She always treated my sisters better than me, even when they were doing drugs, running off with boyfriends and getting pregnant. In high school I was sick for 2 months and she was happy i wasnt in school and got pissed when I went back. When I decided to go to college all she did was discourage me. When I found I had high blood pressure I changed my diet and next day she went and got me soda and junk food.
For my birthday I got 35 dollars and my sisters got 100 dollars, vacations and gift cards. She constantly threatens to kick me out of the house and whenever I quit a job she bugs me everyday to go get another one.
Keep in mind I never did drugs or smoked or drank, I never got in trouble and always came home before 8pm. She occasionaly brings up how I burned the first floor of our house by accident when I was 5 when I was playing with matches and even called me an arsonist once. I am really starting to think she hates me
2006-12-04 10:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no your mother does not hate you have you ever heard the phrase "the squeeky wheel gets the grease"? Because your sisters are always getting into trouble they need the attention and that is why you get less of the attention she is caught up in them and that is not you fualt or hers you need to set up a time to spen with just the two of you ask her out to lunch or make her dinner at home and bring a movie if you do it at home schedule it for when your sisters are out getting high so that you will have time to spend alone with your mom she will appreciate it and love it what they have with your mom is a dependent relationship what you can have is a friendship
2006-12-04 10:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Heaven C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm, i don't wanna say "yes she does hate you" because i know you love her (and you should, for she's your mother), but i will say this: she really isn't doing a good job being a mother, in fact she isn't even being a mother to you.
i'm sorry, if she isn't treating you right, but i want you to know that no matter how terrible she may look (or sound for this matter), she is still your mother, and you will forever be attached to her some how, and you may even love her still, despite that.
i would suggest you keep being a good girl, ignore what she is doing, study hard to make it in school, so that when you go off to college, and get a career and are able to stand on your two feet, you wouldn't owe her anything, or have reason to be around her then. At that point, i'm hoping you'll go into therapy to get rid of any hurt feelings, and then ......
you would have made it! and maybe one day, she would realize what she did, and trust me, then she would really wish she had treated you right! then, she would be proud of you, even though she may not be a part of your life, and she would highly regret what she did.
focus sweetheart, just try your best to make it in life for yourself, and don't let her wear you down. I think you are amazing, keep it up.
And remember to never hold hatred against her, or a grudge against your sister, because that will just make you like them. Be better than them! Forgive, Forget, and love!
2006-12-04 11:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have what one of the famous children stories like to call, Cinderella story. I'm sorry to say this, but your mom does hate you, but that doesn't mean that you have to hate her back, what I would tell you to do, is move out, that place isn't good for you, or your health. If you could, I'd find a friend to move in with or something like that, it sounds like you need to just get away from them.
2006-12-04 15:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by shitgoblin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby boy it sounds like it suck for you but just think shes there and some kids don't even have a mom , please tell her how you feel you sound really depressed and depressed people do things that you don't want to do. girl have always been treated different then boy even through its not fair and at the time of your birthday money might not have been that good @ that time. you should really talk to your mom about these feelings, I'm sorry your going through this right now just please talk yo her it just might help you never know?
2006-12-04 12:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by tonyad143 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like your mother is insecure and does not want you to leave her. Sometimes mothers become over protective and the only way they think they can keep you around is to strike at your self esteem and confidence. Maybe she is afraid for you. You should ask her about this and recommend that you both go to therapy to help her get over her insecurities and help you get your self eseem and confidence back.
2006-12-04 11:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What doesn't my mom hate about me? >_> She thinks i'm an interest whore. Striving for her interest each and each day. even as she forgot that i'm 18 and interest truly isn't what i'm asking for.
2016-11-30 03:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋