So he is taking me to Vegas for my birthday and we gonna stay in this sweet hotel ! He is paying for everything..I really appreciate it.. He said since we are going to Vegas,we should od something crazy! Im afraid he will want to do a threesome there (FFM) ,hes been talking about it a lot lately...Should i do it?? If i do,we'll never see a girl again and we'll just laugh when thinking about it later... Or maybe it'll make me hate him....i dont know...what shoul i do if he offers it when its really possible?? I kinda like the idea,but not sure if our relationship can stay the same after...we've been together a little over a year,hes vey mature,3o y.o.
2007-03-28 08:50:13 · 15 answers · asked by Lora W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually when people say "do something crazy in Vegas" they mean getting married.
but a threesome would be fun too!
2007-03-28 08:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you should do it!!!
This is a great chance to really enjoy a vacation and it will make him happy.
You may get upset when you finally realize that a "threesome" is just a way for him to get some allowable cheating - because you are there and you cannot "call" it cheating.
It will also give him something to talk to his friends about for the rest of his life or until he gets another chick to do it.
The only downside to you is if it bothers you to see him having a great time inside a prettier woman than you.
2007-03-28 16:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cumjunkie Doner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right to question whether it will change your relationship. How can it not? I suppose there are people that are more into themselves that can go there and remain the same, but I seriously doubt that most people are like that. If you think it is something you aren't ready for... you should probably bring it up because you don't want to ruin a weekend that he has carefully thought out.
2007-03-28 15:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the kinky dream becoming reality for the guy...How nice of you to accommodate him! Wow. You must really care for him...I wish I sensed he felt the same about you...
Why would a guy, if he sincerely cares about you as a woman, his girlfriend want to invite another girl into his life for a one night stand? If he's considerably older than you 8-10 years...I'd run for the hills at his suggestion. Clearly the guy wants you to do more than just "put out" on this all expense paid weekend...
If your psyche and self-esteem can "afford" that, I suppose you could go for it...I just wonder about a self-respecting guy doing that to his girlfriend of a year? Methinks you'll be kicking yourself in the morning if you go through with this...not to mention, I wonder what lovely disease this other girl might be carrying with her to share with you two! Oh what fun!!!!!
Geez...man, I'd run the other way on this one...he has "loser" written all over him if he does this.
Grace
2007-03-28 15:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't due it if your planning on marrying him later on. Otherwise just do it if you feel like it. Personally i'm speaking from a point where i've never done a threesome, so i'm just taking it from my knowledge of relationships i've had that are around this idea of more than just you and your partner.
2007-03-28 15:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats on you but if you do no one at the clubs are really from here so there in the same thing u are. i love vegas its all about fun partying and a great time. personally i have never done it but i dont share but trust me here you wont be the only one
2007-03-30 18:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Tearsa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen good lady. Threesomes NEVER and I respeat NEVER turn out to be a good thing. You will be angry with him deep down inside and it is disrespectful. If you marry him, later in life you will always be bitter.
2007-03-28 15:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will you feel if it looks like or you feel like he is enjoying her more than you? I think this is very dangerous ground to tread on when in a serious relationship. Hopefully she won't have any diseases that he would pass on to you.
2007-03-28 15:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lora, It's your life and your choice. Personally, I prefer a relationship with one man and no intruders!
2007-03-28 15:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can always say no why are u allowing him to controll u hes selfish and why should u agree to do anything that makes u feel uncomfortable
2007-03-28 15:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋