Family - October 2006

Who inspire you who make you smile become happier with ya daily life.

2006-10-08 17:28:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom told me today that for Christmas and Thanksgiving, that my husband, and two little children are invited for dinner, but that my older two girls and their families aren't invited because she doesn't have room to have everyone and their families for dinner. My older two are my stepdaughters and my mom and family have always accepted them but during the holidays its always been hectic because of other families involved. Now she says this and that if I wanted to have my own Thanksgiving and Christmas with them, she wouldn't be offended or upset, but that if she found out that we went to my husbands moms house for Thanksgiving where the girls and their families would definitely be invided, that she would be upset. Its ok, if I do my own thing, but not go to his moms house. She would rather I go to hers and he goes to his moms if I didn't have my own things at my house. It just doesn't seem right, and I don't quite know what to do without causing problems.. What would you do?

2006-10-08 17:26:27 · 6 answers · asked by OnlyHis 2

Parents. As much as I try, as much as I get straight A's and be a good girl and daughter and everything, they are never proud of me. If they are, they sure don't show it. They just ask for more! What can I do to make them stop expecting so much and just be happy with who I am?

2006-10-08 17:22:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-08 17:20:37 · 8 answers · asked by bubblegum 1

has anyone ever meet an incest child? do they really look all messed up like the movies show us?

2006-10-08 17:10:06 · 7 answers · asked by nikngbe 1

2006-10-08 16:23:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I am 20 and never was purchased a car by my parents. But for some reason, I almost expect that they should or should have, because besides the fact I am responsible, don't drink at all, and have excellent grades, most kids in high school at least were bought a piece of junk that can trasport them places.

My dad recently got a better paying job, and he still won't budge. I think he views me as a greedy and materialistic pearson for asking this from him...but he just pays for my community college, big deal. I was accepted to two of the top art schools in the US, and he wouldn't dare consider paying for it! Well anyway, I have to take buses and get rides, and this is very inconvinent because I am usually late to work because the bus is always late!

I do work, but only get 8.05 an hour, and to buy anything decent I don't know how I could swing it. I have no credit and he certainly would never be a co-signer for a loan.

2006-10-08 16:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by Mikey 2

My husband and I always have a hard time saving money, so he suggested that we use our seperate accounts ( that we already had ) and deposit our own paychecks and use our "own " money to pay the bills. He will make the house pmt. , truck, and insurance, and half of the HOA dues. I am to pay the phone, gas & elecrtic, and half of the HOA as well. Then we will also split our childcare, and groceries. Is this odd? Is there alot of couples that do this? Will it work? We have been married for 8 years now and he has always been the one who works full time...but now that I am working full time as well he thinks this might work out better for us. What do you think? Has it worked for others? Has this idea not worked for others? I just want some feedback on this idea. Thanks for the help.

2006-10-08 16:21:44 · 8 answers · asked by ♥just me♥ 5

shes so fake when we get around friends she treat me wonderful but i no when we get home she just gonna treat me like someone from off the street she goes over my friends house for long periods of time and when she gets back im all a sudden overcome with feeling i try to reach out to her but she just tells everyone else about and my mother is stressed also by her boss like behavior she thinks she runs everyone and everything until someone beats her ***.

2006-10-08 16:20:09 · 6 answers · asked by lil l 1

long story short i was not wanted. i was sexually,verbally, physically, mentally and emotional abused by my parents.. but I have dealt with my childhood.

This is not about my child hood. but about what my mother recently did. ( she has never liked me and has made that perfectly clear)

I WAS VERY ILL AND IN AND OUT OF HOSPITALS. IT CAME DOWN TO ME NEEDING MAJOR SURGERY.

THE FIRST TIME I WAS IN THE HOSPTIAL SHE DID NOT CARE, BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT IT WAS PHENOIA. ( NOT SERRIOUS ENOUGH FOR MY MOTHER TO CARE)

AS I GOT SICKER AND SICKER AND ENDED UP IN AND OUT OF HOSPITALS, SPECIALIST AND TEST AFTER TEST, THEN SHE STARTED TO CARE.

TOOK OFF WORK TO TAKE ME TO APPT. I NEEDED MAJOR SURGERY SO SHE TOOK OFF WORK.

SHE TOOK OFF A TOTAL OF THREE WEEKS DURING THE SURGERY PART.

EVERYONE AT HER JOB NEW WHAT WAS WRONG. THEY SENT ME ME CARDS AND CALLED.

NOW THAT I AM HEALED FROM THE SURGERY MY MOM WILL HAVE NO PART OF ME. SHE ONLY USED MY ILLNESS TO GET ATTENTION

2006-10-08 16:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have problems dealing with anger after i reach a certain point lately i've been under a lot of stress and i've been reaching that point a lot more than i'm used to my way of dealing with the situation is to remove myself from the danger zone where i might hurt someone or myself my mother says this is immature....any comments?

2006-10-08 16:15:03 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle S 3

i want to know who they are? where they are now? I know I was born September 8th, 1975, in Vicksburg, MI. My birth name was Rosmary Lee Kim Renee Kline. I am not sure of the spelling of the last name though. I have three siblings that I was raised with. Their first names at birth were, Beatrice, Tonka, and Benjamin.

2006-10-08 15:55:14 · 8 answers · asked by onyx332008 1

2006-10-08 15:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by djtzclark 3

my brother is over there and i miss him like crazy and i was wondering how other people are handling it because i am going crazy... i cry all the time and i miss him sooooo much

2006-10-08 15:43:35 · 3 answers · asked by lilshortsunshine2002 3

2006-10-08 15:32:02 · 25 answers · asked by Young Mothers Network Services 1

How does any body get 50 to 100 best answers a day? I know there are some super smart people on here. So' tell me.

2006-10-08 15:26:26 · 18 answers · asked by Sarcastic Sid 4

This last summer, I didnt really get to hang with my cousin because of relationship PROBLEMS. Now, I think hes not picking up my calls like i did to him. How should I approach the situation ? Im always understanding when its his time to patch his arguements up with his girlfriend. HELP ! thanks

2006-10-08 15:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by Elusive ()Ne 2

My mum and sister are in thailand until sunday and me and my dad found out last night that my cousin died yesterday.
Should we tell my mum while she is on her holiday? Or wait till she gets back, she will miss the funeral

2006-10-08 15:11:36 · 29 answers · asked by Nik 1

for me it's like they keep improving upon it all the time.....
so i feel the worst is yet to come :-(

2006-10-08 15:03:29 · 6 answers · asked by kiran 2

can a child a girl aroundsix now 13. how will this effect there life in the future

2006-10-08 15:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-08 14:51:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need this for a question for school...please respond!

2006-10-08 14:42:51 · 13 answers · asked by adman266266 2

that my mom is having another baby. I have a little sister, and this one's going to be a boy. I'm going to be around 13 years older than him. At first I really didn't want another sibling, now Im getting used to the fact. I'm not sure if im happy of not though, should i be?

2006-10-08 14:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any websites that have free services for finding family members in other parts of the world or a family tree. I know my family spans from Germany to America [even to sri lanka.. i duno how but..] i'd like to maybe speak to some or just find them so I know they're out there. Anyone know how?

2006-10-08 14:23:05 · 1 answers · asked by KS 2

2006-10-08 14:22:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How is communication vital in fostering a mother/daughter relationship?

2006-10-08 14:16:02 · 10 answers · asked by boobare2006 1

I just recently inherited a substantual amout of $ from a family member. My ex-common law wife found out about it, and threatened to sue for a peice of it, stating that she is entitled to her share. We were separated long before I inherited. I say she is not entitled. I have full custody of our child, I told her to leave me alone or I would sue her for child support--this was just a scare tactic on my behalf--the $ is for the upbringing of my child, and a good amount has been put into a savings account for my childs future. We are from a common law state and are legally seperated.

2006-10-08 14:09:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Originally we were going to get him a toy box, but his grandpa is making one instead. He already has pull/ride on toys. We bought him some clothes, but looking for a BIG gift idea. Thinking of buying another savings bond, but we buy him those every 6 months, so another wouldn't seem that spectacular. Anyone have any other ideas?

2006-10-08 13:49:53 · 13 answers · asked by AlaskanCutiePie 2

I'm SO SICK of my sister!! Every night my older sister will senk her boy friend into the house and they're doing it in the room beside mine while I HAVE to watch THEIR baby. I sick of having to listen to them. She's 25 and shw won't move out. and that good for nothing.... boy that she's with won't fix the house that my parents bought for them. I AM SO SICK OF THIS!!!!!!!! Should I tell my mom what thye are doing? Is anybody else.... in the world going throught anything like this?? I NEED HELP! I can't do this anymore! Should I go see my school shrink, or will she come back and tell my mom? I'm on the edge! I feel like I'm about to cry right now. PLEASE... somebody with any advice on how I can put up with this any longer? I'm 16, and I've already been through an eating disorder (my mom doesn't know. my friends helped me with it.) and I'm haveing thoughts of sucide because of this. This is for real and I need help!!
should I talk to somebody about this.... Or will this feeling go own??

2006-10-08 13:44:03 · 18 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2

2006-10-08 13:42:10 · 15 answers · asked by FeEdMeJuNkFoOd 2