He thinks I'm too strict. I think he's too lenient. We both feel like we can't get anywhere with the other. I email or call him to ask a question about something our daughter has been doing. I want to know if he's noticed it, and if so what he does about it. I also want him to know where I stand, and what I've done to try and correct the situation. He automatically thinks I'm accusing him of the actions. Even if I explain that I'm not accusing him of causing it. I just want to know if he approves of the action, or if he's trying to disciple her. Every time I try to talk to him we end up in a huge fight. He's incredibly sensitive, and according to him I'm incredibly insensitive. Of course neither one of us believes the other. I told him I wanted to find a way for us both to compromise and meet in the middle. He feels he's doing everything right. I feel the same way about myself, but I'm at least willing to meet him in the middle. He's not. I don't know what to do.
2007-04-17
05:00:33
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