Well, we have been dating since we were in the 8th/9th grades and are so in love but I'm in pharmacy school for another 3 years and he has a programming contract and we're in different states! Should i wait till I graduate in 2010 or should we wait until a year after?
2007-03-28 08:08:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait until atleast after you graduate, because then, you'll be able to see where you're going to end up living and if the employment stats are in the right bracket to support you.
2007-03-28 08:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 22 and not a bad age to get married. but he is 23 and he has to settle. if you dont have any economical problems. if there is some source of income to run your family then have fun in life enjoy to the fullest. get married yound lady. See now the milk is hot hence it is better to drink (consume). If you wait for three years, then the milk will get spoiled. Cant say whether he can change the mind or u itself can change the mind. if you are tied with a legal relationship then u get a psycological security about your life. you can have babies after your graduation.
2007-03-28 15:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Nagendra S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wait until you both have jobs and are well established. Make sure that you both have decent paychecks and a place to live before you tie the knot. If you get married now, one of you will have to move and you may feel guilty later for "what might have been". 2010 may seem far away, but by then you both will have grown a little older, a little wiser and may be able to afford a fabulous wedding and incredible honeymoon!
2007-03-28 15:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by penny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until a year after. Make sure he is still then one when you get out of school and your career begins to take off. Try living with him before you decide to go through the life of a wife. You never know how they truly are until after about a year of living with them. Don't take marriage to lightly, divorce shouldn't be as easy as it is these days, so be sure that you are ready and he is the one!!!
2007-03-28 15:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you will know exactly when the time is right. Long distant relationships are rarely survived. Id there any way one of you could be transferred so that you could be closer to one another? Seems you two love eachother, but marriage does take commitment, time and money. Make sure it fits into your lives. Good luck.
2007-03-28 15:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would wait til 2010. bc then ull know if ur jobs r guna get btween the 2 of u. ur job could put u n 1 state permanently n his could do the same but n another state! but do what u feel is best! good luck! ask him! yall can work this out better if u work it out 2gether.
2007-03-28 15:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know the time. As long as you are both ready for it. Waiting until you graduate is a good idea.
2007-03-28 15:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not wait until you're out of school and can move to be near him?
I really don't understand everyone's rush to get married. It's not a fairy tale. It takes a lot of work, 110% communication, tears, joy, anger, and in-laws!
2007-03-28 15:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely up to you two but I know long distance relationships are difficult to say the least. In my opinion, you should just wait until you can be together all the time.
2007-03-28 15:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by Philip S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you need to you think you are ready. Just because you are older doesn't neccessarily mean that your mature to be in a relationship. Relationships take a lot of work. So, just make sure you're ready.
2007-03-28 15:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by prettyting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋