This guy wont leave me alone?

Question

I am sooo mean to him, and whenever i say something sexual(not even at him) he takes it to mean i want to have sex with him. I tell him he's stupid and he's a loser but he still wont leave me alone. What should i do?

Answer 1

Stop leading me on!

Answer 2

Girl I can tell you the best thing to do. That is to tell him that you are a crazy maniac that has a gun collection. You know how to use them and you have already been to jail for murdering a guy that would not leave you alone and use details of things that he does in there making him think that you are talking about wanting to kill him.

Answer 3

Haha, you sound like my g/f, although she hasn't asked me to leave her alone obviously. Anyway...first of all, don't say anything sexual to him and try to avoid it in front of him. Calling him stupid and being mean to him could be taken by him as you liking him (guys just can't see between the lines at times)...anyway, have you straight out asked him to leave you alone? haha. Just start ignoring him, don't talk or even look at him and he should get the message

Answer 4

have you actual looked him in the eyes and said "i dont like you and i dont want to date or talk to you and all those sexual jokes are not meant for you so please leave me alone "

men often take your insults as you hitting on them and the only way to get them to stop being idiots is to be straight forward

if that doesn't work say that if he doesn't leave you alone you will call the cops and he needs to get a life and if he wants a life in prison then he can stick around cus if he doesn't leave your calling the cops

Answer 5

I think he sees your mannerisms as you're interested in him. you know how in second grade when someone likes someone else, they pretend to be mean to them or they pretend to have tons of fight with them? Yeah, well I think he's stuck in that phase and has never experienced maturity because if you really hated him and you were giving off right signals, he should have gotten it by now. But now that what you're doing is apparently not working, I think you should just ignore him. Don't look at him when he's talking and pretend that he's not even there. I think that will work way more effectively than your mean remarks.

Good luck!!!

Answer 6

He's probably is turned on by all your cruel and sexual comments. He probably thinks you're coming on to him with sadistic comments.

Grow up. Stop the sex talk when he is around. Kindly and gently tell him that you are not interested. That is, if you're truly not. You may be what was once referred to as a tease. You want them to want you even if you don't want them.

Answer 7

Dont be mean to him. That makes them think that you have feelings for him. Tell him up front. Like we women do. Just tell him that you dont like him in any way and to leave you alone. Tell him that if he doesnt stop youll go to the cops.
Trust me.
me- best answer!
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Answer 8

Well maybe because you're soooo mean to him he's getting you back by annoying you. I think you love toying with his head and are giving him false signals for the fun of it. Grow up and if you leave him alone and just maybe he will leave you alone.

Answer 9

He likes the reaction he gets from you. Just ignore him. Once he sees that you just don't care about what he has to say, then the fun is over for him. Then again, he might just do it more and more to urke you, so I would just distance yourself from him. Saying sexual comments around him is just feeding the fire, watch what you say so that you don't get yourself into sticky situations.

Answer 10

Quit saying something sexual around him! Try to stay out of his way - he's getting attention from you even though it's not nice.

Answer 11

Make a deal with him. You'll have sex with him once and then he leaves you alone