ok, first i got kicked in the balls by my mom, which caused really bad pain in my testicles....it even ended in an unintentional ejaculation (i know....that sounds very strange). my mom's like "how are your balls doin', honey (*bigfatgrin*)?" all the time since then....i feel so embarrassed being near her at the moment, and that's bad enough. but now more and more people seem to know about it all and find it funny....will i be known as the boy who got kicked in the balls by his mom for the rest of my life?
2007-05-27 11:08:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
umm why does she think that inflicting violence on her son is amusing ?
im sure she wouldn't get the joke if you kicked her and joked to your friends about it later on.
do your studies, leave the area, go to college and meet more intelligent people ....
2007-05-27 11:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to your last question, of course not - if you're like me something even more embarrasing will come along and make people forget that..
Your mom, now, sounds a bit off to me. Not knowing the circumstances, we don't know what happened, but there are a couple red lights lighting up there. What you might want to do is to talk about this with someone you trust, like your grandparents or a priest or something along those lines. Your dad might or might not be a good choice here; family dynamics can be a little tilted sometimes. You don't really sound comfortable with this whole thing, so it might help to hash this over with somebody who has more experience and can offer more useful advice on how to proceed than anybody here could.
2007-05-27 11:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and can you call CPS? If not, and rarely do I say this, but get even. I have a mom from hell... the stories I could tell, but it is to the point where I have no respect for her. So all I can say is, and I feel your pain, is to get even and use that leverage. Also, where is your dad? BTW, being really crude and ugly helps. Hit her where it hurts (not physically but mentally... is she conscious about her weight etc?). Use it. Normally I wouldn't suggest this cause it is petty but what she did was evil and mom's are NOT supposed to be like this.
2007-05-27 11:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by nasar5@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What reason could a mother possibly have to do this to her child? Not a likely place to be kicked by accident. Then for her to laugh at you and ask you that, that is crude. She doesn't sound like a lady to me or a decent mother. Idon't blame you for not wanting to be around her, who would. Try to forget it and ignore her till she gets the point she did something wrong. She needs a parenting class I'd say.
2007-05-27 11:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she did was inexcusible I don't care what the reason was. And you know what? - TELL HER so! Tell her how she embarrassed you! Tell her that she also has hurt your feelings for everyone now knowing! She owes you an apology big time! If she doesn't give you that apology, I'd be rethinking about my respect for her... Trust me, you do not owe anyone undue respect - not even your mother! But, if you do not tell her how she made you feel, then you will habor these ill feelings for probably the rest of your life!
2007-05-27 11:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn was it an accident? If not I need to call the po po on her! Thats not funny! That can really hurt you man! Or .. well ... in your case, make you bust one.. but STILL!
You shouldnt have let that one get out.. that should have been b/w you and your mom.... and CPS.
2007-05-27 11:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by frankee_77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I doubt it this will pass just like everything else passes over...but you should tell your mom that she should not have done that it was embarrassing to you plus this could mean no grand kids
2007-05-27 11:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it depends who saw it Most of the time It will start waring away just laugh with them and they will stop
2007-05-27 11:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha, your mom kicked you in the balls!
2007-05-27 11:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Nathan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that is abusive, I think your mom is inhumane for doing that to you.
2007-05-27 11:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋