Can someone PLEASE help me?? I'm scared of what's happening here.?

Question

I'm SO SICK of my sister!! Every night my older sister will senk her boy friend into the house and they're doing it in the room beside mine while I HAVE to watch THEIR baby. I sick of having to listen to them. She's 25 and shw won't move out. and that good for nothing.... boy that she's with won't fix the house that my parents bought for them. I AM SO SICK OF THIS!!!!!!!! Should I tell my mom what thye are doing? Is anybody else.... in the world going throught anything like this?? I NEED HELP! I can't do this anymore! Should I go see my school shrink, or will she come back and tell my mom? I'm on the edge! I feel like I'm about to cry right now. PLEASE... somebody with any advice on how I can put up with this any longer? I'm 16, and I've already been through an eating disorder (my mom doesn't know. my friends helped me with it.) and I'm haveing thoughts of sucide because of this. This is for real and I need help!!
should I talk to somebody about this.... Or will this feeling go own??

she has already been married once and has a 5 year old that she gave full custdy to the daddy when thet got divorced. The reason for the divorce was b/c of this goofy SOB right here. she cheated and that was it. She has been here for almost a year now and HE is here EVERY NIGHT, EVERY DAY!!! I always see his stupid face!!! I stay with my best friend a lot. Her mom know's a little bit about what is going on and said that I can stay here as long as I need to.

I CAN'T REALLY talk to my mom. She hasn't liked me for years. My eldist sister is the favorite and I'm the youngest. I've always been pushed to the side. I was the only child that she had with my father. She hates him, and so... now she hated me. My real dad is dead now.

Answer 1

give this number a try, it s a national teen help hot line that i trust and have used my slef. 1-800-448-3000. you probably wont find any true help online and need to find some one you can trust. im 16 too and i know what it is like to have parents that dont like you. all my parents do is yell all the time. they like my siblings but not me. and i am the hardest worker in the house. do my siblings cook dinner?do they clean the house? do they make plans for college so the can do some thing with their lives in a few years? no no and no. they dont do any of that. ad my parents are soo proud of them and i am a big diasapointment to them.

i know what its like, this hot line is the best resource i hae ever had. if you want to see the website frist its listed below.

Answer 2

There's some thing referred to as Body Dismorphic Disorder (could have spelled it unsuitable), however it's whilst a character sees themself totally special from what they honestly appear like. A lot of the time its whilst anybody thinks they are frame is hideous considering that they are so "fats" or "unsightly", but if virtually they appear simply great! I'm without doubt no knowledgeable, however perhaps you must speak to a counselor or therapist and deliver that up, considering that this can be a probability. You sound like a wise woman..You recognise a hundred and twenty lbs isn't fats! That's just like the IDEAL weight for such a lot females. You can ask any person right here for aid, however relatively its gotta begin with you. The exceptional factor to do is encompass your self with supportive humans and do not allow any one or some thing deliver you down considering that I'm inclined to guess you appear well! But search aid from a authentic. I promise you are no longer by myself on this.

Answer 3

Is this loser over at the same time every night? Next time you hear them "doing it", go to your mom and tell that you're hearing 'noises' from your sisters bedroom and could she please check it out. I would pay $20 to see these fireworks!

This emotion thing you're going through, is just that... emotions. Think back, stuff that really bothered you at 14... I bet you don't think about that stuff anymore. And things that are bothering you right now; I guarantee you that that they won't bother you at 18 or 20. Most of the things that are bothering you, are little things. They may seem big, but they're not. If I were to let a lot of little things worry me, I'd be locked up in the loony bin. I don't sweat the small details anymore. If the world isn't coming to an end, don't worry about it. Life is way too short to be a walking nervous wreck. Enjoy life & smell the roses. You'll be a much happier person.

Answer 4

Surely your parents already know? I mean you all do live in the same house? If your sister is bringing in a boyfriend at "night" then maybe she should put her child in the bed first!

You are her sister, not her babysitter! Just don't do it plain and simple! You said you were 16? Tell your sister you have some activity, a date or something. It isn't like you HAVE to take care of her baby. At 16 I am sure you have a little freedom to leave the house or just go to bed!

Leave the kid up, let your "parents" get a good taste of what is happening and they will either put a stop to it ot they won't.

Carry on with your teen life..........

Answer 5

I have a 16 yr old son. If his brother was doing this I would want to know. My oldest is 18 moved back in after being on his own for 7 months. He is a computer geek, causes problems with younger son. You need to talk to someone, If you can't talk to your mom Try your teacher you trust or counselor. Even your friends mom. You need to get it off your chest. Start a journal, you can keep track of your feelings & it might help you feel better. You don't have to show it to any body unless you want to. You can also go to you local mental health. They can help also. Don't be afraid to seek help. Email me though here if you would like let me know how you are doing. Good Luck, Becky

Answer 6

think it's time for you to call in human services......your sister needs a kick up the @rse. You should be telling your mum the whole thing and don't hold back. Spill your guts on the entire situation and get your sister into a position where she has to either "face up to her responbsibiliteis" or go get her tubes tied. Give it over to your mum and then let dept human services know what your sister is doing.

Answer 7

You are 16 years old you can get emancipated if your best friends mom would let you stay with them. #1 one You do not have to watch their child. If she wants to have her boyfriend over lock your door and don't watch the baby. You did not make it so you should not have to take care of it.

Answer 8

if you can't talk to your mom abt this due to the fact that she won't listen, talk to someone who can knock some sense into her. A relative that you are comfortable with maybe.... you can try talking to your school shrink. So what if she talks to your mom. A third party talking for you is much better than talking to her yourself right?

Answer 9

well, get pissed.. and then tell them all about it in a manner that will hopefully embarrass them...or stop watching the baby...im not real sure..if you cut her off and quit enabling her it may limit her options..i am an ex-husband with full custody and i know the type of gitl you are talking about...its all about her and if your not, then she doesnt want anything to do with you...drop her like a bad habit..good luck..

Answer 10

go tell your mom and tell your sister that you're not gonna be there to take care of the kid while they're going at it. Tell your mom what's going on so she can kick her out of the house. tell your sister to stop what she is doing because it's traumatizing you, and tell your mom!! or at least just do something so she'll "accidentaly" walk in while they're doing that.