Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

2007-03-28 08:16:06 · 16 answers · asked by pat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband bought an ipod which was $400 okay and the other day I was checking our account balance and saw where he spent $50 11 times ordering music from apple ipod and he say's he thought all of this music was free- a lie once again. But now we have maybe $70 to our name. I feel bad getting mad because I dont have a job and he is in the military so he brings in the money. I seriously thought of deleting the stupid apple ipod icon from our computer so he couldn't order music anymore but he says ill delete his memory on the ipod. But why would he think the music was free when he oviously gave his card number to the company this doesnt make since. What would you do?

2007-03-28 08:15:59 · 11 answers · asked by Barbara 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If it could be determined to be a chemical imbalace should people be encouraged to take medication to get over it or would that mess with their persona? If you are shy would you take such medication or just tough it out an stay unhappy?

2007-03-28 08:15:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

YEA ITS ME ERICA JORDAN IM LIVING WITH MANGO HAVE BEEN FOR 2 YEARS NOW CALL HIS SEE WHAT HE SAYS

2007-03-28 08:15:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 31 year old marrier, mother of 3 children (1 is a step). After years of fighting with my Mother on many issues I have cut her off completely from myself and the kids. The problem is my daughter who is 14 lost her paternal grandmother (who was a wonderful woman) a few months ago and is needing that special grandma love. I cut my children off from her because I felt they needed protected from her ways of emotional abuse. Now my daughter has wrote a lettter to her and wants me to mail it that is basically stating she wants to have a relationship. What do I do?

2007-03-28 08:15:18 · 13 answers · asked by jcbc75 1 in Family

Will it lesson my chances of a date if i send a pretty girl a bunch of flowers before i ask her out ? She is far from having been hit with the ugly-stick so is worth the investment. Help !

2007-03-28 08:14:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you say?
would you break up with him/her?
How do you think it will change your relationship?

2007-03-28 08:14:41 · 20 answers · asked by EZ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a good relationship with husband we've been togather for 12 years and married 9.We argued like any other couple till my mother (who is not sick just needs a place to stay for right now)moved in with us now we argue alot more mostly about her.Now she thinks I have a bad marriage and that we need counseling.I don't want to hurt her feelings and be like it's all your fault we are fighting if you did not live here we would not be fighting like this.I feel my relationship with my mother has already been damaged to a point that it's going to take alot to fix this fight might just make it unfixable.I've always had a great relationship with my mother till now and would like to one day have that again.What do you think I should do tell her the truth or just stay quiet till she moves out in a couple of months

2007-03-28 08:13:58 · 10 answers · asked by superwomen 3 in Family

I recently got married. Prior to our wedding we had now problem getting along with his mom. However a couple months before our wedding his brother and sister-in-law had a baby. This was his mom's first grandchild. Ever since the wedding, we are barely noticed in the family. His mom never calls us anymore, even when she says she will. When we are with the family you can no longer have an intellegent conversation with her because she is so preoccupied with the baby. I even think our s-i-l is starting to get annoyed because she can't hold her own kid when his mom is around. The kid is almost 9 months old. Do you think this is just a new grandma phase and she will eventually get over it or do you think we need to say something? She seriously is obsessed with this kid and it is making me feel like we need to have a kid just to get noticed.

2007-03-28 08:13:58 · 10 answers · asked by heathyre30 1 in Family

Last fall our parents were killed by a drunk driver, it has been hard and we're really trying to get through it. So far, we've been doing ok. We promised each other that we wouldn't ever drink and drive ever again no matter what, if it came to it we would call each other for a ride even at 2 in the morning and even though the other has to work in the morning. (She gets up really early.) Both of us have kept our promise until as of late. I was out with friends and had no intentions of drinking. After a couple rounds of darts and endless hazing of why I wasn't drinking, I caved to the peer pressure. I had two beers. Barely enough to have a slight buzz, well within legal limit. I drove home, the whole time I was feeling guilty, like as if my mom was going to yell at me for coming home too late. There was my sister Anna, sitting on the porch. Her friend saw me leave the bar. Now she won't speak to me. She doesn't even include me for dinner. It's been 3 weeeks. Now she wants to move out.

2007-03-28 08:13:54 · 4 answers · asked by Damian 2 in Family

2007-03-28 08:13:41 · 18 answers · asked by pat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im only 24 with 3 kids 9, 7 and 3 years old. i have to figure out a way to support my kids by my own... i have to pay bills (rent, food, personal stuff, plus the babysitter) and i need to make time to be with mi kids... i just need some good advice on this.

2007-03-28 08:13:20 · 30 answers · asked by monicalf55 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt badso a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Sincethen I have said hi to him 2 on msn.Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to. What is he doing?

2007-03-28 08:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a contentious divorce from my husband - I hate even having his last name. However, we have a son. Should I keep the married name in order to be consistent with my son's last name?

2007-03-28 08:12:19 · 38 answers · asked by 13th Floor 6 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was in junior high, I lied to an acquaintance about my ability to do a couple things, namely skateboard and play drums (lame, I know, but I did it to fit in). I was 13 at the time, and the things I said caught up with me and ruined my friendship with him and one other girl. I am in my 20s now and I have not lied about my life since (I learned my lesson...I did a stupid thing). A current friend who I am close with is friends with the girl from junior high. I don't know if she has forgotten about it or not, but I fear that she will tell him and it will ruin my friendship with him. I am not the person I was back then and I have never lied to him. Should I come clean with him and tell him of this past event before she does, or should I stop sweating it and let it go?

2007-03-28 08:11:49 · 6 answers · asked by KC 1 in Friends

we were dating for 4 months and i loved him sooo much then his ex girlfriend moved back to our school and he left me. now when i see him at school i cant help but cry and think bout all of our happy times. what do i do someone plz help me get over him

2007-03-28 08:11:42 · 5 answers · asked by Sara S 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a good relationship with husband we've been togather for 12 years and married 9.We argued like any other couple till my mother (who is not sick just needs a place to stay for right now)moved in with us now we argue alot more mostly about her.Now she thinks I have a bad marriage and that we need counseling.I don't want to hurt her feelings and be like it's all your fault we are fighting if you did not live here we would not be fighting like this.I feel my relationship with my mother has already been damaged to a point that it's going to take alot to fix this fight might just make it unfixable.I've always had a great relationship with my mother till now and would like to one day have that again.What do you think I should do tell her the truth or just stay quit till she moves out in a couple of months

2007-03-28 08:11:40 · 6 answers · asked by superwomen 3 in Family

I've encountered A LOT of women on the Internet (here, dating sites, etc) who are divorced, and usually, their "ex" is a LOW DOWN GOOD FOR NOTHING CHEATER! Which really sucks! I have NEVER been that way, will NEVER be that way! (I'm divorced, and will one day be remarried when I find the right Lady!). Soooo.......that is something that I just DON'T comprehend as a "one woman man" who stays FAITHFUL! What I want to know is: WHY do they do that? HOW can this guy who told you he'd "LOVE you for ever" then go and BETRAY you like that??? And what would you say to women who are planning on getting married for the first time? (My heart goes out to each one of you! May God HEAL you and let you know in a BIG way that HE will never "cheat"!)

2007-03-28 08:10:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think of a guy that's noticably nervous around you? If you liked him what are some signs you would give to him. If you disliked him what are some signs you would give him? What would you want him to do? Thanks.

2007-03-28 08:10:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 08:10:38 · 8 answers · asked by stuevts 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-28 08:10:22 · 3 answers · asked by J. G. 4 in Friends

the problem is he would consider going out, and while I like him too, I'm not really willing to go out with him. He is more than a friend, but I can't see him as a boyfriend. I know that he is going to ask me out soon, how can I tell him this without crushing him. I already told him that I like him (which is the truth), but I didn't tell him that I wouldnt really want to go out with him. I'm very confused and i desperately need some advice. thanks =]

2007-03-28 08:10:00 · 4 answers · asked by sunshine & summertime 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 08:09:26 · 3 answers · asked by miks 2 in Singles & Dating

If a girls boyfriend is exercising and getting himself that dream 6 pack, should the girl get fit to?

2007-03-28 08:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by word4word 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going out with my bf for 1 yr and 4 months he has two children a boy and a girl last weekend his daughter said "your my mommy" she was calling me mom the whole entire day; she is 7 and her mother is never there, she will visit once in a blue moon so i guess you can say i come close to a mother figure... i didn’t say anything but i let my bf know about it to talk to her about it... it kind of scared me, but made me feel good at the same time... i am scared about all this...is it weird to feel scared?

2007-03-28 08:09:20 · 3 answers · asked by ever_lady84 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy named Fred who I like.I saw him kissing him kissign this other girl on the cheek when I confronted him about it hje said Donnt worry about it I like you she is just a friend. Me and Fred are not going out. Do you think I should believe him yes or no

2007-03-28 08:09:00 · 4 answers · asked by I love You 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, we have been dating since we were in the 8th/9th grades and are so in love but I'm in pharmacy school for another 3 years and he has a programming contract and we're in different states! Should i wait till I graduate in 2010 or should we wait until a year after?

2007-03-28 08:08:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, do you like to put girls on your shoulders at concerts? What if the girl weighs a little more than you but she is still good looking? Would you try to put her on your shoulders if she asked? Maybe if she weighs 5-10 pounds more than you, but is still good looking??

2007-03-28 08:08:31 · 1 answers · asked by petite man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-28 08:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by Calif_Girl 5 in Friends

My fiance and I wanted to get married on our anniversary in September. We got excited about just being married and thought about getting married next month or something. We need to have time for our house to get finished, so we decided to go with our first choice.

We went this weekend to pick out dresses, and we all liked this really pretty green color. Problem is, this was before we changed back to September and it seems more like a color for spring.

Our wedding is actually going to be on the first day of fall. Fall colors would be more ideal. What colors do you think would look good for this time of year?

2007-03-28 08:07:44 · 31 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Weddings