looking for new pictures she has sneaked in, once I counted as many as thirteen. The latest one has a gold frame around it and is strategecally placed right opposite where she sits to watch TV. I have often wanted to point this out to her, but I know that would embarrass her. It doesn't stop me from getting depressed every time I go to visit her. Am I being unreasonable? She's divorced and 70.

2006-12-04 22:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We split a year ago and have a 2 and a half year old. I am now Married and pregnant. My ex and I get on really well he sees our son every weekend and he would be welcome to see him more if he didn't work so late during the week. I don't consider myself the law when it comes to our little boy and he has as much say in his discipline as I do, we communicate about everything to do with him and always try to do as the other does when he is with either one of us so he isn't getting mixed messages. It seems to be working because we have had no problems with his behaviour and yes I say 'we' because we are still together on the parenting. It was not an easy break up and feelings were hurt badly but we have put it all behind us for the sake of our Son, after all whats the point in going over old ground or holding stuff against each other? it won't change anything. I feel for all those who are unable to have this too and think myself lucky everyday. I hope you all get some resolve in your life

2006-12-04 22:50:32 · 22 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6

i am n 18yrs guy i seems 2 av a problem its my mom n dad i dont know wat 2 do my parents they dont care abt me i've just seen them having figth n i've become alcoholic but i am sober now but still they dont care abt me i dont even get tabs 4 my depression n i dont know wat 2 do i think i should leave my home i cant tell u more abt me here but u can email me at
max_fell_down@yahoo.co.in

2006-12-04 22:29:11 · 7 answers · asked by max 1

there are some relatives who hurt me real bad, just after my father,s furrnal they came back to our place and started asking about my father's stuff, money, one of them ment to set in my father's favourite chair, another one sat with her daughter in his bed and asked for his clothes because some of them was new not to be wasted.
they didn't respect my sadness, i was you teenager, ineeded their help bt nothing i got from them so i kicked them out of our place and since then they bad things about me
infront of other people they act nice so people think that im the bad one
some people told me to forgive them if i wanna go on but i cant...it's to hard. it happened 6years ago and i still remembre it as it was yesterday.
Am i a bad person for not forgiving them?!
Please help
thank you

2006-12-04 21:59:36 · 16 answers · asked by Princess 3

Christmas is coming and this is the first christmas I'm not going to spend with my family, I'm studying abroad. But I still want to give them something so that at least there;s something from me that will take place among my big family... Well, let's say a present to be sent through internet or email??? I'm 14. thx

2006-12-04 21:56:46 · 3 answers · asked by wonder why 2

do i throw a suprise family party, or arrange somthing for her and mates all do it all together

2006-12-04 21:25:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our 13 year old son is sporting a Dhoni style haircut which is looking quite untidy.We tried to persuade him into getting a regular haircut but he is not ready to do so.

Yesterday we got a complaint from his school about his haircut and asked us to get his haircut else they will have to take action.

My Husband is quite furious now and wants to take him to a barbershop and get his head shaved smooth to teach him a lesson so that he doesnt grow his hair so long again.

I am not sure whether we should take such an extreme step. what do you think?

2006-12-04 20:50:19 · 43 answers · asked by suma 1