Family & Relationships - 27 May 2007

she sugar coats it and makes exuses. and when i tell her the truth about that person she snaps. and now she says iam jealous of her relationship with her and my cousin whos not her daughter and thats why she says iam depress. anyways she said didnt i get even already by not being there for my cousin i said no she needs to clear my brothers name when everyone knows she was lieing about him. anyways my aunt thinks she shouldnt clear his name because its not nessary when its not brung up. i told her i hate my cousin for what she did. and now the family wants her back in the family parties will thell never see me again i rather be depress and be alone

2007-05-27 11:54:04 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

2007-05-27 11:53:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-27 11:51:36 · 2 answers · asked by cheers4kary 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do we miss good old days ? what does it make us feel like that ?

2007-05-27 11:50:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like I have a 19 year old mentally ill son who quit school and works sometimes for his cousin. But my husband always tells me I have to do something about him. I tell him all the time that he needs to go out and fill out job applications. I even bring them home for him. I told my older son that he had to move out and 3 days later my husband wanted to know if he had found anything yet and what was taking so long. I am starting to think that I will never live up to this man's expectations. That everytime I will accomplish something that he will just be demanding something else. Anyone else deal with this? What advice do you have?

2007-05-27 11:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by Damian S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He only knew the girl for a month and a half over summer and she died so he said that was why it was hard to tell me. But he made a big deal about how i wasnt a virgin.
He also fooled around with another girl a few years ago.

I tend to be jealous, especially after that. I know he loves me.
He also told her about his older brother's death, but wouldnt tell me. He actually got mad when i found out. He says he loves me more than her but i dont believe that because he wont be open with me like he was with her.

Should i be understanding or do i have reason to be upset?

Am i being to sensitive? I dont know how to get ove him lying about being a virgin. I constantly think about him and her and I just dont know what to do!

Please help!!!

2007-05-27 11:41:08 · 13 answers · asked by need_serenity 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in desperate need of a few words of advice, and since I have no one in this life I can turn to...maybe a few of you kind hearted people can help me through this. I am a 19 year old female muslim living in America all my life. My family comes from a quite traditionally conservative family. All my life they have expected me to be arranged to someone and get married, and although I quiety nodded, I know I cannot go through with it. I have met the most amazing guy of my life, who just makes me smile no matter what. He is simply perfect for me. Problem is, he is White. I am Pakistani. I want to marry him, he even proposed to me and I said yes. Now I do not know what to do. I dont know if I have to pick him or my family, because I know I can only have one. I tried breaking off ties with him, I cried my eyes out, he just wouldnt let go. he begged me...he said his life lay in my hands, and I just couldnt stand hearing that from him and seeing him so hurt. He is willing to convert for me

2007-05-27 11:39:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am in desperate need of a few words of advice, and since I have no one in this life I can turn to...maybe a few of you kind hearted people can help me through this. I am a 19 year old female muslim living in America all my life. My family comes from a quite traditionally conservative family. All my life they have expected me to be arranged to someone and get married, and although I quiety nodded, I know I cannot go through with it. I have met the most amazing guy of my life, who just makes me smile no matter what. He is simply perfect for me. Problem is, he is White. I am Pakistani. I want to marry him, he even proposed to me and I said yes. Now I do not know what to do. I dont know if I have to pick him or my family, because I know I can only have one. I tried breaking off ties with him, I cried my eyes out, he just wouldnt let go. he begged me...he said his life lay in my hands, and I just couldnt stand hearing that from him and seeing him so hurt. He is willing to convert for me

2007-05-27 11:38:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i don't know what to do about it?he says he loves me,but i don't think he does.

2007-05-27 11:38:10 · 6 answers · asked by martha g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi i,m a 21 year old chinese guy my girlfriend is black,when i started dating her when i was 19 my mother said why are you dating a black girl.Black girls don,t have a proper education and they get pregnant by different men all the time,but i did not lisen to her i just kept dating her because i love her soo much!! when i told my mom i want to marry her she got mad at me and when she saw my grilfriend she said oh you n!!!ger if you know what i mean and then she slap her said thanks for throwing your magic upon my son.i,m so mad a her i don,t ever want to talk to her again.

2007-05-27 11:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by jsh_mng 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom met my step dad 6yrs ago,my mom moved us in with him in this little town called cornwall, i started school thereand things were good. but in 7th grade i was horribly teased, but one guy stood out of the rest, his name was Brian Johnson, he was kind and funny, but as the teasing got worse he just stopped talking to me. though we did not talk like bf's. then my dad got a new job and we had to move to a new state. we moved to MA(massachusetts) i never got the chance to tell him how i felt. so Brian if you r reading this i love you, though you may not remember me, look me up in the year book, Briana DeLong, i not as much of a geek as i was back then, and for those who know him please let him know what i have been trying to tell him for a year but i always miss him when i'm down there. please send me some comments on what you think i should do or if you might know him. or anything you have to say at all. and if you are brian please wright me somthing. pple please take this seriusly.

2007-05-27 11:35:35 · 3 answers · asked by briana D 1 in Friends

I'm originally French, I'm a man in uniform (Iraq rocked) and I've been drumming for bellydancers for over fifteen years. I clean up after myself, I even play a mean Indian flute for chiftafellis. Why are all the bellydancers I meet either married, too young, or not interested in ripping off my shirt? LOL

2007-05-27 11:29:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a horrible example to my daughter. He smokes marijuana around her and watches R rated films with her. I called child protective services, but they said they couldn't do anything.

2007-05-27 11:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently asked this girl if she wanted to go out and go to prom with me. She seemed flattered and told me that she would let me know the next day.
The next day she found me and thanked me but told me no.
Why would she wait a day and seem flattered if she didn't want to? Would you not say no right away? Could it be that she likes me but isn't sure if she wants to go out with me? She is a year younger than I am and we've only really known each other for a couple of months but we get along really well.
I understand that she doesn't want to, I just don't know why she waited a day to tell me.

2007-05-27 11:21:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, the guy that I like, if any of you have been following my questions, still hasn't called me yet, and friday we talked like crazy, but the subject that I told him how I feel never came up.I have been waiting for him to call me, but nothing.School is almost over, it'll be over on friday then its summer....and I have to know by at least wednesday, so should I bring it up if he does'nt? And if so what should I say to get the conversation started?

2007-05-27 11:19:02 · 2 answers · asked by ...::AM::... 2 in Singles & Dating

well, i was @ my cousins house for a sleepover, and we had a barbq that day. so all of the boys and my uncles decided 2 go 2 a waterpark. but as much as we asked they said that the girls were a burden and that they would not let them have fun. i felt furious with anger! wat do i do 2 make them stop!!!!

2007-05-27 11:09:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, first i got kicked in the balls by my mom, which caused really bad pain in my testicles....it even ended in an unintentional ejaculation (i know....that sounds very strange). my mom's like "how are your balls doin', honey (*bigfatgrin*)?" all the time since then....i feel so embarrassed being near her at the moment, and that's bad enough. but now more and more people seem to know about it all and find it funny....will i be known as the boy who got kicked in the balls by his mom for the rest of my life?

2007-05-27 11:08:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to know what most married people do together on the weekends... it seems as though i spend my weekends cleaning and waiting around for when his friends aren't on the x-box live so he can spend time with me..... this is NOT how i envisioned my married life!

2007-05-27 11:06:17 · 25 answers · asked by User Name 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is getting married next weekend, and I need a gift! I am her bridesmaid, we have been close friends for as long as I can remember...we're both 18 now. I already gave her a basket of household items at her shower, so I want something more personal and special for the wedding. I thought about a real nice photo album or something.. what do you think? Any other suggestions?

2007-05-27 11:05:04 · 13 answers · asked by dodgechica89 2 in Weddings

just tell me what i can do to keep myself up im not really loving life right now im just depressed

2007-05-27 11:02:29 · 3 answers · asked by hotlilbrazilian21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got married 3.5 months and my hubby has filed for divorce i have no contact with him only his lawyer.My hubby is 25 yrs old works for insurance company making 50 grand year and i am 21 yrs old college student only working part time 3 days a week at doctors office receptionist making $288 a week.My hubby moved out of our home and i really cant afford the house bills?My hubby also pretty much left the house baren after he left taking 90%furniture/decorations and all the cookware even some curtains i paid for most of those things.I put in 35%percent into the homes down payment and he put in 65%.Hubbys lawyer wants me to move out to put the house up for sale hile the housing market is at a high?How can i find a cheap lawyer?

2007-05-27 11:00:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter wants to let this guy know she likes him without telling him. How can she?

2007-05-27 11:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by Xiao G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of a year and a half just revealed to me that he feels like I am his close friend more so than a girlfriend. Although he says he still wants to be with me. I ask him why and he says because I don't do things as far physically as he would like. I am saving myself for marriage, and feel like some of the things he wants to do might put me in compromising positions. So although I like to hold hands, kiss, cuddle, and hug...things of that nature...always letting him know I love him, he still feels as though that's not enough. I asked him if he felt he might want to date other people if he was unsatisfied with me, and it took him awhile to answer...but he eventually said no, he loves me...he's just frustrated at having to wait. I feel like I haven't the slightest what to do. We are in our mid 20s. I don't want to compromise my values, but I can't figure if he truly thinks Im what he wants. He is also afraid that if we get married Ill not change.

2007-05-27 10:55:17 · 9 answers · asked by Heather L 1 in Singles & Dating

ME--->> hey whats u been doin ?
i aint talk to yu in a good while ..


bf FRIEND--->>o chillin about to go to the strip club with yo man rickey.

ME-->>what he aint tall me nuthin bout goin to no strip club !


bf FRIEND--->> o yea me and yo man rickey goin now, so i talk to u later on big head.

ME---->>nah huh .
ya`ll well he better not do nuthin he ain`t suppose to !
and ight i`ll talk to yu later on .

bf FRIEND --->>girl rickey was on dem girls dam they was all on him im hatein.

and so ever since yesterday night i haven`t talked to him about my bf rickey called me today like 2 hrs ago . but i`m still so mad at this incident that happen last nite . and i just don`t know what to do .
but part of me thinks that my BF friend is lein cus he did once before tell my BF rickey how i told him that i was single and didnt have no Bf. . but i am goin to call my BF and talk about it with him. i just dont want them two to stop talkin ! & get into a fight .

2007-05-27 10:51:32 · 11 answers · asked by monique 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother and i were discussing sex and the pressures assoicated with it. i some how stated that i had a guy tell me all he wanted was sex and that i immediately stopped talking to him. long story short she keeps trying to find out who this guy is and she won't let it go. so i told her that it's my business and that i don't feel like discussing it with her. am i obligated to tell her?

2007-05-27 10:51:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-27 10:51:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday a homeless guy started insulting me and threatening me. I lost my temper and punched him straight in the face. Now all I think about is if he's ok and I am so worried about the consequences. I went to the police and explained, and they said:"Don't worry, he won't fill a complain. You're safe. Actually, it's good that you hit him, usualy they hit you." I am confused. I am a good man, I never did this before. He was bleeding from his nose, I appologised and gave him money, and he just left. Now I'm dying with worry. I prayed all day for forgiveness from God. I don't know what to do.

2007-05-27 10:50:44 · 10 answers · asked by Evelina G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend want's her ex out of her home but he wont go his name is not on the lease three year's ago she just got over breast cancer but with all the fighting they are having it could come back they have kid's together. so any help would do please

2007-05-27 10:47:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok hubby and i have seprate beds he says i snore to loud but i dont think thats the reason..and when we have sex its all about him being plzed and never me.yesterday i plzed him and once he was finished he got up and told me to do myself and left the room . we hardly ever do anything and i have a high sex drive.then last night kids were gone to there nan's we were alone so i tried getting him in the mood but he pushed me away.its like this all the time. not once or twice.i also told him last night i was cutting him off from sex he said like f**k .and if i say no to him about sex he gets pissed with me.

2007-05-27 10:40:57 · 22 answers · asked by browneyez 2 in Marriage & Divorce

even when it does not matter if he/she is around are not.even if u do it 2 or more times a day cause u stay so horny that u cant help urself.......

2007-05-27 10:37:39 · 30 answers · asked by babe 1 in Marriage & Divorce