I moved here to help them out, but I hate it here. I can't find a job, and the cost of living is so high. I want a place of my own, and don't want to live with anyone. If I stay here I'll end up living with eather my mom or my sister. I thought I'd be able to adjust to living here, but I'm so unhappy. I want to go back to Arizona, but I feel guilty about leaving.
2006-10-11 11:42:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This should be of those "I love you but am so homesick for Arizona" speeches.
Or!
Get some interviews or a job offer in Arizona and tell them that you have to look out for your career and financial status...
Don't tell them being with them makes you unhappy!
2006-10-11 11:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you feel guilty? Just tell them you are moving back to AZ because you are unhappy. Being your mom and sister, they should understand and want what's best for your well being. If I were in their shoes, I would totally understand.
2006-10-11 11:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live in Arizona where you feel the most confortable. You can always vist your relatives when you get holiday time. No big deal, they will understand that you have to leave to find work.
2006-10-11 11:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty, you have to make yourself happy. There are a lot of very close family members that move out of state. Just sit them down and talk to them.
2006-10-11 11:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Billys girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit them down and have a conversation about what you are feeling. Let them know that you are truely unhappy here and give them full reasons and explanations. They should understand and if they don't they aren't looking at your side of things.
2006-10-11 11:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it clearly and consisely here. Try to say it the same way to them. I know it is difficult when you want so much to help ,but you are obviously miserable.Don't feel guilty . I am sure they want the best for you.
2006-10-11 11:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel guilty. Just tell them that it is not working for you, and that you want to move. Don't let me pressure you into anything, though.
2006-10-11 11:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You helped them right. Now help yourself. Tell them how you feel and that you love them.
2006-10-11 12:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them how u feel in a calm way when they are happy
2006-10-11 11:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by jaymill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋