the problem is he would consider going out, and while I like him too, I'm not really willing to go out with him. He is more than a friend, but I can't see him as a boyfriend. I know that he is going to ask me out soon, how can I tell him this without crushing him. I already told him that I like him (which is the truth), but I didn't tell him that I wouldnt really want to go out with him. I'm very confused and i desperately need some advice. thanks =]
2007-03-28 08:10:00 · 4 answers · asked by sunshine & summertime 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like him, but I also enjoy where our relationship is at right now and I'm afraid that going out would ruin that relationship and that if we break up our relationship would be ruined. He is a very very good friend, and I could see something possibly happening in the future, but not now. I dont know how to tell him that because I dont want to keep hiim hanging.
2007-03-28 08:30:41 · update #1
A girl i really liked was in the same situation as you. We just sat down and talked about it, she told me exactly how she felt and we decided not to enter into a relationship and just keep things how they are, which did upset me slightly but i very soon got over it and i'm happy with the arrangement we have where we'llprobably just end up gettin 2gether at parties and maybe if i'm lucky a VERY casual relationship over summer (i assume u get what i mean by that). Neway gd luck with him hopefully if u just explain stuff to him and respect him it'll all turn out well
2007-03-28 08:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by 000000000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm more confused. But intrigued.
Why if you like him and told him so, do you not want to go out with him. That makes very little sense to me. Are you saying that he is just a very very good friend? Or does he have privileges? And if that's the case... you can always say:
Hey we are just friends who from time to time get a little busy... he should be able to respect that... or move on.
2007-03-28 15:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by Marc G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him which is true, But MAYBE
You aren't ready to go out with anyone yet,
maybe you can just continue being more than friends until you feel comfortable with doing stuff with each other without cringing or feeling bad
Good luck
Hope this works
Please email me if it doesn't.
2007-03-28 15:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an older ***** buddy to me, leave it at that, and figure out what you really want in a guy, and GO FIND HIM!!
2007-03-28 15:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋