can a child a girl aroundsix now 13. how will this effect there life in the future
2006-10-08 15:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She can only hope and pray that she has a very supportive family to help her through this, and that her own mental and emotional state of mind is strong enough to help her over the hurdle of this terrible injustice and violation that has been forced upon her private person. No one can ever know the exact feelings that she has or is going through and they must never pretend to be able to know. Only this child will ever know if she can ever get over this. She may be able to someday move on from it, but she will never forget it, but she also has to be able to rise above it and realize that she in no way was ever responsible for what happened to her no matter how or what happened. But, the way that she handles future relationships will depend on how well she can handle present relationships, and however that is will be the right way for her at the time it happens. No one but her can say what is the right way to "get over this". Only she can answer that...and even then it is not easy.
She can very possibly move on to where she will nearly completely forget that this ever happened to her and someday have a very loving and caring relationship with a wonderful man and go on to have a wonderful family. Only time and patience will tell.
My prayers and empathy are with her.
2006-10-08 16:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes receiving proper counselling and adapts positive thinking. She must understand that she didn't or do not know what is sex was about and she was forced into it. She will remains as pure even after that because she is innocense, no faults of her etc. The past must be left behind and buried. People makes mistakes all the time and they will leave these mistakes behind... right. So it is normal to leave any unpleasantness behind too.
More importantly, people around her must not reminds or ever brings this unpleasantness up.
When she gets older, she will understand better and will enjoy sex just like any other grown ups. Carry on with life positively.
2006-10-08 22:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy my first response is to find the bastard that done it and cut his balls off.
Then let the girl and her family tie him to a chair and take turns at introducing his head to a baseball bat.
After that get him counseling.
2006-10-08 23:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone who has been raped needs someone who has been thruogh the same thing to talk to in confidence and be able to trust that person. a person who has been raped can move on but they don't forget. they just have to let the person who did it know that they will not allow this to control their lives. that they are stronger then that. 'i can do anything through Christ who strenghths me' If this person needs someone to talk with please feel free to email me I have first hand experience of how they feel and am a good listener. i have been through this myself.
2006-10-08 23:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by onyx332008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is something that she will never be able to get over, unfortunately its something that she will need therapy for
2006-10-08 22:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by drz_mami_yankee_87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being not alone always with the opposite sex and homosexuals.
2006-10-08 22:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Djnan 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
therapy, and lots of it.
2006-10-08 23:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never do
2006-10-09 16:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋