Family - October 2006

2006-10-11 13:52:11 · 3 answers · asked by duffy 1

They find something to fight about daily...its about to drive my husband, my son, and myself out of our minds! The 17 yr old (Ill call "V")always says really hateful things to her sister (Ill call her "S") like she hates her, or she wishes she was never born, or why cant she just go away. Do I try to be the mediator , which usually leads to both of them mad at me... or do I try to stay out of it and let them try and resolve their own conflicts? So far, which ever one I do try, seems to be the wrong one.

2006-10-11 13:45:31 · 12 answers · asked by AlmostSpoiled 2

i allways fight with my dad but never my mum

2006-10-11 13:41:42 · 5 answers · asked by ------ - 1

My clothing has had to go in the garbage it smells, the sink was so bad the wood rotted and they just put board on the side so it wouldnt collapse the walls in the living room have mold on them, I spray it with tilex on the wall but since dry wall is porus it wont go away.My kids are upset about it and I am paying about a 1000 a month and it is not easy to save up and just move with two kids. What can I do?

2006-10-11 13:35:53 · 17 answers · asked by WhereIamis 1

Grandmother was unable to make decisions and her grandson made a deal with her on property. Is there a time frame within which it must be recalled - should her Dr. state that she wasn't able to make these types of decisions?

2006-10-11 13:28:43 · 2 answers · asked by Amy Y 1

Sometimes i get thoughts like bad thoughts about anyone ...like my grandfather for example. He is going into surgery. a big one and i was thinking about death and i was like well i won't miss (then something he does that i don't like) but then i argue with myself in my head and be like no! or i would say in my head "i hope he dies then in my head i say no i dont! see, i am close to my grandparents and love them sooooo much! they never did anything to hurt me in any way. I was wondering if OCD was part of this because i know you can get unwanted sexual thoughts or images. I get sexual and bad. I feel like a horrible person. I could cry thinking of things going wrong with my grandfather. I NEVER EVER used to get these thoughts until my last ex controlling bf. I heard stress could cause OCD. Please help before i make myself go crazy!!! Thanks!
Just keep in mind i know you don't know me but i am SO close to them so i would never want anything to happen to them or i'd be devistated

2006-10-11 13:24:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older brother is really over-pretective of me when it comes to guys especially. he is a seinor in high school and i am a freshman. now don't get me wrong i luv him bunches but how can i get him to relax when i am aroung guys?

2006-10-11 13:24:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 13:21:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 13:15:30 · 3 answers · asked by MARY H 1

okay so my mom is being gayish and shes mad at me for stupid reasons like because i left the light on in the bathroom and in the garage ya that was a mistake but she freaked out and when i tried to say sorry she got all ticked off and said whatever im not taking you anywhere anymore but tomorrow me and all my friends want to go to USS NIGHTMARE but my mom dont know anything bout it and i dont wanna tell her because i know she will say no so should i just ask my dad or just ask my mom

2006-10-11 13:05:32 · 9 answers · asked by random_grl4 2

2006-10-11 12:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by aquaris01975 3

this boy is like my bigbro i can him my big brother and he calls me his lil sis but after him and his XX girlfriend Breanna broke up he startted dateing this chick named destiney well destiney was a totel B!@#$ and i can stand her well when they were going out he was a jerk and realy hert my feeling he would no longer give me hugs and he always was ignoring me. Well when they broke up he was back kinda and i was realy happy well know him and my friend Kristin are goin out and i love her but them going out is so weird and i am happy but he promised he would never chang like he did agin becasue he knows he hurt me.. well he is kinda changin I HATE IT I CANT STAND IT what do i do he says he hasnt changed but he has i love him and i cant ve mad all i can be i s upset please help me please i love the help well ilove him and his newgirlfriend but how do i stop him from changing and keep him keep mine and his relation ship and mine and Kristin(his gf) friendship

2006-10-11 12:50:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 12:47:56 · 6 answers · asked by Leigha 1

My single sister in law (brother's sis) came to visit and stayed 3 MONTHS. During that time she practically told me how to run my life. Everything I did was wrong. She even advised me how to raise my child (she has no children). I felt I bent over backwards for her during her stay - took her places and paid for everything but still it was not enough . Towards the end of her stay I had had it, I was physically, emotially and financially exhausted, and we left on bad terms. I felt used. She left the room she was staying in a pig sty. My husband says that I was in the wrong and that I should have made up for his sake before she left, he will always defend her actions. Now it's a constant topic of argument, even 3 weeks after she has left. I feel like she is haunting me and I know I should not let this issue consume our relationship but it is. I even hate hearing her name mentioned. How do I cope with this on a long term basis so I can come out with some dignity and grace.

2006-10-11 12:45:49 · 23 answers · asked by hip-chick 1

please i will like to know how a boy become a man,what to do ,?
fell to give me you adivice ,

2006-10-11 12:43:57 · 3 answers · asked by yahman m 1

She has been living with me since Katrina. She has caused my wife to move out and anytime we get along she makes trouble. I believe that she is just evil. She is 80 years old and has nowhere to go. Any advice?

2006-10-11 12:42:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 26 and live at home. My sister who is 16 constantly tells me she doesnt;' like me and wants me to move out of the horse. I landed a full-time job recently and instead of at least saying something nice, like congrats, she said "Good, he can move out." I went to the bathroom and she's screaming "I need to take a shower" when there's another bathroom in the house. Then she started hitting me. My parents tell me just to ignore it because "you're 26" but how much of the crap do I have to put up with?

She's also telling me I shouldn't be living at home. It's none of her business!

2006-10-11 12:34:39 · 25 answers · asked by axelf57 1

My daughter's name is Lovevallie Jackson Florence, any opinions? Good or bad is cool by me. :)

2006-10-11 12:18:00 · 9 answers · asked by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4

My dad was diagnosised with bi-polar syndrome Type II along with manic depressive tendencies and a touch of schitzophrenzia. He has had issues for a long time with taking medication and being emotionally unavailable. I am in my early twenties and some of my family is saying that I need to have some form of a relationship whereas I am thinking of cutting all ties. He has emotional issues that make it impossible for me to have any kind of relationship with him as he has no real regard for my feelings or anyone elses outside of his own. Basically he has spent the last eight years of my life acknowledging my brothers and me whenever it is most convenient for him to do so. He has paid no child support and hasn't contacted me or anyone else except for maybe once to twice a year since i was in my early teens.

2006-10-11 11:57:24 · 6 answers · asked by espressoaddict22 3

I moved here to help them out, but I hate it here. I can't find a job, and the cost of living is so high. I want a place of my own, and don't want to live with anyone. If I stay here I'll end up living with eather my mom or my sister. I thought I'd be able to adjust to living here, but I'm so unhappy. I want to go back to Arizona, but I feel guilty about leaving.

2006-10-11 11:42:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a daughter who is 9. She is whiny and very emotional. She never was as whiny as she is now. She has always been emotional but not as bad as she is now. Does anyone know when girls actually start going through puberty?

2006-10-11 11:40:01 · 13 answers · asked by littlegirls_2 1

My mother got a mother's day ring a few years ago and just recently lost it. I wanted to get a new one for my mom. Her old ring had 4 birthstones for the 4 kids. My sister wants me to out a 5th stone in for our brother that only lived for about a year. I really don't know if I should or not. I talked to my one brother and he said that I shouldn't. I'm wondering what some other people think?

2006-10-11 11:37:17 · 6 answers · asked by shellz1616 2

In light of all of the school violence, do you take time to really listen to your children? Kids are asking for help and no one is hearing them. Please take time out of the day to listen to the kids.

2006-10-11 11:29:18 · 10 answers · asked by redwidow 5

2006-10-11 11:11:48 · 46 answers · asked by Josephine 1

i just turned 21 yesterday, and i have been wondering for many years about my father who left my mom and i when i was 2 years old with out really any explanation. i don't necessarly want to confront him face to face (i wouldn't even know where to begin with a conversation with him) but i am naturally curious on his where abouts and what he has been doing since 1987. my mom has no idea where he is, and the last she heard was that he had moved out of state. i have been looking online and all the people searches cost money (which i don't have much of at the moment, im a poor college student)...so if there is a way to search with out paying money that would be nice too. thanks!

2006-10-11 11:10:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was the mother of my mother

2006-10-11 10:57:12 · 1 answers · asked by polillo 1

When I was 9 years old my sister and my neice moved in with my parents because her husband died and she needed help at the time. Well, I ended up taking care of her quite a bit while my sister was at work. I used to hop in the bath tub with her and we'd take bubble baths and I would bathe her and we would have so much fun. We did that together all the time together til she and my sister finally moved out and got married again which was when she was 8, Well, I'm married now but my neice is coming to visit us for a few days and I was thinking it would be so much fun to take a bubble bath together. I told my mom this and she thinks this might not be a good idea because it might seem inappropriate now, but my husband doesn't see anything wrong with it since we are both girls. I believe it is a way girls bond.

2006-10-11 10:23:37 · 102 answers · asked by Anonymous

and ive tried puttin them to earlier aarrgghhhh there stressing me out

2006-10-11 10:08:59 · 9 answers · asked by robertboozychic 4

my 2 year old likes to sit on top of my wife's head and sometimes shoulders while she watches tv. is this ok for her?

2006-10-11 10:08:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-11 10:07:12 · 22 answers · asked by Beaves 1