Family & Relationships - 27 May 2007

I recently broke up with my boyfriend Kevin.... I cheated on him... now I am going out with the guy I cheated with Dave. Me and Kevin are still friends... sometimes we even forget we are broken up and I still flirt with him. Well my Dave saw me flirting with with my ex and he got mad. He broke up with me and said he did not want to deal with the drama. I was hurt... I guess I deserved it because that is how Kevin felt but the other day Dave and I just got back together. I was sitting next to Dave's phone and I saw he got a text message from a girl named Carrie. I looked through all of the text messages and it said I can't wait to see you this weekend and all of these other things. What should I do?

2007-05-27 15:08:44 · 18 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Singles & Dating

I slept with my brother inlaw, and destroyed his family and mine!
My son refused to accept being leftover and decided to sue us and protect his inheritance wit his aunts support HE WON EVERYTHING WE EARNED IN OUR MARRIAGE!

I lost everything and my son won everything the 8 town houses, the family home the rented home most of our assets!
Now we have to continue paying mortgages because court order all property to son on judgment!
Were going bankrupt now and we can't fight it because we have no money to pay atternorys fees, so judgment stands!

Court said our happiness was second to son happiness and we needed to suck it up for him, but he tells us both to go to hell!

I would love to hate my sister but it was her husband I cheated with so I guess revenge is sweet for her!

Funny thing is My Ex. and I started to talk and see each other and yes have sex almost every night no less!

We have nothing now and we couldn't be happier whats up with that?
I need family back how?

2007-05-27 15:08:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

before you say yes to the first time you had sex?

2007-05-27 15:02:43 · 10 answers · asked by denisemorales 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy we went out for like a year and he breaks up with me for this ugly frekly face fat redhead whos so evil he even told me he loved me gawd i hate her why does he rub it in my face all the time?

2007-05-27 15:01:05 · 3 answers · asked by courtney n 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to get married on the date my father died. Would it be considered disrespectful because I want to have a happy feeling on that day?

2007-05-27 15:00:59 · 20 answers · asked by kitten_2_cat 2 in Weddings

Is sex a disgusting things as it might make someone have a baby! Oh well its seams terrible!

2007-05-27 15:00:12 · 14 answers · asked by =-dark-angel-= 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok im pretty embarassed but here goes... im 13 and i feel like i am always having temptations to look at pornography. I would love nothing more than to stop. Im Catholic and it is a big sin. I know that some people will probably say look at it or you will grow out of it or something like that. Well NO. I really want to stop and i want some answers. PLZ help.

2007-05-27 14:56:19 · 19 answers · asked by chocochipdonut 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two older sisters. Both are married, and both were payed by my parents. Now it's my turn, in fact almost here June 9th!! We are paying for 99.8% of it. They have payed MABEY 300-400$. Now i understand that being the last child it could be harder for them to pay for it, but it has been 14ish years since my oldest sister has married (10 years older than me) and around 4 1/2 since my other sister married(1 1/2 years older than me). Am I just acting like a spoiled brat? Or being unreasonable for thinking they would eventually suggest taking some of the financial burden off of us? We have been living together for 3 years, but so had my oldest sister when they got married. Just want to know your guys opinion...Thanks!!

2007-05-27 14:55:08 · 40 answers · asked by ayla_2114 3 in Weddings

Went a farewell on the weekend for a guy who is going home to the UK, we have been mates for about 8 months:

On saturday night though he was rude and arrogant towards myself and another friend who drove for 3 hours to come to the farewell. Examples are:
1. He bought a round of drinks for everyone there - except for us, he pointed toward the bar and told us to get our own.
2. He was rude to us in front of the whole group and he spoke to me like I was a dog (ie:when his other friend wanted the salt, instead of asking me nicely to pass it to her all he said was 'Rachel, salt now!).
3. He argued over everything I said, about stupid things like how cold it gets in winter (he has never, ever spent a winter here!)

So he leaves tonight and I was supposed to meet him for lunch but I have lied and said I can't. I feel a little guilty but he really annoyed me on saturday night by treating me like sh!t for no reason. Should I feel guilty or not?

2007-05-27 14:48:52 · 28 answers · asked by Freaky 1 in Friends

why do i always have to pee when im whorny

2007-05-27 14:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's May and it makes me wonder why most women want to marry in June? Whenever I overheard women talking about their wedding fantasies and plans I would hear them say that they wanna marry in June or they would be the happiest woman if they were to wed in June... why is there such a term as a June bride? thanks very much for catering my curiousity...

2007-05-27 14:43:36 · 20 answers · asked by joopeeter 1 in Weddings

Just wondering, and dont call me to young I already know that.

2007-05-27 14:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by marya 5 in Singles & Dating

i'm going to be straight i am doing wrong. i am married for about 8 months and i love him to death. i never had a wrong intension on doing nothing just simply talking. yesturday i started talking to my ex from like 3 yrs ago. it's just talk nothing serious and i don't even have feelings for him. i know it was wrong, i was just curious. he has moved on he has a gf and everthing, has his life planned out w/ her too. i'm glad but my husband got on the house phone and looked at who i called and he got suspicious and called him. i said it was a guy who kept calling talking ****. but he wrote the number down and put it into his wallet. so know he is going to tell his friend from the phone company and tell him yo trace the call, find out where he lives, also he said that he can go back to that day on some kind of machine and hear what was said in the conversation. i'm scared thier was nothing bad said and i am going to stop talking to him, but i wanted to know if the phone company can do that

2007-05-27 14:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by marilyn 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents just got divorced they are both putting me in the middle of it....i just recently got engaged and i want to be with my fiance.....i don't what to do b/c he has to move to Elgin in 2 weeks. someone please give me a strait answere and proof...thank you!

2007-05-27 14:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for abt 2 1/2 yrs. I am African-American and my boyfriend is Arab-American. My beau and I started out as friends and then it developed into us being a couple. We get along really well and of course we've had our ups and downs, but we've always managed to work out our problems. We're deeply in love with each other. We understand each other totally. The way I feel abt him, I have never felt this way abt anyone else before. And with him, he feels the same way.
The biggest problem is his mother. She disapproves of me because I'm black. She has never really gotten to know me at all. She just believes I am all the stereotypes of how black people are. And it's just soooo not right. His mother is forcing him to choose someone from his own ethnic group. My boyfriend has stood up to his mother but she has given him an ultimatum: either he chooses me and it's possible that his mother would disown him or he chooses his family. What should we do?

2007-05-27 14:34:38 · 32 answers · asked by bnagnos 1 in Singles & Dating

I told me bf that I loved him over the phone before he had to get off... he had never said it before and I know that his family was near.... but he mumbled I love you too back to me.... and it surprised me... I was so happy... but now it is a day later and I don't really have much of a reason to call him, but I kinda want to here his voice... and it is 8:30 pm....
should I call him.. or should I not...

2007-05-27 14:33:30 · 15 answers · asked by squirrely 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 14:27:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 14:26:44 · 19 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to be sexy. But i dont know how. All my life i wanted to acomplish one goal. To be sexy. I need to know how! Can you help?

2007-05-27 14:25:16 · 27 answers · asked by Arleen(: 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it even possible?

2007-05-27 14:23:37 · 9 answers · asked by Diva L 1 in Singles & Dating

okay my boyfriend has had a...tendancy to flirt and hit on other girls while he is dating me, and aperently him and my friend are "friends with benifits" but he doesnt seem to think thats cheating...i love him but i cant trust him, and i dont want him if i cant be his only one.
please, what should i do! HELP!!!

2007-05-27 14:20:27 · 10 answers · asked by stephanie m 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband cheated on me when I was 5 months pregnant and then left me for the other woman.

He said he would have left me anyways because of all the 'Problems' we were having (all of them to do with me but he never said a word about having these problems so we could address them.)

Said he didn't feel bad for cheating and that he never loved me and he never felt the way for me as he does for her. So he spent a month and a half still living here and just staying with her on some nights.

I lost 20 pounds because I was so stressed out and depressed and then he would always act like there was a chance for us to get back together and work things out so I would sleep with him and then it would be back to the same thing. When I finally stopped sleeping with him he made his decision to stay with her final and then a week later she broke up with him and he came crawling back to me. Now he won't stop talking to the girl he cheated with and says I should trust him...What should I do?

2007-05-27 14:13:37 · 23 answers · asked by sanitysrequiem85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

month, sound like a plan, anybody else have any ideals ?

2007-05-27 14:12:40 · 26 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to wear no bra?
guys what do you think
girls what do you wear?
and say no bra is not acceptable is it ok to wear one of those singlets with a loose sorta shelf bra in them under say a button up pj top
what is acceptable?
im 15 btw
thanks

oh btw what is wrong with a co-ed sleepover.
there will be lol responsible adults there
and both sleeping in the same room
i think
lol
hehehehehe

2007-05-27 14:09:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm disabled and bad heath, With a great kid, how could he walk away from us? What Kind of help can I get, I only get 600.00 to live on.

2007-05-27 14:06:19 · 23 answers · asked by PENNY M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

..a Party,we spend that night together,JUST ONE NIGHT & i went back to my country, we traded emails for 3 months then i went to Miami and he catched me up there, just 4 days together,then the same story i went back to my country .we're together again for New Year spent like 5 more days together & the nice dream goes on,in Febrary he told me that he decided to visit me to my country & we had a 10 amazing days together.but he never told me about What am i for him,i mean,here in latinamerica have different habits and customs guys r very direct and jelous.This guy never asked me if i want to be his girlfriend,never introduce me with his friends like his gf,he's still in contact,i know i like him,oh god,4 me always"the man is the right person to talk about it,not me! If I ask him.WHAT ARE WE? it's like i'm pressing him,i hate that!,I'll be back soon to states cause I got a good job. and the QUEST is..WHAT I MEAN FOR HIM? we are bf & gf? am I his part time lover? I don't understand his codes

2007-05-27 14:01:53 · 4 answers · asked by rochi_2006 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 14:00:21 · 57 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Weddings

I really really care for this girl, and I want to eventually go beyond the friend stage we are at now, but the fact I am joining the US Army may strain our already touchy relationship, I've thought about checking the Base procedures where I will be stationed, and asking her to come live with me.

2007-05-27 13:58:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a 26 year old female divorced. anyways im overwieght, and im pregnant. the babies dad dumped me. he like is 29 lives w/ his dad, watches cartoons all day, has a hee man figurine colleciton and watches mary kate and ashley movies and the avengers. he listens to radio disney in his truck. he has his " own room " at his dads, kinda like hes a teenager, with a single bed and a little TV. anyway HE dumped ME when i got pregnant if THIS BIG OF A LOSER dumped me i must be a real loser right? I have my own aparmtent a good job and etc... too

2007-05-27 13:57:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 13:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family