Family & Relationships - 28 March 2007

We have been going out for over a year now. We were talking about April Fool's jokes when he told me about the jokes he decided NOT to play on me (how sweet). They included: 1. telling me he was seeing another woman who goes to his gym (the gym is a touchy subject with meat times) 2. telling me he was going to break up with me and we should just be friends. He has a very twisted sense of humor and I can be a little sensitive. But I can't help but wonder if these two jokes don't point to him really cheating (we don't live together and don't see each other everyday so I would have no clue about the gym situation). And as far as the breaking up business, could that be his way of hinting around he is not happy and doesn't know how to end it?

2007-03-28 08:50:57 · 7 answers · asked by LinLin 1 in Singles & Dating

I think there is a guy that likes me, but how can I appeal more to him? I have glasses (I'm getting contacts in May), I'm rather thin, I'm 5' 7" and like 118 pounds, I wear Hollister, Abercrombie, American Eagle. How can I be sure that he likes me while appealing more to him, and all guys in general?

2007-03-28 08:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by lovepink8080 2 in Singles & Dating

So he is taking me to Vegas for my birthday and we gonna stay in this sweet hotel ! He is paying for everything..I really appreciate it.. He said since we are going to Vegas,we should od something crazy! Im afraid he will want to do a threesome there (FFM) ,hes been talking about it a lot lately...Should i do it?? If i do,we'll never see a girl again and we'll just laugh when thinking about it later... Or maybe it'll make me hate him....i dont know...what shoul i do if he offers it when its really possible?? I kinda like the idea,but not sure if our relationship can stay the same after...we've been together a little over a year,hes vey mature,3o y.o.

2007-03-28 08:50:13 · 15 answers · asked by Lora W 1 in Singles & Dating

do you get along with other girls?
If you were to meet your best friend, would you be friends?

me and my friends were talking about this, and we decided that we would probably hate eachother if we didn't know each other.

2007-03-28 08:49:55 · 21 answers · asked by Jaroo 4 in Friends

I am sooo mean to him, and whenever i say something sexual(not even at him) he takes it to mean i want to have sex with him. I tell him he's stupid and he's a loser but he still wont leave me alone. What should i do?

2007-03-28 08:49:32 · 25 answers · asked by Colon 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy at church and he is a godley man and I like him (he knows I like him) and I can't / don't want to date untel I'm 18. I just want to show him who I am, be friends. something. I'm kinda shy I'm only 14 now so I have 4 more years. When we play a tag I never go get him I don't want to look obsessted with him. All the girls know I like him. and I'm sure all the boy's know I like him. I would be fround
:( apoun if we started dateing. and my sisters are around all the time so if I talked with him thay weould see me talking with him and would never drop it. not that thay like him. and if I pull him aside pepole will se that and ask what I just did.

Help me if you can!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-28 08:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 14 and am going to a ball next week...one of my boy friends said he will dance with me on the slow songs because theres a few of us just going as a group of mates...but the thing is ive never slow danced before and worried I might do something wrong! Any ideas?

2007-03-28 08:49:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some relatives from far away are coming for a visit to my house. I really do enjoy having them here. But sometimes I can be stressed out and busy when having them around. So I am asking for tips and advice on how can make feel welcomed. Thanks in advance.

2007-03-28 08:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by College Kid 5 in Family

So anytime My ex boyfriend sees me he always says "have a good day" But all it does is annoy me when he says it. I don't know what it is, maybe its the way he says it or something, I don't know.

Am I a bad person for it? Or is there any rational explination for this annoyance?

(my ex used to feel me up and put the mvoes on me when I'd be falling alseep so i couldn't really fight back...)

2007-03-28 08:48:56 · 2 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Singles & Dating

My friends and i would hang out and now they are shunning me out. They exclude me from conversations, mall trips, etc. One day we were talking a lot and the next week they don't talk to me much. I understand I can't hang around a lot because I'm not in their class and the fact that my parents are split so I visit my mom a lot. One time I invited them to stay the night at my house and all of them said they couldn't. I soon found out they spent the night at one of their houses. This has upset me largely. My stepmom says tough it up but you know, you need someone to talk to and trust especially when your very depressed through your parents' divorce. What could I be doing wrong?

2007-03-28 08:48:50 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica D 2 in Friends

My best friend and he were together for a year and a half. In the begining it was great. Now in January she called me crying saying she got a list of things she was doing wrong in their relationship.....I gave her my piece of advice and she didnt like it. She said I was biased. We were together for 2-12 years by the way. We talked ad could tell something was up. Well they had been fighting since January. Right when they started dating she said to him the deal breakers are marriage and kids....they were on teh same page. Welll since Januaury they were fighting about getting married. Now he has changed his tune, doesnt want to stay in the same city where he is now (an hour away from her) They fought Sunday and he said we are through...she asked if he is saying that out of anger and he said NO. Then he came back and said something to th affect of a two week break. What is he up to? Is he commitment phobic like he says he is.

2007-03-28 08:48:44 · 1 answers · asked by legluvr35 1 in Singles & Dating

please give her contact details .
She was my classmate and havent spoken to her since then ...

2007-03-28 08:48:33 · 1 answers · asked by nikidip 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a house wife. I stay home and take care of the kids and all that kinda of stuff house wifes should do, but I have a limit. My husband thinks I should get up every morning and make his lunch. Now is it right that I don't? I cook, clean, take the kids to school, go to the market when we need things, pay the bills on time, wash clothes, read to the kids and make sure the house is organized before I go to bed. Am I just not doing my job? "He thinks because he works I should be doing his lunch because that is a wifes job"

2007-03-28 08:48:14 · 63 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we all are married now it's not really a celebration anymore it feels like an obligation every month or so.

2007-03-28 08:48:01 · 5 answers · asked by holabird 2 in Family

My ex and I were only together for a few months but our relationship was very intense and we just instantly "clicked." He hadn't been single for long when I met him, so I realised I was his rebound. He kind of ended it and I was gutted.

A few weeks ago, I saw him in a bar. The chemistry between us was unreal. He obviously felt it too as we were chatting like old times, then he asked me to contact him. I couldn't believe it, but then I couldn't ignore his body language or the way he kept looking at me. I had butterflies in my stomach.

He was out with a group. I could sense one of the girls liked him as she kept glancing at him, but he stayed focused on me. When he rejoined the group, he didn't behave that way with anyone else. My friends said he kept looking over at me.

We still get on so well & are obviously very attracted to each other, so why would he ask me to text him then ignore me? I only asked how he was and said I was glad we'd chatted that night! What's going on?

2007-03-28 08:47:50 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole B 1 in Singles & Dating

I hear you speaking to me
when the nights is still
and shadows have been placed with a bright white light
that dances across my window

I cant see you
but I know you are with me
I smell your perfume
and I feel you pulling me up
when Im feeling down

I know Im on the right path
and I know that you are walking beside me
pushing me along every step of the way

never letting me give in to shadows
that reach out to grab me at night
then try to smoother me
with your sadness..

2007-03-28 08:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

It's this really cute guy at my job right....he's temping in our medical records dept. He's real cordial so far and we have a lot in common. Should I ask if he's interested or what? Normally I would never get involved w/a co-worker but he's temping....what would u do if u were me??

2007-03-28 08:47:44 · 5 answers · asked by Lovely Cappy Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Someone help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-28 08:46:51 · 4 answers · asked by josh 1 in Singles & Dating

do you want to go camping

2007-03-28 08:46:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm a guy that likies a girl in my school

2007-03-28 08:46:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wish me luck.. give me words of encouragement. It's hard to leave and I hurt for sure, and tomorrow will be even harder. I'll be ok though. I just need a few final words of motivation. Will I be happy in the end?

2007-03-28 08:46:47 · 26 answers · asked by ik ben alphabetsoup 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We did not meet each other till now and i dont want to lose her..please elp and contact me wid genuine answer..

2007-03-28 08:46:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a very good girlfriend that I enjoy very much and she treats me well, but she is emotionally unstable at times and she does things that are hurtful to herself emotionally. Also, she can be very unpleasant to other people but substantiates her feeling of herself on whether or not men love her or feign after her.

She just does not do anything to help herself, no matter what ideas I suggest or the therapist I recommended with absolute love when she seemed to be in extreme emotional agony.

Question is...Would you remain friends with this person? It's so frustrating to see her defeat herself over and over.

2007-03-28 08:46:38 · 2 answers · asked by Holiday 3 in Friends

Would like to know if any ladies are in an unhappy marriage and have kids? I am a male that stays with his wife because of my Daughter. If you are in the same kind of situation and want to talk, please leave an email address.

2007-03-28 08:46:30 · 3 answers · asked by PJM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend [and follower] really wants a guinea pig. I think it's only because I have one. I personally do not think she understands the responsability of a pet, and I've told her mulitple times that guinea pigs take a lot of work. She says that she's going to keep it in her bedroom, and that she will never take it out of the cage because her mom won't let her. She's told me other things that make me believe she won't provide the proper care for it, but how am I supposed to tell her this without her taking it the wrong way? I've tried to talk her out of it many times but it's never worked. I really don't want an animal to suffer just because she want to be like me, and I don't know how to explain it to her. Help me pleeeaaase!

2007-03-28 08:46:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do you ask a woman out when she's in a group, and so are you?
i mean, how do you start a conversation with her when she's got too many people around her?

2007-03-28 08:46:04 · 16 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the catch... He's my ex. HELP!

2007-03-28 08:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and i weigh 112lbs and I'm only 5'1! how can i tone my body or loose weight? any tips or websites would be greatly apprieciated. I get called fat a lot and i believe im the fattest of all of my friends.
its not that I want 2 be a size 0 I think that that is too skinny. I would just like 2 have a little nicer body for when it comes 2 dresses, skirts, and swim suits. and of course the obvious boyz

2007-03-28 08:45:16 · 16 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Someone stole my teethbrush and my teeth.

2007-03-28 08:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is gay, so he thinks that its ok for him to hit us, we'll somtimes shove him or poke him or something, no harder than we do with each other, we don’t go around hiting him yet he seems to think that everyone takes joy in hitting him, and if we so much as poke him he'll slap us and it really hurts. He is a lot stronger and bigger than us.
Also because hes gay and he seems to think its ok for him to join in on all our girl stuff, but it gets annoying because we can't talk about a lot of stuff with him, like tampons and periods etc.
Hes always depressed, a lot because he doens't have a bf, i don't know how to make him relize that a bf doesn't make everything great.
Latley he says everyone is drifinting away from him, its because hes pushing us away adn he doesn't relize it.
I went out with this guy he likes and it created a big rift between us, i broke up with him because i wasn't happy and didn't think it would work, he got mad and started calling me a horible person, He thought I was horrible for hurting the guy, even though we only went out for about a month, yes I did break up with him on im, but the next time I would have seen him would have been at a party and it would have been bad to tell him there, because I knew he was looking forward to seeing me and he wouldn’t’ have been able to ask questions. According to my friend I broke up with that guy on an idea. Also he thinks hes in love with the guy that he got mad at me for breaking up with, which angersme, he doesn’t know what love it, and hes not in love with him, hes never even gone on a date with him. He puts too much ephasis on the physical parts of a relationship. He is also depressed because he thinks that he will never be with him, because hes with another one of my friends (btw this guy is bi ) but there not serious and will most likely break up.
he would always be putting me down, like when he would comment about something another friend did and say that “she did a better job than you could ever do”.
I have this other friend that I dated for 6 monthes and still remain close friends even though we broke up. And my gay guy friend really dislikes him now, he claims he always needs to be the center of attention, even though he is the one that always needs to have the attention. My friend is a total hypocrite.
He has this I want to save the world and I live for my friends attitude, and he doesn’t’ even relize how much he hurts us and how he puts, not only me but severl others down.
This other friend I have , he can never tell what mood shes in and she says it bugs her and he has this angle like view of her, if he took even 2 min to really get to know her he would relize this is not true.
Often he writes blog about personal stuff on the net. I originally got mad at him in jan because he wrote me a letter telling me not to invite my ex (previously mentioned) to the dance because”no one likes him”, which isn’t true. And telling me if I planed on breaking up with my bf to do it gently. He was basically telling me what to do and he went on to insult my ex, a great deal, which made me mad because hes one of my best friends and he was the only guy I’ve ever loved. Also at the time I go tmad because he posted a blog that kinda said I was going to break up with my current bf (the one he likes) and that I didn’t deserve him. This is what it said(Meh, I can't find anyone. Just my luck, eh? I guess I've kinda accepted it, but I'm still depressed. The only guy I have a crush on is a) Taken by my best friend and b) hetero. The sad thing is that he's a really sweet guy, and this is his first gf, and she may dump him because thye have nothing in common. He deserves better, and sometimes I think I can give him that. But he's hetero, so I pretend I don't like him. ) [in my opion if you post something on the internet anyone can read it , it was on his myspace]
Heres another of his blogs
(Well, I'm sad because I kinda realized I have no (or very few) close friends any more. Me closest friend was[me], but she got mad at me when I told her I didn't like[my ex of 6 monthes], and things went downhill from there. I mean, yeah, we're still doing a bit better, but there is that wall there now.

I used to be good friends with[the female friend I mentioned], but she andI are kinda drifting away.

[another one of our friends] was like, "I hate you" the other day, but she's kinda happy with me now, and I'm not sure why she was mad at me in the first place...

The older kids at starlight[theater group] just kinda seem to be ignoring me now... Not nesc in a mean way... but they never say Hi or anything... or even try to talk to me.

[another friend] is always kinda yelling at me. Even if it is in a joking way, it still kinda hurts.[this is exactly what he was doing to me too]

Oh, just wondering, why do people think it's fun to hit me? I mean WTF? I never did anything bad to anyone, but people enjoy hitting me.)
He also complains about his life a lot. He thinks he has it so hard. His life isn’t bad, his parents give him pretty much everything. There are so many other who have it worst. He says his mom hates him, I know his mom, shes not bad to him, my mom I don’t even see everyone month, because my parents are divorced.
He is openly gay and that fine with me, but it bugs me sometimes how he is so in your face about it, I’ve heard him say jokingly “oh it’s a hate crime so its worth it” basically saying its ok. Its like he just wants something to fight for and he uses his gayness as an excuss for things, like hitting us.
He is also slightly depressed, which he also uses as an excuse.
Also hes in this theater group with me and he doesn’t come to many rehersals anymore and has almost dropped out because a group of older kids, who were really good friends with him in dec. have kinda drifted away, but its their senior play and that just what they do, I wish he would just get over them and pay attention to all the others there that are equally awesome, even though there not seniors.
He also thinks were always leaving him out and were not. We have some inside jokes and he gets upset and says were leaving him out when we so much as say one thing hes not in on.
Basically hes really bugging me latly and me and that friend I just mentioned have thought of talking to him, but if we did he may get really mad at us and he’d end up telling everyone and making us to be these horrible peple, when what we really want to do is help him.
Sorry this is so long but its been going on for a while and I can’t take it anymore what do I do. Please help.

2007-03-28 08:44:40 · 3 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Friends