okay my boyfriend has had a...tendancy to flirt and hit on other girls while he is dating me, and aperently him and my friend are "friends with benifits" but he doesnt seem to think thats cheating...i love him but i cant trust him, and i dont want him if i cant be his only one.
please, what should i do! HELP!!!
2007-05-27 14:20:27 · 10 answers · asked by stephanie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uhhhh...
So you don't mind "sharing" your so called boyfriend with you freind who is having sex with him?
GROSS!
Whenever you are kissing him, you might be kissing her too...
EWWWWWWW!!!
Drop the dude and move on to a different pasture unless you like being a door mat to this guy and your "friend".
2007-05-27 14:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lashadon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew no offense, but get rid of him! Seriously he thinks if he is in a relationship that friends with benefits is not considered cheating? He so needs a reality check! You have a right to be pissed off. I'm sorry if I were in your spot I would just be like PEACE!!!!! And no looking back. I know it is easier said than done when you love someone- but relationships are all about trust, if you cant trust than there really is not much is there?
2007-05-27 21:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by <3TurkishLover<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about this? Hell, have you talked to your "friend" about this? Honestly, if it were me, I would try my best to make it absolutely clear that we were NOT in a "open" relationship and that I want his exclusive devotion. If he can't respect that, and stick with you and only you, and if he doesn't stop this disgusting (and I'm sorry but that's what it is) behavior, then he doesn't deserve you anyways. I can't believe that this kind of relationship would be healthy... I, personally, wouldn't put up with it...
I'm sorry, but these kind of situations make me a lil angry >:P
2007-05-27 21:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by -->[Institutionalized]<-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you know what love is yet... go have fun ... don't settle this early in life
2007-05-27 21:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the chump.
2007-05-27 21:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you think it is cheating --- if he cares for your feelings he will stop it --- trouble is if he cared for your feelings he would not be doing it anyway --- best wishes
2007-05-27 21:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating. Dump him.
2007-05-27 21:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Orlando Rays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be his only one- you know that
and you said that you don't want him if you can't be his only one
so why is this question posted?
2007-05-27 21:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to grow up
2007-05-27 21:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave
2007-05-27 21:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by capper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋