how could i live an happy life ,when everything goes hard in my family ,.?

Question

You all that gives answer to my question you never knowns what makes it hard what makes me unhappy , it has been from my childhood till date ,which i don't wish to it to happen to me in my future, it you wished to heard the story of my life you can talk to me on Yahoo Ms now [e-mail]

Answer 1

if you cant be happy in your family...try to be happy outside your family...like friends or stuff............

Answer 2

That is a "pretty open question", stating "everything goes HARD", in your family. Just what do you mean by that. Is it that your family is of low income, so food,housing,basics are not met? It is difficult for participants to answer such an open question. But I will try. If you are getting close to the "legal" age, have your Education, at least High School, then to improve the quality of life you need to start planning your move. Start saving your money,it won't take long if you really try hard. Otherwise, speak to another family member, outside your immediate family. Try and get some solid advise. Take action, and try living on your own,that's if your old enough. If you are being abused, seek help from the authorities. Abuse can be in the form of constant belittlement,withholding of nourishment,physical punishment, exposure to alcohol & drugs. Take care of yourself and if this answer doesn't Hit the Mark, send out another question, and put in more details. Good Luck and Merry Christmas.

Answer 3

Forget about the past, you can't change it, its over. However, today and the future are all you have. So, get on your knees, and put all of your problems in Gods hands. Tell him that you are asking him to come into your life and that you are putting all of your problems in his hands. You have to listen really hard for your answers. But talk to him, he really does have all of the answers. I use to be just like you, depressed, always thinking about my past and couldn't see anything good in my future. But I turned to God and he has helped me immensely. He may not give you what you want but he gives you what you need. Here are some words to live by:

If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

Happy moments, praise God.
Difficult moments, seek God.
Quiet moments, worship God.
Painful moments, trust God.
Every moment, thank God.

Good Luck, and I will pray for you.
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Answer 4

I know what you mean by hard times and how life takes us for loops but the truth is god does not give us more then we can handle. So keep your chin up and try to look at other peoples problems and you will see maybe yours are not so bad. I found that talking to others on here and hearing their problems made mine so trivial in comparison. Brighter days are coming just hang in there and keep talking. Best of luck to you.

Answer 5

It's not easy, but you need to try to appreciate what good things you do have. We (my hubby & I) seem to lose the ones we love, have problems with the house, cars, anything & everything you can think of goes wrong for us. ...But we have each other, a roof over our heads, & plenty of things we want (not just things we need). We are actually very fortunate, sometimes it's just hard to see & easy to forget.

Answer 6

never lose hope. try to see the little good things in life. after all, everyone goes through hardships and the people who stays strong will survive. so hang in there. ^_^

Answer 7

life has ups and downs and unfortunately you are currently experiencing the down part of it but all will come to pass in due time

Answer 8

I really should practice this , but they say being optimistic helps. look for the good in every thing that happens