Family & Relationships - 27 May 2007

She is way against having this baby. And I want to have it. She is really stressing my boyfriend out as she over exaggerates things and dramatizes them. She called me and was very mean to me. And this is a lady who used to love me, but now blames me. in fact she even went as far as to claim I planned this and it is a conspiracy against her son. I want to write her a nice, respectful email, asking her to please let us decide and not to keep interfearing. And to just ask her to respect my/our decisions and not put in her two cents. And letting her know I want this baby and that just because I am being optomistic doesn't mean it was planned. What should i say???

2007-05-27 10:35:14 · 24 answers · asked by Lizzibear 2 in Family

I have a "friend" that i know since we were in 9th grade we're sohpomores in college right now... she got a boyfriend and gradually stopped talking to us. I'd go to college and she wouldnt even talk to me to ask me how i was or anything...so i stopped there because i was tired of trying (i did try to be her friend) today after 2 months of not talking she called me to ask me to go pick her up because she forget her car keys in her boyfriends car...i was about to enjoy a pasta alfredo and ready to answer questions here...im tired and i dont think its fair what should i do?

2007-05-27 10:32:00 · 18 answers · asked by Vegetarian Princess 3 in Friends

I am in love with a man whose 13 years older than me. Its funny cos i feel very strong sexual connection between us, but at the same time i see him as my dad and protector..someone older and wiser, and it turns me on. However this man is still married.. ive known him for 3 years, and at his time he has separated from his wife and is going through his divorce. I dont see myself as homewrecker because he was no longer in love with her and said they grew apart in their marriage. His got 3 kids and their custody. Do you think i should wait for him.. i know he secretly wishes so even when he says he cant expect that. He doesnt really want to spend quality time together yet, before his ready... does it makes sense and what should i do in this situation? I know for sure i dont want to lose him.

2007-05-27 10:30:54 · 20 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the main thing that causes a relationship to fail when you are in your early 20's and just learning to be an adult?


What is the most important thing to maintain a good relationship?

2007-05-27 10:28:20 · 14 answers · asked by JessickaSucks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I started dating my ex-fiancee a month ago after 4 years apart. Things had been going well up until this weekend. He asked me on Fri. to go camping with him for the weekend. I went on line to search for a campground, then he called and reserved a site. He called me 5 different times from work to talk about all the fun stuff we were gonna do. By 5:30 on Fri., all of the sudden he realized he "couldn't afford to go camping" because he's in the middle of moving. I was disappointed, but I understood. He came over Fri. night, and we talked about some other things to do this weekend because he kept saying "I still want us to do something together". That night he woke me up at 3:30 am saying he had to go home and take some migraine medication and basically he's blown me off ever since! He didn't even call Saturday and when I called him he was sitting in a bar with his buddy (he said they had just moved some stuff)! Haven't heard from him at all today. What do you think is going on?

2007-05-27 10:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by AGT 4 in Singles & Dating

my friend loves the rampant rabbit and has just bought a hand and is still waiting for delivery, whats the best toy going so she doesnt waste her money

2007-05-27 10:19:43 · 2 answers · asked by dee 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-27 10:18:21 · 9 answers · asked by Helicopter . 1 in Singles & Dating

The reason I am asking this is because I am a 27 year old virgin. I am 5-9" red head with a great figure, I dress attractivly and I think I am sending the right signals, but I have not had any sucesss in landing the right guy. Should I dress differently? Please help me.

2007-05-27 10:16:39 · 47 answers · asked by Kendra 1 in Singles & Dating

Two months ago, my mom ask me would I like to get my own apartment if she helped me pay my rent. I thought that it would be a great idea to start to learn how to get out on my own. So I accepted and moved out of my dad's house (who I was living with. My parents are separated) and got an apartment. Both parents would pitch in money to help me. On the second month my mom decided to back out at the last minute ( this is something that I'm not surprised of) and left me to struggle. My dad is still helping me, but he can only do but so much. I just got a new job that pays better, but I don't get paid until the middle of the month. I have a car note that's past due, car insurance due soon, a cell phone bill due soon, next months rent that 's due soon, and absolutely no food in my apartment. I don't know what to do.How could a mother constantly let her only child down. She's never been there for me and when I thought she was turnning around, she let's me down. What can I do?

2007-05-27 10:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 12 I like this girl she used to like me in September because of my long hair now she stares at me but when I asked her out she said no and my hair is almost as long as last time how should I get her to say yes p.s her friends hate me

2007-05-27 10:11:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean my boyfriend isn't a bad person, he actually is really sweet, but i feel that sometimes he cuts in on my friend time. I have a friend that moved out of state and recently came back to visit. She's my BEST friend and her and the rest of our little clique wanted to go out. He got pissed and i wasn't really able to spend time with her, because he said she has a "reputation." What do i do?

2007-05-27 10:09:28 · 9 answers · asked by Rae 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 10:07:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 10:06:28 · 13 answers · asked by Travis Bickle 1 in Singles & Dating

two people, one catholic and one not are living together say they can get married in catholic church and there is a Co Habitating form they filled out at Pre Cana.

2007-05-27 10:05:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever cheated on your partner, or previous partners, did you enjoy it and was it worth it?

For those of you who may have not cheated, have you ever been cheated on, and if so, how did it feel when you found out?

2007-05-27 09:59:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

likewise above...see Andrew in Chinese, told me Im as shallow as a shower...we were talking about a girl I liked and what not..but tell me what being shallow means...

2007-05-27 09:51:39 · 7 answers · asked by runeboi678 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 09:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by Lola 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Can any one give me any tips on how to have a nice time i go out then after a while i want to come home i have been told i am unsociable, but i do try to listen to others my mind wanders after a while and i get resless very easy,I just want to slow down and enjoy life and other peoples company.

2007-05-27 09:45:09 · 1 answers · asked by jane 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My family tree: Mom_Doug= sister 1,2, 3 (divorced after three)

Mom_Dad= ME! (divorced after me)

am i related to my sister's cousin on there dad's side at all?

2007-05-27 09:37:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-27 09:33:41 · 14 answers · asked by amy k 1 in Singles & Dating

5 weeks ago i got a phone late at night from my partners ex telling me he had called to her house and told her he loved and missed her. we had been togther for 7yrs and have a fab 5 yr old son. we broke up for a year after he came onto my best friend one night when we were all out togther. we both met and dated someone else but realised we still loved each other. we got back together, i forgave him and we had been blissfully happy ever since and never looked back. so this phone call was like a punch in the guts. he admitted being there, said he was high on ecstasy and would have said those things to a lamp post as he was in such a state. i have been devastated ever since and am getting very depressed. he has phoned me constantly, crying and begging me not to let this mistake ruin our family. but last night i asked him to call in for a chat, but he had already made plans with a mate and didnt want to let him down! so off he went and got pissed again. am i crazy for still wanting him?

2007-05-27 09:29:10 · 13 answers · asked by j c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 5'7" pushing 5'8" .......is that to tall for someone that is 6'0" ??? what's a good size 4 u?

2007-05-27 09:25:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

meaning what keeps you going like what are you living 4 today as this moment like what keeps u alive?

2007-05-27 09:14:50 · 15 answers · asked by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 in Singles & Dating

well me and ryan are good friends.and today in science class me,amber,and ryan were by the chalckboard writing things. and amber wrote 'Chelsea is.....' but she didnt finish it. when ryan saw it,he put 'hot'. So it read 'Chelsea is hot'. so does he like me? he also flirts with me.

Chelsea is me by the way lol


Also today me and him were talking about him not being at school next week. and when we were talking about he said 'I will bring a picture of you, so i can look at you when i'm gone'


So what do you think? does he like me

2007-05-27 09:13:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 09:12:08 · 7 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-27 09:11:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It was seriously in the heat of the moment and in return I bit her shoulder (pretty hard) and she let out a scream....This all happened within 3 seconds, and she was acting like I was weirdo for biting her...My eye was practically swollen shut and she said it was an accident (how could balling up your fist and hitting someone in the face be an accident?) Now she is treating me like I am the one with a weird violent sexual fetish....How do we get over this?

2007-05-27 09:08:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for over three years. We get along really well. He is obsessed with his jeep, which i dont mind cause i like it too. But he tends to spend a lot of time and money on it. I gave him some money so he can work on it. And now every time i talk about saving for our future he blows it off. I love him to death but im tired of not having the assurrance i need. He use to talk about our futures all the time and all the things he wants for us but he spends his money so fast im not sure that is possible. I don't know what to do plz help.

2007-05-27 08:59:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help me please my best friend went out with me and i love him but he slept with my ex best friend that is a girl by the way and i really love him dump or keep

2007-05-27 08:58:34 · 1 answers · asked by magan m 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 26, but I don't dress slutty. I don't even flirt with them.

2007-05-27 08:58:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce