My friends and i would hang out and now they are shunning me out. They exclude me from conversations, mall trips, etc. One day we were talking a lot and the next week they don't talk to me much. I understand I can't hang around a lot because I'm not in their class and the fact that my parents are split so I visit my mom a lot. One time I invited them to stay the night at my house and all of them said they couldn't. I soon found out they spent the night at one of their houses. This has upset me largely. My stepmom says tough it up but you know, you need someone to talk to and trust especially when your very depressed through your parents' divorce. What could I be doing wrong?
2007-03-28 08:48:50 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
so far i like one of the answers :) I am in 8th grade, i broke up with my boyfriend. One of my so called friends know a lot more guys than i do and she always has them hanging out at her house and now all the rest of my friends know them too. But all of my friends are all the kids my age in my block (6 kids)
2007-03-28 09:05:50 · update #1
I'm going through the same thing you are.
Just give it time...
Your so called friends will relized what a special person they missed out on.. YOU!!!
Don't ever think that your doing something wrong cause your not.
I'm going through the same thing and alot of people told me its just that i'm growing up and they still act like little kids, and that probably whats happening to you...
You growing up and they don't relize it.
Your not doning anything wrong... Your just being you and at the end of the day thats all you can be..
I hope this helps....
good luck
2007-03-28 09:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. I send hugs to you. I have been there as well. I had that happen when I was in 8th grade. Later in life I realized it was jealousy on their part because I was bouyant and the guys paid attention to me. I don't know exactly how you act around your friends, but it could be a similar situation. Even if it isn't, you need to make sure the one's you call friends are one's that love you. And it seems like these people are indifferent. Are there other boys and girls to be friends with at your school, in your neighborhoods? Certainly I would explore your other friendship options and find ones that fit right for you.
2007-03-28 15:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably not you, just that you've been gone a bit and maybe they've moved on...try to find some new friends, or better yet, ask these friends what is going on, that you feel left out and you really need them since your parents are splitting up...being honest and velnerable, letting people know when they are hurting us is one of the only ways to deal with it...at least you will know that there is no misunderstanding on your part if they answer you...maybe it will work! good luck...girls can be mean.
2007-03-28 16:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i hate them when they do these...honey ...those ppl can't be ur friends anymore...true friends who wanna be with u always and want u with them to hang out to complete their joyful....and those ppl don't do so ....so ther r not the ppl that u could last with them call them ur friends....find others ...u know..just a good one firend better than bad group ...find some other friend and don't wait for them anymore....u have a long life ..u will meet millions of new ppl again...don't be upset ...i was like u once but now i have a good friends ...so never give up.................good luck
2007-03-28 16:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by batt00ta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry your doing nothing wrong girl you have to get new friends or even better yet get a boyfriend good luck!
2007-03-28 15:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋