2006-10-08 16:23:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i had the same problem my husbands family sisters and mother diden't like me either for no reason at all i was always so nice to all of them and they treated me with no respect when i would go to his parents house his mom and sisters would all ignore me i felt like a piece of dirt laying there know i'm married for eight years and have two beautiful kids and his mom really likes me but i can't seem to forget what happened my husband would always tell me to not pay any mind to them. i really feel bad for you some mother in laws and sister in laws are terrible to handle if he really likes you he will stick with you good luck all the best.
2006-10-08 17:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she really hate you or is that your perception? Alot of times it just seems that way. Moms are very protective of their son's. Not wanting anything bad to happen to them, or to be put into an unhealthy relationship. Sometimes, you just have to prove yourself to the parents. If you happen to be "daddy's little girl", I'm sure he is protective of you as well. It's a natural instinct for parents to want to protect their children. Give it some time. Good Luck
2006-10-08 17:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by bugoff26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he still lives at home, you may have to break up with him. Unless he is capeable of moving out on his own, paying the rent and all of the bills that come with it including purchasing his own car and paying for it, insurance for the car, medical and dental insurance, or the bills that come with needing to see a doctor or dentist...When he can be fully responsible for himself then he will have a say in what goes on...as long as his mother is still responsible for him she calls all the shots.
2006-10-08 16:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of these answers are right but depending on the kind of person you are will be the solution. if you are a person who does not like drama i would highly suggest finding a new one b/c its true...it only gets worse. also...there are so many guys out there why not find a new one, i know i couldnt live with the fact of making my boyfriend and his mom fight. (even if she is in the wrong...ask yourself, is it really worth it? )
2006-10-08 16:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you love him, and if you want to spend the rest of your life with him. My ex boyfriend's mother tried to seperate us. I was still in university then. And she even found out where my old high school was and went there to see the boarding house mistress to tell her that i was a bad girl and that i was a bad example of how this brilliant school ( it was a top girls school) turned out bad people like me. She was psycho! She even came to my house to tell me not to see him again. I thought carefully and knew i wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with him so i wont have to bother what this crazy psycho mum thought. But it got to a point where i felt she was so crazy that i didnt have any respect for my boyfriend anymore, so i dumped him. He kept hanging around my house and psycho mum found out and came to my house to tell me off. I told her in so many words to get out of my house and said to both of them to get out of my life. I've not heard from any of them ever again.
Also, if or when you get married, your marriage vows will tell you that he has to put YOU first - not his mother, not his father, not even your own children! YOU have to come first. So he really wont have a choice but to take your side. Saying that however, i'm not suggesting that you get married to solve your boyfriend's mum actions.
2006-10-08 16:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by cscjm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt his mother would hate you for no reason. You should take a long hard look at yourself and see what it is about you that his mother does not like and why she thinks you are wrong for her son. Then talk to his mother and try to come to understanding about your relationship with her son.
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2006-10-08 17:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by rikenelson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your boyfriend that if he really loves you then the two of you need to stick together. if you do that things shouldn't get too rough but he needs to help you out. i've been through the same thing. good luck
2006-10-08 16:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by contr0lx113xa0f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. My boyfriend's mom does the same thing. If you guys are meant to be together, she won't be able to stop you.
2006-10-08 16:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_lil_butterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what, as long as you guys love each other, don't let her get in the way. You do what you have to, to stay together. Good luck.
2006-10-08 16:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by jaylee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First find out why she hates you. I am sure she doesn't hate you for nothing. But there is nothing you can do except talk to her if you wnat to chance her mind.
2006-10-08 17:00:00 · answer #10 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋