Some relatives from far away are coming for a visit to my house. I really do enjoy having them here. But sometimes I can be stressed out and busy when having them around. So I am asking for tips and advice on how can make feel welcomed. Thanks in advance.
2007-03-28 08:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by College Kid 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would make sure you have the fridge stocked and plenty of blankets, pillows, etc. and also some activities. Maybe have the DVD set up with a variety of movies they could watch, some books or magazines on the coffee tables as well as brochures for local attractions that you think might interest them. Also, tell them to make themselves at home and help themselves to food/drink, etc. Then you will not be waiting on them hand and foot and they will be a bit more relaxed.
I think if the host/hostess is relaxed, the guests follow suit. If you an uptight basketcase, they will feel the tension and be uncomfortable.
2007-03-28 09:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, everyone gets stressed when company comes, it's natural because you want everything to be perfect. My best opinion, do your best to be a good host. Have plenty of snacks, and nice meals planned. Everyone loves BBQ, so maybe you could grill, it's easy without alot of clean up. Purchase potato salad, chips, and other munchie foods that don't require too much prep on your part. Give them a little tour of the house and let them know to make themselves comfortable, and show them that you've got drinks and snacks so just help themselves. Also, don't stress, it's family. Just be prepared, clean in advance, and have shopping done. Then maybe you can actually enjoy their visit. Board games always seem to be especially enjoyable with a large group, maybe that would be something everyone will enjoy. Good Luck, and remember, it will be over before you know it so enjoy them while you can!
2007-03-28 09:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the time you spend with them count. Tell them you are stressing if you are having a bad day so they don't think they are the problem (even if they are). Dinners at home or a movie together. Spend the family quality time that makes you feel good to be around them.
2007-03-28 08:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they staying at your house? Just making sure they are comfortable and asking if they need anything, like towels or blankets, will make them feel welcome and wanted there. You could suggest things for them to do in the area. Have fun!
2007-03-28 08:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 13:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋