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I want to be sexy. But i dont know how. All my life i wanted to acomplish one goal. To be sexy. I need to know how! Can you help?

2007-05-27 14:25:16 · 27 answers · asked by Arleen(: 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

27 answers

well by not being a pregnant 19 year old (with twins) without ever having sex and losing your boyfriend to "your sexy little grandma" who wear a thong would be my first suggestion.

please stop asking such asinine questions!!!

2007-05-30 06:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by brody1523 3 · 0 0

I think there are three keys to being sexy.

1) Be confident. Nothing is as irresistible as someone who can stop worrying about themselves and have fun. Really make an effort to enjoy the people and the surroundings, smile and be relaxed, and people will be drawn to you.

2) Be happy in your own body. Love the feelings it has (pleasure, movement, emotions), the way it feels to be inside it, how your hair and skin feel. This CAN be learned. No matter how you think it looks, there are still lots of great things about it, and enjoying your body is the stepping stone to item 3, which is,

3) To be sexy, enjoy sex! Not necessarily only the act, but the feeling that you are a sexual being, and that that is a great thing! Your sexuality should be a pleasing and enjoyable part of your life. This is the true key to being sexy, but it can't be achieved without the 1st and 2nd steps. If you are uncomfortable with your own sexual nature, read "For Yourself", by Lonnie Barbach. It's aimed at women who have trouble reaching orgasm, but there is a lot of great information about female sexuality in general, that can be really useful in helping you develop a positive attitude about your sexual self.

I hope you find this helpful. I'm sorry it's long, but you asked a complex question. Good luck!

2007-05-27 14:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 1 0

First of all, been sexy means be yourseld and have strong personality and proud of it, there a lot of Beautiful woman who are not Sexy and doesn't know what sexy mean..
Sometimes you see a not beauty woman been sexy, it's something that came from ur inside.
I don't know u, but try to change ur look, get more sexy stuff like skirts, small t-shirts , if u don't have boobs use push up.. etc but always cheeking that u feel confortable with it.
Good luck

2007-05-27 14:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by rochi_2006 2 · 0 1

Well everyone has their own opinions of "sexy" and there's many ways to pull it off.
try google haha.

..Sexy can be just looking smart, you know.skirts and tights, and fine makeup.
Or it can mean looking like a total tramp inwich some guys find "sexy".
You just have to experiment really. And by the way, the "tramp" metaphor, is NOT sexy what so ever!
Good luck;
xx

2007-05-27 14:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0 0

Men are attracted to you because of your overall appearance and the way you carry yourself. However, the term "sexy" varies for each individual. So, you may already be "sexy" to someone without having to change your behavior or style.

2007-05-27 14:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Sexy? Everyone has there own opinion of sexy. Look in the mirror, you feel good about yourself? That is all that matters :)

2007-05-27 14:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 1 0

I'm 14...about to be 15. I think emo boys and boys with longish hair are sexy<3 They can be any age. well let's keep it under 30 lol

2016-03-31 23:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

To me there's nothing wrong about wanting to attract the opposite sex..
I believe sexiness is about power. It's not about being lewd or vulgar, or licking your lips when you see a cute guy pass by..
It's a combination, stemming from intelligence and demeanor.
What also causes a reaction from other people, and a reason to be called sexy, are mannerisms, looks and even scents.
I take it as a compliment, when someone tells me..that I'm a sexy woman. :))

2007-05-27 15:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 2 1

To be sexy is an all encompassing term.
Most people have one main feature that is sexy.
The feature may be any one or a combination of the following:

Walk or move
Voice or the way they talk
Mouth or the way they smile
Eyes with the come hither look
The mouth with the pout or kissable look
The way people dress
The way people sit or pose
The gestures people make

The best way to obtain any of these characteristics is to watch people that you think are sexy and note the above characteristics and try to immulate them. They may not be your style and you may have to modify them or disregard them and try another. When trying the above characteristics the mirror is your best friend. If you think you look ridiculous, you probably do. Adapt them to yourself and be yourself as much as possible.

2007-05-27 14:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by don n 6 · 0 2

Being happy and confident about yourself is the sexiest. From experience you dont' have to dress "sexy" to be thought of as sexy. Be yourself and enjoy doing it, and real guys think that's the sexiest of all.

Have fun, laugh, smile, and just enjoy life.

2007-05-27 14:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by phnxpinion 3 · 1 0

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