i'm going to be straight i am doing wrong. i am married for about 8 months and i love him to death. i never had a wrong intension on doing nothing just simply talking. yesturday i started talking to my ex from like 3 yrs ago. it's just talk nothing serious and i don't even have feelings for him. i know it was wrong, i was just curious. he has moved on he has a gf and everthing, has his life planned out w/ her too. i'm glad but my husband got on the house phone and looked at who i called and he got suspicious and called him. i said it was a guy who kept calling talking ****. but he wrote the number down and put it into his wallet. so know he is going to tell his friend from the phone company and tell him yo trace the call, find out where he lives, also he said that he can go back to that day on some kind of machine and hear what was said in the conversation. i'm scared thier was nothing bad said and i am going to stop talking to him, but i wanted to know if the phone company can do that
2007-05-27 14:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by marilyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He can track the name but not the conversation. You need to come clean since he found out. Maybe you can think of a reason you had to call him like for a pin number you forgot and he might know. But unless he has connections in the CIA or FBI, and even then I doubt it, you have nothing to worry about him hearing the conversation. It was a bluff on his part to try to get you to admit to something.
2007-05-27 14:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's the most time anyone has said or typed some form of the word serious in a paragraph. I seriously think you deserve an award.
2016-05-19 04:17:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're husband is bluffing - they cannot tell you what was said in a conversation.
I think you both need counseling together. Clearly he does not trust you for some reason. And what is missing your in your marriage that you feel the need to talk to your ex? Counseling counseling counseling. It could do wonders for you two.
2007-05-27 14:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Laura C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds possive.Just don't talk about your ex. Can you get this number blocked from you private phone we can over here in Australia. I thought this would be illegal for a telephone employee to this for friends, if he got caught he could lose his job, because of your jealous husband.Sounds like you aren't happy
2007-05-27 14:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kaye B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
411 can do a reverse check now you can give then a number and they can give you an address and name. if the number is not listed then yeah he could have his friend look the number up for him he probably isnt allowed to do that. if your hubby doesnt get the number i would tell your friend to tell him he had the wrong number. why doesnt he trust you it sounds like hes a little insecure when it comes to you. i know how you feel though id be freaking out worried sick. if he does find out tell him the truth if he doesnt believe you then f him there is nothing you can do now dont worry hun.
2007-05-27 14:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police can get access to phone records... and that's it. Your husband is bluffing. But there are bigger issues here than that phone conversation. Could it be that his controlling nature is causing you to reach out to someone else? I believe you are in denial about why you wanted to talk to your ex.
2007-05-27 14:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they cant say what was talked about --- the question really is your husband and his insane jealousy (it is you know) --- this is a worry -- you have not done anything wrong ie you were not cheating in any way and to react like this is over the top --- is he or could he be violent?? its a serious question --- you have my best wishes that everything will work out
2007-05-27 14:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can't do that... he is just testing your guilt which is pretty obvious. But he can figure out who's # it is, reverse # look up or simply call and say... who is this? Just tell him the truth and be done w/ it if your as innocent as you say. Last I checked, talking is not cheating. :O) Don't let a man control you.
2007-05-27 14:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ginger N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think phone companies can do things but im not sure if they can do that.. it sucks. i guess u deserve this? do u think ur husband deserves this? having u talking to ur ex? i dont think so... i kinda feel bad for you for lying to him.. i say u tell him straight out cos if he finds out some other way he will be pissed..
and u will have nothing..good luck
2007-05-27 14:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by Yhpargotohp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the phone company "WILL" not do it.
2007-05-27 14:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋